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#1
So pit, I like this girl I've been hanging out with and I know the best way to let her know I like her is in person but would sending her a "cute" message be acceptable, or would it just be a little counter productive? Also maybe looking for a girl's perspective on this one, would you enjoy getting a message like "...you're a beautiful person and I really enjoy your company...blah blah" And I know there's a relationship thread and all that but I've seen stupider threads

And YES, it is a cool story, BRO.
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#3
If you're already comfortably talking to her in person you may as well say that in person too.
#4
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you're a beautiful person and I really enjoy your company

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#5
I would!! Do it.
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#6
Unless you're sure she likes you, telling her you like her has a 110% chance of failing.

But hey, at least you have a 10% chance of absolutely guaranteeing failure.
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If you're already comfortably talking to her in person you may as well say that in person too.

This, she'll appreciate it more.
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#9
Nothing says ''I'm a desperate teen that will do anything to have a girlfriend'' more, than telling a girl you like her over the internet.

Don't tell her, show her.
#10
Yah please don't use facebook. People don't know how to talk to people anymore.

I don't use facebook, but I know msn has crippled my abilities to say stuff like that to girls when I'm sober. I only get girls when I'm drunk haha.
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#11
Mayyyybe you can start complimenting her a bit more online, subtly. But ultimately best way is in person; if you seem nervous, she'll think it's cute.
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#15
The Pit speaks the truth.
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#16
Flirt, but don't full on tell her you like her or ask her out if you're not doing so in person. Sometimes it works, but it usually fails.
#17
Wite her a real letter and mail it. I don't know if she will like it but I would bet my left nut that she won't expect it.
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I lol'd. Good ol' 09er humor. You got it bro

TS, I might suggest relationship thread, but this is kind of out there. In general, my poor advice would be to say/do everything that you think matters IRL.
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#20
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The Pit speaks the truth.


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#21
No, it's not hard IRL but the thing is we're usually hanging out with a group not really alone. I'll just ask her to hang out alone sometime soon, I'm pretty sure she likes me since lately she started asking me to hang out a lot. Already hinted at it a few times (took her to a movie and paid for it, etc)
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#22
in a convo in facebook let the conversation get into judging someone's attractiveness, and then say something along the lines of "yeah, like if i met you at a party, i'd think you were really hot" then let that evolve to the knowledge of the fact that you think she's hot, then if she reacts positively, keep progressing, and that'll give you the confidence to talk to her about such in person, and if she reacts negatively, then no large amount of awkwardness shall ensue. this is how two of my relationships have started.
#23
You can try to chat her up online, but asking her out has to be done by phone or in person.

And NO cute messages like "you're a beautiful person and I enjoy your company" or 1 of 3 things will happen (maybe even all )
1. She'll be wearing the dick in the relationship
2. She'll say no because you're the gay friends who makes cute facebook comments
3. She'll think you're a weirdo and disassociate herself
#24
Don't do it! I did pretty much the same thing you're talking about doing... I wish I had asked the pit's advice beforehand... haha
#25
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The Pit speaks the truth.

Well whatever you end up doing,i wish you the best of luck because,when one pit monkey gets laid and shares the experience on the internet,we all win
#27
Holy **** no-one's mentioned fapping.

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#28
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in a convo in facebook let the conversation get into judging someone's attractiveness, and then say something along the lines of "yeah, like if i met you at a party, i'd think you were really hot" then let that evolve to the knowledge of the fact that you think she's hot, then if she reacts positively, keep progressing, and that'll give you the confidence to talk to her about such in person, and if she reacts negatively, then no large amount of awkwardness shall ensue. this is how two of my relationships have started.


Well I know her IRL but I'm a little drunk and I've been debating whether or not to send her a message just for the hell of it.

Lol I guess calling a girl beautiful and telling her you enjoy her company is gay? I wouldn't say it to a lot of girls but if you knew her you would know she would appreciate it.
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#29
Asking to hang out on Facebutt isn't a bad thing. Just say "let's hang out sometime this week, what are you up to Thursday?" Do homework, flirt, dinner, chill, rent a movie, something, and see where it goes. You'll be able to tell if there's chemistry.
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#30
This isn't really about fapping or getting laid (just yet) She's a beautiful and intelligent girl and I feel like we have a deep connection. Plus she plays bass/piano and we jam and we're going to see The Mars Volta next month and probably tripping...there's so much win in this girl that I don't want to lose :}
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#31
Unless she really likes you, that won't work.
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#32
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Unless you're sure she likes you, telling her you like her has a 110% chance of failing.

But hey, at least you have a 10% chance of absolutely guaranteeing failure.


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This isn't really about fapping or getting laid (just yet) She's a beautiful and intelligent girl and I feel like we have a deep connection. Plus she plays bass/piano and we jam and we're going to see The Mars Volta next month and probably tripping...there's so much win in this girl that I don't want to lose :}


Ask her next time you jam. Just don't be fuck up too much, or you either won't remember, or it may seem unreal.
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#34
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Lol I guess calling a girl beautiful and telling her you enjoy her company is gay? I wouldn't say it to a lot of girls but if you knew her you would know she would appreciate it.



She would appreciate the power you just handed over to her. If you tell a girl that you like her straight up you lose the flirting game and all choice in a relationship forming will go to her. Her choice will likely be to take advantage of you then reject you. (I don't care how nice she is or if this is a nice act, it will NOT get you in bed with her.)

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This isn't really about fapping or getting laid (just yet) She's a beautiful and intelligent girl and I feel like we have a deep connection. Plus she plays bass/piano and we jam and we're going to see The Mars Volta next month and probably tripping...there's so much win in this girl that I don't want to lose :}



If you wanna put yourself in the friend zone then do it. There will be no getting laid later if you pull this ****.
#35
Talk to her on the phone all night. She'll fall madly in love with you. I **** you not, bro.
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Well I know her IRL but I'm a little drunk and I've been debating whether or not to send her a message just for the hell of it.

Lol I guess calling a girl beautiful and telling her you enjoy her company is gay? I wouldn't say it to a lot of girls but if you knew her you would know she would appreciate it.

>but I'm a little drunk
>calling a girl beautiful


i see where you're coming from
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Talk to her on the phone all night. She'll fall madly in love with you. I **** you not, bro.

It worked for me
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