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Ok well im stuck on what to do.

I was gonna hang with my girlfriend on New Years Eve, then i got invited to a party of this chick she really hates. My girlfriend was invited too, but she doesnt wanna go. Now shes really annoyed at me cause i wanna go to this party. The party is mostly just my other friends.

Forgot how to add a poll....

I really need help on this.

EDIT: There is no convincing her to go to the party, although she never shows that she hates people, she hates her. The host doesnt know that though.

Oh and the party isnt very big, about 15 people
Last edited by maiden03 at Dec 29, 2009,
#2
Get a new girlfriend at the party?
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Quote by maiden03
Ok well im stuck on what to do.

I was gonna hang with my girlfriend on New Years Eve, then i got invited to a party of this chick she really hates. My girlfriend was invited too, but she doesnt wanna go. Now shes really annoyed at me cause i wanna go to this party. The party is mostly just my other friends.

Poll soon.

I really need help on this.


What is more important to you, your girlfriend or the party?
#7
Don't go to the party, and don't hang out with your girlfriend. Stay home, get high, and fap.
#8
girlfriend


unless your dumb and/or a jerk.

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#9
You're letting a woman call the shots? This is bad, she's going to be looking for the right to vote next. Be a man and stand up to her.
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#10
If you had planned to go to that party from the start, I'd say talk your girlfriend into going anyway. She doesn't have to like the host to have fun.

But you had planned to hang out with her, so I guess you'll have to stick to your original plan unless you want to risk pissing off the lady.

I understand you, though. New Year's Eve is for partying, there are many other occasions for hanging out as a couple.
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girlfriend


unless your dumb and/or a jerk.


This.

Seriously, not only did you make plans with your GF 1st, but it's a party thrown by someone your GF hates? Why did you even consider going?
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#15
this whole situation deserves a stack

but i cba to do one.

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If you had planned to go to that party from the start, I'd say talk your girlfriend into going anyway. She doesn't have to like the host to have fun.

But you had planned to hang out with her, so I guess you'll have to stick to your original plan unless you want to risk pissing off the lady.


Pretty much this. If you made plans with your GF first, you have to keep them or you're the asshole here.
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#17
spend it with gf, it's not about standing up against her, also you'll probably have a better time with her rather than if you go to the party
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#18
well, if that girl at the party hates you, then why would you go? On the other hand you could spend it with your girlfriend and maybe get something in return


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#19
Go out with your girlfriend. SERIOUSLY.

It's safer that way.
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This.

Seriously, not only did you make plans with your GF 1st, but it's a party thrown by someone your GF hates? Why did you even consider going?

Heaps of my mates are going to this, and she was invited, and ithough she would put it past and come.
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Play videogames in your mother's basement. You seem socially skilled enough to do that.



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Heaps of my mates are going to this, and she was invited, and ithough she would put it past and come.

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GIRLFRIEND

girlfriend > minor friends in my book
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#27
You're not attached at the hip and she doesn't own you. Being in a relationship doesn't mean you don't spend any time apart.

I don't see how any adult in an adult relationship would see this as a serious problem because honestly, any adult wouldn't even have an issue with it.
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#28
I'll repeat my earlier question. What is more important to you, your girlfriend or the party?

If you love her very much and couldn't stand to lose her, then obviously don't push the risk of forcing an almighty argument that may result in you splitting.

If however she's pissing you off recently and you've been looking for an excuse to blow her out, go to the party, take her with you, act friendly towards the hostess and watch the relationship come to an end.
#29
Ignreo your gf and dont go to the party be in the pitt for all your life!
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#30
Quote by maiden03
Heaps of my mates are going to this, and she was invited, and ithough she would put it past and come.


You seem you'd rather go to this party so try to convince her.
You had plans with her first but New Years is a time for partying.
Don't let her control you but don't disregard all the other advice in this thread.
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You're not attached at the hip and she doesn't own you. Being in a relationship doesn't mean you don't spend any time apart.

I don't see how any adult in an adult relationship would see this as a serious problem because honestly, any adult wouldn't even have an issue with it.


Whaaa?
I'm an adult and if I purposely didn't spend New Year's Eve with my wife, preferring instead to spend it with my mates, she'd go mental, and rightly so, because I'd go mental if she did the same. And as far as I know, most adults who are in a relationship that I know also feel the same way.
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That's what you call a serious problem...? Kids these days...
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this whole situation deserves a stack

but i cba to do one.


Someone never had a girlfriend... This things happen every now and then.
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GIRLFRIEND

girlfriend > minor friends in my book

They arent minor friends im going for, id be with my 2 best mates.

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I'll repeat my earlier question. What is more important to you, your girlfriend or the party?

If you love her very much and couldn't stand to lose her, then obviously don't push the risk of forcing an almighty argument that may result in you splitting.

If however she's pissing you off recently and you've been looking for an excuse to blow her out, go to the party, take her with you, act friendly towards the hostess and watch the relationship come to an end.

My best mates and her are probably equally important, but in different ways.
#36
Lie to her. Pretend your mother died and that's why you can't hang out with her on new years eve. You might have to concoct some zombie-related story next time she visits your family, but for a while you'll be golden.
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My best mates and her are probably equally important, but in different ways.


OK, look at it this way.
If you don't go, are you likely to lose your friends? If the answer is no, then the option of 'not going' holds no risks.

If you do go, are you likely to lose your girlfriend? If the answer is yes, then the option of 'going' holds pretty bad possible consequenses.

So logicaly, it makes sense for you to suck it up, be a man, and either stay home or go somewhere else with your girlfriend.

You're a couple, you're supposed to support each other and make such decisions together, and if either one of you really hates an idea, then it's unfare for the other to be expected to go along with it just to please their partner.
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They arent minor friends im going for, id be with my 2 best mates.


My best mates and her are probably equally important, but in different ways.

Well are you havng sex with those friends?

Nah i see where your coming from. If you already made plans with your girlfriend then your only shot is to convince her to come along. It would be a dick move to ditch her but it wouldn't be very fair of her if she just expected you to sit around at her place on NY's because she has some petty grudge.

Besides, chances are the host of the party will be the first one drunk and unconscious in a another room, possibly being date raped.
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