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#1
Pit, i have an eenie meenie problem. No serious answers are required. But it'd be nice to have a few. My family says i can go to Germany to complete my studies. Im engaged, my fiances parents say i can take her with me if i want. and they'll pay for half of the expenses (i still dont get why).
She says she'll be happy coming with me.
But should i do this? I mean im taking her away from her friends and family, but she wont tell me if she wants to stay or not.

what should i do?
#3
Ask her. If she doesn't give a sure response, suspect drugs.
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#7
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i knew someone would ask.
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You're engaged and you're sixteen? At least you live up to your username.
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#9
You're 16 and you're engaged???
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#10
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Engaged at 16... epic fail.


Gotta agree with this. Seems like far too young an age to get engaged at, how did you even afford a ring or anything?
#11
Hey, plenty of people marry their high school sweethearts, it's not abnormal. As for the question, do you even want to go to Germany?
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#12
All you people reeling at his being engaged: you just wish you could have sex.


Do it. She gets a free year abroad. What's she got to lose?


WEBBDIT: And since it seems you all weren't around for the thread: it's an arranged marriage.
#13
Hmm your 16-17 and engaged and you want to drag your gf halfway around the world. I've got 50$ that says you 2 breakup before the weekend.
#14
You guys dont read my threads. Mine was damn long too.

Please answer my question ! :p
#15
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All you people reeling at his being engaged: you just wish you could have sex.


Do it. She gets a free year abroad. What's she got to lose?


WEBBDIT: And since it seems you all weren't around for the thread: it's an arranged marriage.


Ah, a cultural thing, well that's fine by me since its a cultural thing, if it was just on a whim, that would have just been... I dunno... bad?
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#16
Ok ill explain it.
Arranged marriage.
Good Families.
Not forced on either.
engaged for a month.
I can go.
She can too.
I dont know if she'll be happy.
#18
Rich prick....

Wait, did I really just say that?
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#19
TS is from Pakistan and possibly muslim so I suspect an arranged marriage.

I read ur thread on how happy u were when u got engaged.
Well if she wants to go, take her.
BUt she probably just can't decide between u and friends.
Or maybe shes afraid u'll be mad at her if she rejects ur invite.
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#20
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Ok ill explain it.
Arranged marriage.
Good Families.
Not forced on either.
engaged for a month.
I can go.
She can too.
I dont know if she'll be happy.


Well you could have opened with that. Why don't you just ask her directly whether or not she wants to and then just talk to her about it? Chances are you'll get a better answer from her than from us.
#21
-Go to Germany.
-Considering you're both 16, you can drink there.
-Get drunk.
-BANG BANG BOOM BOOM
-She's happy.


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#23
I did ask her, she said shed be happy, but im not too sure.
She could be lying just to keep me happy.
what do the pit instincts say? if i dont get a logical answer, im taking her.
#24
Germany?Of course she'll be happy...that is,if she thinks like me.

Are you going to stay in Germany for the rest of your life?If not then you can just tell her that you'll be returning to your country.
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#25
4-5 years dude, but then again i will be visiting. i'm getting engaged in around 10 years :p
#26
Would have helped if you had put in all those extra details so people wouldn't rip on ya. (myself included, sorry man)
#27
Quote by epcifail
You guys dont read my threads. Mine was damn long too.

Please answer my question ! :p


You were the one whom's parents fixed you up with a girl to marry, right?

Bring her with you, if she says she'll be happy, rely on that fact.
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Would have helped if you had put in all those extra details so people wouldn't rip on ya. (myself included, sorry man)


sorry...
Its cool


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You were the one whom's parents fixed you up with a girl to marry, right?

Bring her with you, if she says she'll be happy, rely on that fact.


Yep, i guess thats how its going to be.
#29
Quote by epcifail
4-5 years dude, but then again i will be visiting. i'm getting engaged in around 10 years :p


Eh,just take her.I don't think that there's one person in the world who doesn't want to see new places or who wouldn't want the opportunity.

Edit:Just watch those Germans,they may want to involve you in some schiza(sp?)




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#31
Ok. Here's what you do. Take her somewhere, get her in a good mood, and then (God forbid) you TALK to her. Really talk, understand her feelings about it all, really get her fears/excitements out there. Once you've got it all out in the open, you can decide whether she wants to go or not.
#32
Quote by webbtje
All you people reeling at his being engaged: you just wish you could have sex.


Do it. She gets a free year abroad. What's she got to lose?


WEBBDIT: And since it seems you all weren't around for the thread: it's an arranged marriage.
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edit: If you don't think she'll be comfortable, talk to her about it. Try and get a genuine answer from her, a straight one. Tell her you won't be offended by anything she may say.

And there is no serious harm in trying, surely? If things don't work out, the option of going back home is always there. It's not like your parents' are kicking you both out into a scary, big-assed world.

Just take it one step at a time. Sorry I couldn't be of more help.
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#33
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Ok. Here's what you do. Take her somewhere, get her in a good mood, and then (God forbid) you TALK to her. Really talk, understand her feelings about it all, really get her fears/excitements out there. Once you've got it all out in the open, you can decide whether she wants to go or not.


Ill do this. Good answer! thanks.

Off to sleep for now though.. 2 am here. Will check for more tomorow.
#35
Quote by epcifail
Ok ill explain it.
Arranged marriage.
Good Families.
Not forced on either.
engaged for a month.
I can go.
She can too.
I dont know if she'll be happy.


DO IT!!

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#37
Tell her that she doesn't have to go if she doesn't want to. Say you'll understand if she needs to stay.
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#39
You should learn how to share.


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#40
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good suggestions.. from most of you atleast.
And to the dude who asked if we speak german. I learnt it while i was in canada (7years). Didnt like french much so left that language. Germans seem angry while speaking.. i liked that

she learnt it before my.
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