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#1
I'm not exactly sure if this goes here because I've never posted a thread here before, but I figured since it's the pit I'd give it a shot.

Anyways, a little over a year ago I started to become friends with this girl and we became really good friends. At first I wanted her as more than friends--she's extremely attractive, funny, and really down to earth. We can just have a good time doing stupid things I'd usually do with my guy friends. We can even play video games together. Well as time has progressed we've become extremely close, I guess deserving the title "best friends". I mean I even stay the night at her house. But I buried my feelings for her, never telling anyone and even dated other girls. She would always tell me about how she didn't like my girlfriends, no matter who they were. Well I dated one for a while and just now ended it. Now that I've ended it with her, my feelings for my bestfriend are unburrying themselves.

So I decided I'd spill the beans. And I got one of my friends to talk to her. Not once did she deny liking me, but she said she wouldn't want to ruin our friendship. I even talked to her about it and got the same thing. And I really can't stop thinking about her!

What do I do?
#4
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#5
I have been in your spot, tell her,

There is actualy nothing to lose, at worst, she will say no, become awkward for a couple of weeks and hopefully, if you two are really good friends it will stay like that.

On the other hand if she does like you, WIN :P
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#6
If she won't hold your hand then you hold her throat.
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#7
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This.


Or just man up and confess it yourself?
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#8
Relationship thread.
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#9
****s sake people dont tell girls you like them.

And yeah, you're in the friendship zone. Congratulations. Take it to the relationship thread.
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#10
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****s sake people dont tell girls you like them.

And yeah, you're in the friendship zone. Congratulations. Take it to the relationship thread.

Just curious but you wouldn't, why?

Not being dicky, but im interested in your opinion xD
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#12
Get smashed, spraypaint that you love her on her driveway then go round her house, ask her to finger herself for you and puke on her little brother, it's the only way


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#13
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Just curious but you wouldn't, why?

Not being dicky, but im interested in your opinion xD

Because girls muich prefer finding you naked in their bed, smeared in chocolate sauce and whipped cream.
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#15
Pics of said best friend!
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She had her period.

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#17
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Just curious but you wouldn't, why?

Not being dicky, but im interested in your opinion xD


You shouldn't because if you're in the friendshipzone all you have is tension between you and a girl, saying you like her removes *all* the tension unless she truly, absolutely, disneymovie, likes you (which she probably doesnt if you're in the FSZ though). You also dont come off as alphamale, but more needy, which is an incredibly turn off.

You dont ever see james bond, indiana jones or han solo telling girls awkwardly that they like them. That's because it's weak. And people dont want to see weak.
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#18
Ask her out, if you don't hear the word yes, within a second. Rape her


and her family


Really though it's probably best to stay as friends
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#19
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You dont ever see james bond, indiana jones or han solo telling girls awkwardly that they like them. That's because it's weak. And people dont want to see weak.


Kensai's right. Man up and fight a bear in front of her.
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Neopowell, that's because you are a pumped-up sex offender.
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You're exactly the kind of person who'd have sex in a bar drunk
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#20
Question. What kind of bear is best?

Kidding, but question, alright so if she does like me how do I make a move that wouldn't be awkward? I feel like doing anything with her would feel strange at first. Do I make a ballsy move and do something risky, or just something suttle?
#21
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Kensai's right. Man up and fight a bear in front of her.

Better yet, fight a bear that's holding a shark.
#22
Say exactly this:


"Ask me about my wiener!"
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Back when I was a teen, I was making out with this girl, when I had the bright idea of putting my hand inside her panties.

She had her period.

I'm scarred for life
#23
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Dick in a box.

This.
But seriously, you've just been Friendzoned. I'm sorry for you, but that's how wit is. Go with the flow, even though it'll be somewhat awkward.
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Better yet, fight a bear that's holding a shark.

+Infinity.
Nah. Don't try to force it.
#24
Originally posted by MarkyMark8609
Get smashed, spraypaint that you love her on her driveway then go round her house, ask her to finger herself for you and puke on her little brother, it's the only way


Inbetweeners ftw

But yeah, you're in the friendzone matey.
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#25
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Better yet, fight a bear that's holding a shark.


That deserves a double hell-yeah.

