#1
Has anyone here ever had a friendship with someone of the opposite sex where you got so close with that person that you guys were practically brothers / sisters? I'm just asking because I'm this way with someone and it feels strange because I don't know anybody who's ever done this.
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#3
I was like that with the woman I'm with now for a while.We were close friends,then friends with benefits,then we went back to just friends for a bit before actually committing to a relationship.

It's an odd thing that's for sure.

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#4
Nope, you're the first person in history to have a good friend of the opposite sex.

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#5
No, nobody in the Pit has had that, ever. We're all so cool that any woman we get even remotely close to automatically becomes our own personal plaything to do as we will with.

Ok, that's not true, but I do have a boner now.
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#6
I have, we were really good friends, then we tried a relationship but decided that it would ruin our friendship, so we went back to being friends
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#7
I did once, loved her to bits as a friend, then started dating her.

she left me when she said it was weird, because it felt like she was shagging her brother.

My reply didn't help

I said, "I know but i don't mind sis."
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#8
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No, nobody in the Pit has had that, ever. We're all so cool that any woman we get even remotely close to automatically becomes our own personal plaything to do as we will with.

Ok, that's not true, but I do have a boner now.

On the contrary i have become like a brother with a girl, then we got in a fight, Then two weeks later........... i guess you are right she became "My own personal plaything."
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I was like that with the woman I'm with now for a while.We were close friends,then friends with benefits,then we went back to just friends for a bit before actually committing to a relationship.

It's an odd thing that's for sure.


Are you JD?
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#11
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On the contrary i have become like a brother with a girl, then we got in a fight, Then two weeks later........... i guess you are right she became "My own personal plaything."


Was it the kind of fight that ended in a kidnapping?

My story is the opposite, my current lady completely hated me until about three months ago, until I brought her round to my way of seeing things. I brought her round hard. I brought her round all over her face.
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#12
I'm best friends with this guy whose dad went to college with my dad, and THEY were best friends. We've pretty much known each other since we were born. Or at least since I was born since he's a few months older.
I guess we think of each other as cousins since he already has a sister and she doesn't like me...
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#13
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I guess we think of each other as cousins since he already has a sister and she doesn't like me...


Bring her round through the power of sandwiching.
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#14
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#16
i have one like that atm. i don't mind lol in a way it feels weird but then ur like.. mehh Feck it, it's not too bad.
like i talk to her about anything, i see her as a sister, but sometimes as a brother haha, i talk about pussy, tits, and everything i guy's talk is about to her. don't find it weird.
even better.. she has massive nockers =D
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#17
Not that close, but I have no problems with building regular friendships with girls.
#18
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#19
There's one problem with such situations, TS: the very nature of man.

What does a best girl friend want? Someone she can have serious discussions or have a laugh with, someone to comfort and hug her when she's sad, someone to hang out with when she's not in a relationship, someone to ask for advices.

What does the male counterpart want? Exactly the same... plus eventually, sex.
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#20
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I did once, loved her to bits as a friend, then started dating her.

she left me when she said it was weird, because it felt like she was shagging her brother.

My reply didn't help

I said, "I know but i don't mind sis."


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#21
To quote sleepless in seattle, men and women can't be friends, the sex always gets in the way.

I've been there twice by choice, both were with gals who were, for a lack of better words, something I'd rather not get mixed up in....a little insecurity on ones part, and the other was just too different from me for anything lasting to work, plus both had boyfriends, and I don't act as a cheat enabler no matter how bad she wants it, sorry, bad karma with me is a nono. I consider guys who help other gals cheat just as bad as the women who do the cheating (it takes 2 to tango). I'm all about avoiding drama.

Things have gotten better since I've stuck to one night stands...rather than "hehe, I think your cute, but let's just be friends (shows titties), no, I did not mean that that way..." bullshit, or turning around to see two other suitors giving me evil looks behind my back, instead I have Her = "I think you're hot/you remind me of my ex/whatevers" Me = "(looks in eyes and can see she wants it and makes first move)"......much more honest transaction there - I want to ****, she wants to ****, no B.S. 100% honest.

It's better (and more fun) to seem mysterious.
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#23
I've been like that for the last 5 years with my best friend, but there has always been an underlying romance there. She finally told me she wanted a relationship with me, and even though that should probably make me worry, it doesn't because we could be around each other all day and still enjoy each others company.

So be careful TS, your sister might want to gnaw on the tip
#24
What I meant was, am I the only one who has had a woman close so close to me you actually called them your sister?
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#25
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What I meant was, am I the only one who has had a woman close so close to me you actually called them your sister?


Yes.

Her name's Jacqueline.

She's my sister.
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#26
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I did once, loved her to bits as a friend, then started dating her.

she left me when she said it was weird, because it felt like she was shagging her brother.

My reply didn't help

I said, "I know but i don't mind sis."


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#28
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I did once, loved her to bits as a friend, then started dating her.

she left me when she said it was weird, because it felt like she was shagging her brother.

My reply didn't help

I said, "I know but i don't mind sis."





oh god that's a great one!!!


for me...humm let's see. To be completely honest with you, in my entire life I have only had 3 "Friends" that were female, and i use that term loosely. Unfortunately for me, my nether regions and primal bestial lust seems to always get the better of me. long story short, I've ****ed all but one of them outta my life, it really is kinda sad. No one ever mentions the downsides of **** buddies, but I assure you, they go south pretty quickly (ifyouknowwhatimsaying)
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#30
Yeah she is pretty cool, but I can't say I've ever actually called her my sister...
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#31
Kind of, i have a good female friend and people have said we seem like we could be brother and sister, not so much because we are really close, but we are similar in alot of ways.
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#32
One of my best friends growing up was a chick. We were always really tight and she was actually my girlfriends best friend back in highschool.

Now shes my girlfriend.

Yep.
#33
yeh, but i wanted to screw her
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