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So this girl keeps messaging me, telling me about how fucked up her life is. A few months ago her parents were "sending her away". She never went anywhere. Then her brother hated her guts and wished her dead. She put up new pictures with him on her myspace the day after. Now she says she has cerebral palsy. I don't know if she's telling the truth, but in cases like this, it's best to assume she is, since calling her a liar would be pretty damned ****ed up if she really did have it (though went to school with her for 2 years and never saw even a symptom). She's always depressed...ALWAYS and it's really getting on my nerves. I can't say anything to cheer her up, and she never believes that anyone cares about her. It's a spiraling vortex of self-pity and attention seeking. Now here's where the problem really is. Normally, I'd just not talk to her, but she's my love interest's best friend and it fucking sucks.

So, what should I do?

Inb4rapefapcoolstorybroicumbloodetc.


Edit: I'm aware that she likes me, and it might be attempts to get between me and the girl, however, that doesn't really change anything. I can't just outright tell her to GTFO, because the girl I like would be pissed.
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#4
she likes you and is doing what she can to get attention from you


pretty simple, **** block yourself why dont you

edit nvm read the second half of your post

just deal with it/ignore her, just pay attention to your girl/interest
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rapefapcoolstorybroicumbloodetc.


This.
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#10
What it seems like is that you want her mouth to stop moving and saying overly dramatic things. There is only one thing that will plug it up good. Your boner. Go for it, son.
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#11
ignore her? pretend your paying attention to her, smile at her, and walk away... she just wants someone to listen to her shit... she probably doesnt expect you to solve her problems
#12
You must be in high school....
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#13
Tell her to cut the emo bullshit and say that her life isn't that bad. It probably isn't, and if she tells you that it is, send her a picture of some starving african kids to remind her of her privileged existence.
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#14
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I'm not, but she is.
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I'm not, but she is.


And I'm interested.

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#17
want her to stop lying? call her on her bullshit. not in a douchey way, just act confused and ask a bunch of questions that point out the inconsistencies in her story.
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want her to stop lying? call her on her bullshit. not in a douchey way, just act confused and ask a bunch of questions that point out the inconsistencies in her story.



I've tried. But i'm not around her enough to call her on this last one.
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#19
I have someone EXACTLY like this around me at the moment. we used to be really good friends up until highschool and then we lots contact what with being at different schools and stuff, 2 months ago she sent me a text message asking if i could name 3 people who cared about her so that she didn't have to kill herself, i drove like a ****ing mad man to her house, and found her sitting on the couch. she claimed she "never sent that!"

some people just love attention, and don't care if they get it in ridiculously twisted ways. tell her to **** off, and drop contact.
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some people just love attention, and don't care if they get it in ridiculously twisted ways. tell her to **** off, and drop contact.



I explained why I can't do that. Thanks for reading the OP.
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#21
what she needs is a good dose of reality. tell her shes full of shit and needs to grow the **** up. tell her the truth, nothing more nothing less. its the only way
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I explained why I can't do that. Thanks for reading the OP.


I did read the OP. that is my solution. the girl you like really isn't going to care if you're friends with her best friend or not, especially when she pulls shit like that.
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Beaten to it by a long shot, bud.
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#25
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I did read the OP. that is my solution. the girl you like really isn't going to care if you're friends with her best friend or not, especially when she pulls shit like that.

Yeah I agree. You shouldn't have to put up with her bullshit, her friend might see it as passiveness on your part. Maybe you could talk to the girl you like about her, she might feel the same or have some advice on how to deal with her better.
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So this girl keeps messaging me, telling me about how fucked up her life is. A few months ago her parents were "sending her away". She never went anywhere. Then her brother hated her guts and wished her dead. She put up new pictures with him on her myspace the day after. Now she says she has cerebral palsy. I don't know if she's telling the truth, but in cases like this, it's best to assume she is, since calling her a liar would be pretty damned ****ed up if she really did have it (though went to school with her for 2 years and never saw even a symptom). She's always depressed...ALWAYS and it's really getting on my nerves. I can't say anything to cheer her up, and she never believes that anyone cares about her. It's a spiraling vortex of self-pity and attention seeking. Now here's where the problem really is. Normally, I'd just not talk to her, but she's my love interest's best friend and it fucking sucks.

