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alright guys, i usually never go to the pit with problems but i feel like this one time i can trust you, ok, i'm talking the girl i like right now and she says that some guy asked her out and she doesnt know what to say, should i gather the balls to say what i feel? because i don't want to ruin our friendship + put the extra burden on her that i like her as well, but on the other hand i really don't want to lose her...

i'm shaking right now because its messing with me so much
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#3
This happened to me.

I told her how I felt.

She said she was never going to say yes to the other guy because of the way she felt about me.

We're together

Does this help?
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#4
Tell Her, you'll regret it if you don't.
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#6
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Well this is ackward.
But yeah tell her how you feel. Good luck man!



+1. This is kinda ackward now that you mention it
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#7
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This happened to me.

I told her how I felt.

She said she was never going to say yes to the other guy because of the way she felt about me.

We're together

Does this help?

you have no idea how much man...

just hope the same thing happens
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#8
Tell her, usually that works. But telling her wouldnt ruin the friendship, timing will. FInd the right timing
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#10
Man said it before. Get drunk and tell her if she plays with it good shit, If you get a bad reaction play it off as a drunken joke.
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#13
tell her it will haunt you otherwise. garunteed.
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Well this is ackward.
But yeah tell her how you feel. Good luck man!


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#16
Tell her that you like her and ask her out, but don't be a "nice guy" (aka emotional dumpster; she has her friends for that) about it, and don't tell her your true feelings or she'll throw you in the "just friends" pit and you won't have a chance with her. Good luck!
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#17
I remember the times I've told girls how I felt about them

...I'm single & have been for a couple of years now

Half the reason being I hate myself & the other half of the reason is I think there's one girl that got away that I wish I had, & no one else seems as great as they did
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Man said it before. Get drunk and tell her if she plays with it good shit, If you get a bad reaction play it off as a drunken joke.

i gotta go find good ol' uncle Jack for this one
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#22
The age old words, "Its better to regret something you did rather than something you didnt". Seriously man, even if she says no itl only be akward for a little while, people forget, and if she says yes... score. another quote "the answer will always be no if you dont ask."
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#23
If you step back a bit and look at the situation, you should realize that this isnt really a big deal. I mean there are worse things going on in the world right at this moment. Just do it, life is too short not to take a little risks here or there.
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If you step back a bit and look at the situation, you should realize that this isnt really a big deal. I mean there are worse things going on in the world right at this moment. Just do it, life is too short not to take a little risks here or there.

This is what I realised once, & since then I've taken every chance
#25
Tell her, at least you'll know. Better to have said something and risk her saying no, than to sit by and always wonder about what could have happened. If you two are good friends, even her saying no won't ruin a friendship, if anything you two will have a new understanding.
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#26
You should use the RT because that is where girl problems are to be asked about, and because you won't get 2 pages of retarded responses
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#27
Either she told you about the other guy to see if you are interested in her or she told you about the other guy because she doesn't know how you feel and doesn't care.

Tough call.

I guess it's time for you to find out one way or the other.

You don't want her calling at 1am and telling you what they did together do you? That would be awkward.
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#28
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Either she told you about the other guy to see if you are interested in her or she told you about the other guy because she doesn't know how you feel and doesn't care.

Tough call.

I guess it's time for you to find out one way or the other.

You don't want her calling at 1am and telling you what they did together do you? That would be awkward.

i've already decided im going for it regardless, she's not here right now but when she's back i have to tell her for every reason said above, thanks guys

(P.S. didn;t use the relationship thread because it's a 50/50 shot i'll get a response usually and i figured if i did it here i would get a quicker response because i was going to tell her right then and there
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#29
You my friend, get the Quackward duck

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i've already decided im going for it regardless, she's not here right now but when she's back i have to tell her for every reason said above, thanks guys

(P.S. didn;t use the relationship thread because it's a 50/50 shot i'll get a response usually and i figured if i did it here i would get a quicker response because i was going to tell her right then and there


It's more like 90% guaranteed that you'll get a reply in the RT. And when you do, it'll be from people who know what they're talking about, and I'm willing to bet that they would disagree with the advice given by most people in this thread.
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#32
"even the most skilled shooters miss 100% of the shots they dont think"

remember hearing that before and it stuck with me....maybe it applies here?
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#33
Do NOT spill your feelings to her.

It'll put you in the friend zone.

You NEVER spill your feelings to a girl unless she does it first and/or you're in a committed relationship.

You have to make real sure this girl likes you in order to make this risky move you're thinking of doing.

If and/or when she says no don't feel bad. You're just doing it wrong :P
#34
dont be a pussy, then she wont even consider the other guy, what you're doing right now is acting like a wuss, that isnt attractive at all
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#35
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Do NOT spill your feelings to her.

It'll put you in the friend zone.

You NEVER spill your feelings to a girl unless she does it first and/or you're in a committed relationship.

You have to make real sure this girl likes you in order to make this risky move you're thinking of doing.

If and/or when she says no don't feel bad. You're just doing it wrong :P

then i lose her because she says yes to the another guy, im not taking that ****ing chance with her
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#36
Done it yet, fag?
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Done it yet, fag?

take it easy, she's not even here yet
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i've already decided im going for it regardless, she's not here right now but when she's back i have to tell her for every reason said above, thanks guys

(P.S. didn;t use the relationship thread because it's a 50/50 shot i'll get a response usually and i figured if i did it here i would get a quicker response because i was going to tell her right then and there


and if she says no, she doesnt like you like that, tell her same, somebody darred you, and hope she doesnt think youre a jerk because of it.

EDIT: or try my sig out
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and if she says no, she doesnt like you like that, tell her same, somebody darred you, and hope she doesnt think youre a jerk because of it.

EDIT: or try my sig out

i will use that as plan B (your sig because if she says no im not backing away from it, it's not the way i want her to think of me)
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