Hello Everyone,
First of all, I apologize if this is not the right part of the forum. If its not, let me know and I'll post it there and delete this one.
I am often very frustrated with my playing. Its not what I want it to be. So I figured I would ask people who knew what they were doing what I can do to get where I want to be. SO here are the videos.

How do I get from this (this is me):
to this (Divine Day):

I'm looking for things wrong with my technique, what guitarists I should study to get to the point that the guitarist of Divine Day is at. That kinda thing. Thanks so much for your comments in advance. I'm sure you can understand the frustration of not being as good as you would like.