So, what should I do?

Inb4rapefapcoolstorybroicumbloodetc.


Edit: I'm aware that she likes me, and it might be attempts to get between me and the girl, however, that doesn't really change anything. I can't just outright tell her to GTFO, because the girl I like would be pissed.


Stop being such a pussy.
#28
Had the exact same situation...just ween her off contact from you (like don't respond to her messages as much) and not in a mean way, talk to your love interest about it (if you're on that level with her) because chances are SHE'S annoyed by it just as much. Or just tell the love interest that you like the girl fine, but she's just to dramatic and see where that conversation leads. That way, the special girl knows your situation, so you can you more jarring methods of losing contact like not responding, telling her to stop or the classic rapefapicumblood. (Couldn't resist.)
#29
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Stop being such a pussy.



Yeah, and if she really does have cerebral palsy it'd be SOOOO manly to tell her to **** off and quit lying.
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#30
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thank you sir haha. my acts (of making a mistake the first time) worried me, thought i may have caused massive spamage of OMG LOL!!! whata n00b! someone already posted it!!!!
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sorry, could help it



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#34
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Yeah, and if she really does have cerebral palsy it'd be SOOOO manly to tell her to **** off and quit lying.


You wouldn't have to make shit threads atleast if you did.

No one wants a depressing person around them bringing them down to their level and there are plenty more fish in the sea.One day you will look back and realize alot about this situation.
#35
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You wouldn't have to make shit threads atleast if you did.

No one wants a depressing person around them bringing them down to their level and there are plenty more fish in the sea.One day you will look back and realize alot about this situation.



this. the novemberer speaks words of wisdom beyond his age.

i personally wouldn't in any way be interested in some girl if it meant i had to put up with her friend's bullshit every day dragging me down and depressing me. either tell her friend to **** off and the girl you like understands, and its cool. or tell her friend to **** off and the girl you like thinks you're a dick and doesn't want anything to do with you. do you know what that means? that means the girl you like was a bitch, you're better off without her. you don't wanna be whipped by her AND her friends do you?
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Edit:^ You are still under the assumption that she is lying without a doubt. I believe she is, but if she isn't I would be the biggest asshole in the world.


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You wouldn't have to make shit threads atleast if you did.

No one wants a depressing person around them bringing them down to their level and there are plenty more fish in the sea.One day you will look back and realize alot about this situation.



You are seriously the epitome of cool. Can I come to your 13th birthday party?
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You are seriously the epitome of cool. Can I come to your 13th birthday party?


do you want to listen to the advice you're being given in this thread, or do you want to just keep quoting people and making smart ass retorts? If the girl has cerebral palsy, what does that have to do with you? nothing. who gives a ****? you not talking to her doesn't mean you have to go "SHUT UP YOU STUPID BITCH! I DON'T CARE!" it means you could just, you know, stop answering texts?
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#38
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Edit:^ You are still under the assumption that she is lying without a doubt. I believe she is, but if she isn't I would be the biggest asshole in the world.


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#39
She is seeking sympathy and she wants to feel sorry for herself.
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do you want to listen to the advice you're being given in this thread, or do you want to just keep quoting people and making smart ass retorts? If the girl has cerebral palsy, what does that have to do with you? nothing. who gives a ****? you not talking to her doesn't mean you have to go "SHUT UP YOU STUPID BITCH! I DON'T CARE!" it means you could just, you know, stop answering texts?



Do you have any friends? Seriously? Would you really ignore someone if they told you they had such a horrible disease?


Edit: Well she started going into it about how she has no friends. Blah blah blah I ended up telling her to quit acting like a 12 year old. So I guess that solves it for better or for worse.
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