For a triple hell-yeah, do it in shades while smoking.
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Neopowell, that's because you are a pumped-up sex offender.
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You're exactly the kind of person who'd have sex in a bar drunk
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#26
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You shouldn't because if you're in the friendshipzone all you have is tension between you and a girl, saying you like her removes *all* the tension unless she truly, absolutely, disneymovie, likes you (which she probably doesnt if you're in the FSZ though). You also dont come off as alphamale, but more needy, which is an incredibly turn off.

You dont ever see james bond, indiana jones or han solo telling girls awkwardly that they like them. That's because it's weak. And people dont want to see weak.


I second this. I've only told one girl I liked her-- my sophomore year of high school. She was moving anyway, and I figured I needed to do it. She was gracious about it, although I'm sure she was violently shrieking in her head. It's not that I regret doing that, just that I think I could've handled the situation better. Now, my current girlfriend (of 4 years) I simply told we were going out. I don't necessarily recommend this abrasive style, since I used up the one out of a billion times when it would work and anyone else who tries it is destined to fail.

In any event, the key is: never throw yourself at a girl. Not at the beginning. She's a girl, not a volcano goddess requiring a virgin sacrifice; play it cool. You don't want her to know you want her. You want her to have to want you. If that makes sense. Devotion, commitment, dedication. Those are things that come into play after you've netted the fish. Good luck, though. The friend-zone tailspin is a notoriously hard obstacle to overcome.
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#27
Avoid inbetweeners situations at all costs.

Don't glorify this girl so much. Think about where you want it to go, i.e. serious long term? Cos if you JUST want to shag her that'll ruin your friendship.
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#28
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Avoid inbetweeners situations at all costs


What are you on about?

If he follows my advice above she'll be frothing at the gash and he'll be getting stinky fingers!
#29
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Friend zone

You're in it

Amen, brother!
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#30
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What are you on about?

If he follows my advice above she'll be frothing at the gash and he'll be getting stinky fingers!

This is not the time for vaguely obscure references.

Wait, what am I saying? It's ALWAYS time for vaguely obscure references. Also TS, just sort of flirt with her for a bit and see what the response is. Don't be blindingly obvious but girls are good at picking this sort of thing up
#31
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You shouldn't because if you're in the friendshipzone all you have is tension between you and a girl, saying you like her removes *all* the tension unless she truly, absolutely, disneymovie, likes you (which she probably doesnt if you're in the FSZ though). You also dont come off as alphamale, but more needy, which is an incredibly turn off.

You dont ever see james bond, indiana jones or han solo telling girls awkwardly that they like them. That's because it's weak. And people dont want to see weak.


Point very well taken, i have never told a girl directly that I like her, i kind of let it just err, roll? xD
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#33
I have been FZ'd before. It can be gotten out of. Here's the thing though: Girls are a lot more perceptive than you give them credit for. You usually don't have to tell them you like them. In fact you shouldn't; they probably already know. For example, a have a thing for one of my best friends who I've known for 6 years. I'm quite sure she knows I like her, though I have never told her, and as far as I know she doens't like me (she might, I'm just notoriously bad at picking up on social cues). But its not awkward between us at all.
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#35
Dude just go for it the worst she can say is "NO".
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#36
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Oh my...
Just ask her out, make it obvious you don't want to go out just as friends, but don't go completely overboard either.
Ask her on a date
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Oh my...
Just ask her out, make it obvious you don't want to go out just as friends, but don't go completely overboard either.
Ask her on a date



Bullshit. Get her alone and kiss her. Then tell her this;

"You have no idea how long I've waited to do that."

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#38
wash your hands of the whole situation, remain friends, realize that there are plenty o fish in the sea, go for her best friend instead.
trust me i watched my friend go through the same situation for two straight years, obsessed with the same girl, he lost a lot friends due to the fact that he couldnt get over this girl, and whomever talked about her or joked with her was a complete asshole according to him. the only thing he got out of the whole thing was a very tightly secured niche in the friendzone, remained a virgin, and has never had a gf cuz he cant see past this one girl.
so forget about dating her, remain friends, and remember what you have learned from this whole ordeal.
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#40
Don't be a puss, TELL HER!! Lots of people don't understand that if they keep their feelings for someone in the dark nothing will ever happen. No relationship, nothing. And it's not like they are able to read your mind. Tell her kid, you have to.
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