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#1
I really like one of my good friends. She is nice, funny, caring of everyone, and she is WAY smarter than me, but we have many good and funny times together. We laugh at each others jokes. I've liked her for about 2 months and I do know that she does not know.

Now, last week, her two best friends found out that I like her and they asked me if I really did like her. They both are also my close friends so they did not tell her yet.

Now one of them is telling me to ask her out. I am kind of in a weird spot since I am wondering "Why is she telling me to ask her out?" She told me to try after I told her about last week when I almost asked her after science (which was the last period of the day). And now, she is urging me everyday to ask her.

I really want to ask her. I have a total of 7 friends who know I like her and they all want me to ask her.

I really do not know what to do.
#2
what do you have to lose?

Also if it's her friend telling you that means that girl is telling her to tell u this.

So do it.
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#3
Peer pressure and liking her not enough for you? geez.
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#5
Don't try to force the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing, just take her out to a dinner/movie date or something and see how the night progresses.
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#6
Just ask her. Getting rejected is way less painful that wondering what could've been for a long time. Trust me, I've made that mistake before, and I'm not going to do it again.
#8
What's the worst that can happen? She'll say no.
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#9
Ask her in instead.
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#12
Just give her an invitation to the pants party.
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#13
Just do it brah, if she declines so what? Seriously, do it now.

Wondering about doing it gets you nothing but unanswered questions.
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#14
Do it. Stop being a pussy. That's my job.


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Don't try to force the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing, just take her out to a dinner/movie date or something and see how the night progresses.


+Alot.

Take her to t'cinema.
Then buy popcorn, cut a hole in the popcorn....You see where this is going.

No but really, take her to see a film.
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#16
You want to ask her out. Her friends want you to ask her out. Your friends want you to ask her out. She probably told her friends to tell you to ask her out because SHE probably wants you to ask her as well. Do it man, EVERYTHING is in your favor here.
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#17
She is probably telling your friend to tell you to ask her out. Do it.
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#18
if i really like a girl i ask her out...if her friends would be telling me to do it i would deffinetly ask her out...
#20
THis guy's obviously a troll or a dating noob. Either way, my answer is "Don't open that ****ing bo.... Now look what you've done!" Stay away from that shit man. Friendships are ruined this way.
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#23
man just do it. im not exactly the most trustworthy person (i have little experiance with girls as i am a 14 year old metalhead, one of 2 in my school coincidentally, and i happen to like cannibal corpse *which apparently is a factor*) but ya even im not dumb enough to miss THAT hint

now im jealous of you
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#27
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You want to ask her out. Her friends want you to ask her out. Your friends want you to ask her out. She probably told her friends to tell you to ask her out because SHE probably wants you to ask her as well. Do it man, EVERYTHING is in your favor here.



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Don't make the same mistakes the rest of us have. Do what you gotta do and get it done quick. I asked out a girl i was friends with and had a crush on for years. Everything has worked out in the two years we've been dating. We know each other, theres nothing really bad to find out about each other because we know each other so well, and you're assured that you get along. i'm just rambling now because i just got done with a statics test and my brain is fried. Just do it; its always worth it.

P.S.- Girls put out quicker when you're their friend for a long time before dating, because they know you and trust you better than some random guy they just met.
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#28
Dont just go up and ask her out, hang out with her( just you and her) a couple times. take her out to eat. if that goes well then ask if she would like to watch a movie with you some night. If she makes an excuse its probably not going to happen, and then you can just go on with your friendship. Is it does work then just keep hanging out and then once you bf-gf thing is kinda established then ask her out, or make it official or whatever.

also, girls like to talk, and if her friends are tell you to go for it, Im guessing that they know something that you dont. so just work slowly and see what happens. if it doesnt happen, its not the end of the world
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#31
Just do it or somebody else will and then you'll regret missing out. You have nothing to lose from asking her and if she says no there are plenty of other girls out there.
#32
This thread speaks for itself, ****ing do it.
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#36
use the Relationship thread.
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#38
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Just ask her. Getting rejected is way less painful that wondering what could've been for a long time. Trust me, I've made that mistake before, and I'm not going to do it again.

this and what bendystraw said... I mean ask her, but ask her on a date or something.. when I liked one of my friends, I only told 2 or 3 peeps, one of them told me to ask her out, the other two told me not too.. I think the clue is that her best mates are telling you too + being rejected is not nearly as bad as you think.. It hurts for a week or so (and can **** up chances with other girls who ask you out the day afterwards ) but still you'll get over it. If it all ends well, then you'll be wondering why you were nervous
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#40
grab your balls and do it
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