Poll: Are One Night Stands OK? (Read OP)
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View poll results: Are One Night Stands OK? (Read OP)
Yes
674 78%
No
188 22%
Voters: 862.
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#1
Okay, so me and my friend got in an argument earlier today. So, he said one night stands aren't OK to do, and I was like, WHAT THE ****? Okay so here's the scenario...

You're playing a gig, and you notice this hot girl checking you out. Let's say "Hot Girl" is single. After the gig, you and your bandmates decide to drink a little and relax. The girl from before comes to you, asks you if you wanna come to the bathroom. You go, she unzips your pants, performs oral sex on you, and asks if you want more.

So, seeing as YOU are single, and SHE is too...is there really a problem with it?

TL ; DR -
Vote in the poll so I can prove my friend wrong and show him there's nothing wrong with one night stands (if you and the girl/guy are both single).
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#3
did we really need that example? I'm not against them myself, and I don't see why anyone would be, for that matter.
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#4
Besides the fact it involves no love, and is pretty sleazy imo. I guess you can do it...

..but I have no comment whether or not it is ok to do.
#7
As long as it's safe I myself would no doubt fall into an emotional quagmire though.
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#9
I don't think it's a problem, if someone else chooses to take the risks and have a one night stand it's none of anyone else's business.
#10
If everyone understands that it's a one night stand, then yeah.

I'd prefer to go to friends with benefits, at least.
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#13
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Oooo TS is using a personal experience, he's a ****ing rockstar!

No, it's a ****ing example.
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#14
well the way one night stands USUALLY work is when one person thinks that the sex meant something while the other was just horny and leaves A.S.A.P
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#15
I want to say no, but at the same time if that happened I'd have a very tough time stopping it from happening.



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#16
well it depends, how much do you want to steal from her and devalue one of the greatest signs of love you can give another person? and also, how many complications do you want after words, because when has sex anywhere outside of marriage ever helpped your life? if its has helpped and hasn't complicated relationships i'd be suprised...

the real question isn't "Is it right?" or "Can I get away with it?" because in his mind every man makes up what is right and disregards what's right to others. the real question is "Is this a wise thing to do? acording to the crap that was in my life before this, the responsibilities i'm acountable for, and where i want my future to go, is this really wise?"
#17
no, but only because they take too long, one hour standa are much more preferable as you can do a few in one night. Efficiency FTW.
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#18
yeah, why not? Nothing wrong with meaningless sex in my opinion
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well it depends, how much do you want to steal from her and devalue one of the greatest signs of love you can give another person? and also, how many complications do you want after words, because when has sex anywhere outside of marriage ever helpped your life? if its has helpped and hasn't complicated relationships i'd be suprised...

the real question isn't "Is it right?" or "Can I get away with it?" because in his mind every man makes up what is right and disregards what's right to others. the real question is "Is this a wise thing to do? acording to the crap that was in my life before this, the responsibilities i'm acountable for, and where i want my future to go, is this really wise?"


You seem to be spouting Christian propaganda...

GTFO
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#22
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You seem to be spouting Christian propaganda...

GTFO

Or he's just speaking intelligently,


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#23
don't give the girls contact details just incase you get her preg. don't wanna be burdened with child support nd shit
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As long as it's safe I myself would no doubt fall into an emotional quagmire though.


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#25
i put no just to prove your friend right
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#26
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Or he's just speaking intelligently,


no any time someone starts talking about how bad sex outside of marriage is, it's pretty much garunteed to be Christian propaganda, also the assumption he's under that sex is some uber magical thing reeks of it too.
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#27
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PWNBA6XHCKo
listen to the lyrics
that is my answer
In case any of you can't be arsed, heres the chorus
I don't wanna love you
consider this a one night stand
the bus it keeps on rolling on
but make no mistake girl, we'll be doing it all night long
in the morning I'll be gone

You get the picture?
#30
there's nothing wrong with it if you're both single, but you probably wouldn't find me doing it so...
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#31
Quote by Kid_Thorazine
You seem to be spouting Christian propaganda...

GTFO


and God reigned dowm from the heavens with a single word... "Penis"


and oh how the people glorfied this "Penis", constantly fellating it and putting said "Penis" on a pedestal..but after too long, the people became bored, and prayed to their lord, that he come up with a new idol..

..God heard their calls. With a thunderous roar, he burst out "VAGINA" and every man, woman, and child trembled before the word. Echoing time and time again, it reigned mighty, and there was a new challenger to the pedestal...it was "VAGINA", "VAGINA" screeched throughout the land...soon, the "Penis" would lose its rankings, and "VAGINA" took its place...Now, every man, woman, and child puts this "VAGINA" on the pedestal.


...and all of its slang forms too, yo.
#33
I wouldn't say they're morally wrong as long as both parties are honest about it, but they're definitely a slutty thing to do.
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#34
I used to be anti-one night stand, but after dating, you go through a bunch of crap you really just don't need to to have sex (well, it happens).

As I've decided that I don't want to get married or have kids, I've warmed up to the idea of one night stands, and have even partaken.

There's nothing wrong with them.
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#35
One night stands are amoral. They are neither morally good nor morally bad.

Anyone who argues that they are morally bad are arrogant moralist. I'm also suspicious of anyone who wishes to judge aspects of my behaviour which do not hurt anyone else.
#37
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Haha he just said oral sex is one of the greatest signs of love...


I know, it;s hillarious, a blowjob is pretty much the equivalent of a handshake nowadays, rimjobs on the other hand...
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#38
Quote by Kid_Thorazine
I know, it;s hillarious, a blowjob is pretty much the equivalent of a handshake nowadays, rimjobs on the other hand...


Exactly...Rimjobs mean only one thing, true love.
#39
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#40
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57 said it's okay


you disgust me


I hypothetically go out and sleep with someone. We're both honest about it and were protected.

We indulgence in mutual hedonism which results in no cost to anyone.

You have the audacity to claim the moral authority over my actions.

You disgust me.