#1
Ok, Pit. Here's my issue. As of late, me and my ex have started talking again. Her boyfriend cheated on her for 6 months, and she broke it off with him because of it. I've been helping her get through all of it, but Here's the problem: Her boyfriend is threatening to kill himself.

From what i've heard from her, this guy is a nutcase. It's good to point out that both me and my ex are 17 and 16 respectively, and this guy is 23. Now, he's been constantly trying to get her back. He texts and calls her non-stop, and has done things that could be considered abduction where i Live. And he's been trying to get her to move to another city with him, to have kids and start a family (note: my ex is sixteen. Just for emphasis).

As a friend, i've been telling her not to do this. It's obviously a bad decision, and this guy is constantly harassing her. When she tells him that she wants him to leave her alone, he gets a job at the same place as her, and when she tells him off, he cries.

Now, today, we were talking, and i told her that she needs to break it off with this guy, and i guess that's what she told him. And about 10 minutes ago, she forwards a text from him, saying: "you... really want me to kill myself? Do you think i should"?

This guys a nut, and he needs help. What should i be saying to my ex?
#3
You should be saying to the police: "Do something about it and you'll get 5 donuts for free" and let the police sort that out.
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If he doesn't kill himself, he'll probably kill her. Call the police. He has issues.
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#9
This guy is either an attention whxre or he's crazy in the head and needs to see a therapist.
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call the police is my serious suggestion.
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Can't believe no one told the guy to take it to the relationship thread ... But yeah, call the cops. I'd consider intimidating him .
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Rule #1 - If you really want to die, you don't tell people that you're going to kill yourself. This exponentially increases the chances that someone will 'save' you. People who want sucessful suicides do it quietly.

Second - Let the cops know, let his parents know. That's their issue. It's not your job to save every person that tries to convince you they're gonna off themselves cause they got broken up with.

On a similar note - have you tried telling him that if he does, in fact, kill himself, he won't be able to play all the way through Uncharted 2, which just came out?
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Rule #1 - If you really want to die, you don't tell people that you're going to kill yourself. This exponentially increases the chances that someone will 'save' you. People who want sucessful suicides do it quietly.



Thats makes a LOT of sense but wtf is a 16 years old doing with a 23...she kinda got her self into this
#16
he's not going to kill himself. he's just saying that so she'll talk to him. tell her to just not talk to him. they'll both be fine. this guy sounds like a pussy
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#17
If he kills himself.. Surely there wont be a problem anymore?

If you call the police and they do nothing then he's highly likely to do something much worse.

If he's stupid enough to actually do it though I suggest you let him do it.

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#18
Let him kill himself?

He doesn't have the guts to do it. Probably.
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Rule #1 - If you really want to die, you don't tell people that you're going to kill yourself. This exponentially increases the chances that someone will 'save' you. People who want sucessful suicides do it quietly.

Second - Let the cops know, let his parents know. That's their issue. It's not your job to save every person that tries to convince you they're gonna off themselves cause they got broken up with.

On a similar note - have you tried telling him that if he does, in fact, kill himself, he won't be able to play all the way through Uncharted 2, which just came out?

I agree, You dont tell people that your going to kill yourself. If he really wanted to kill himself, he would not have told you/your ex, and you would not have made this thread or hopefully have begun calling the police, thus leading him to be"saved" from this (probably) mock suicide.
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Thing is, I don't know this guy. But from what she's told me, he's essentially the equivalent of a 15 year old girl. I think he'd do something he'd regret.

If he is the equivilent of a 15 year old girl, Id suggest beating the **** out of him with a baseball bat, since you said that he abducted her and did other things like that.

Whatever you do though, dont go to him yourself(or let your ex go to him either) as he may try to kill you if you try to stop him in person.
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#27
Let him shoot himself in the face. Problem solved.
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If he is the equivilent of a 15 year old girl, Id suggest beating the **** out of him with a baseball bat, since you said that he abducted her and did other things like that.

Whatever you do though, dont go to him yourself(or let your ex go to him either) as he may try to kill you if you try to stop him in person.

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Call his bluff.
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On a serious note... Tell her to call the police and have them sort it out. The cops can put a restraining order on him or arrest him for threats and harassment. Then he can go to jail and whine to a 300lbs. inmate about how he just lost his "love" and him and his new inmate buddy she hold and caress each other in the showers to help ease his pain...
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Thing is, I don't know this guy. But from what she's told me, he's essentially the equivalent of a 15 year old girl. I think he'd do something he'd regret.

Well then look at the bright side - he won't regret it for too long.
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On a serious note... Tell her to call the police and have them sort it out. The cops can put a restraining order on him or arrest him for threats and harassment. Then he can go to jail and whine to a 300lbs. inmate about how he just lost his "love" and him and his new inmate buddy she hold and caress each other in the showers to help ease his pain...

Hes gonna get raped.
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I suggest calling the police seriously.

edit: Seriously, that's illegal, hes in his 20's and shes 16, call Chris Hansen or something.
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He may just be saying he's suicidal for attention. But to be safe, call the police.
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