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#1
So, Pit, recent events have had me rethinking my definition of what 'love' is. I thought I knew, but now I'm not so sure, and I was wondering if anybody had any insight on this matter.

This isn't just a question for the more mature members of the Pit, by the way. Resident spotty virgins are more than welcome to give their opinions/speculations as well. And I did searchbar, so STFU.
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#4
A lot of people say "you just know", but that bugs me. I honestly can't imagine any emotional state that I could be in for which I wouldn't have even slight doubt. I'd always be thinking "sure, it feels like love, but what if I meet someone tomorrow that makes me feel ten times more in love?"

To summarise: I haven't an f-ing clue.

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#5
When your big head starts overriding the decisions your little head is making.
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#6
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#8
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#9
if you have to ask, you're not there. if you're making this thread, you're definitely not there. when you're in love, you'll do anything for her to make her happy. you'll be thinking of her all the time, and you'll be longing to spend time with her. you'll be thinking of random little things she does that make you so happy, and not the huge ones. you'll remember the little things at dates that mattered, and not the dates themselves. you'll enjoy spending time with her more than having sex with her.

thats how you know. btw, i love my girlfriend!!
#10
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Yea this


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#11
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When your big head starts overriding the decisions your little head is making.


I like this answer.

It sounds terribly cliche, but I think it really is when someone else's happiness means more than your own. Human beings are pretty selfish, it's how we're hardwired, so making genuine sacrifices isn't a natural thing for us to be doing. Or maybe that's just me...
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#12
How do you know when you're really in love?
Do violins play when you're touching the one that you're loving?

(Know reference, get cookie.)

Also, just to be honest and annoying: You just know.
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#13
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A lot of people say "you just know", but that bugs me. I honestly can't imagine any emotional state that I could be in for which I wouldn't have even slight doubt. I'd always be thinking "sure, it feels like love, but what if I meet someone tomorrow that makes me feel ten times more in love?"

To summarise: I haven't an f-ing clue.


I was gonna say the same thing
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#14
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When your big head starts overriding the decisions your little head is making.




Gotta say this, if you can outthink your better half you're on the right path.

Though, I dont know what love is truley meant to be like.. Is wishing you were with one person for 2 years close enough? I don't know, but damnit I wish I had gotten to be with her

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#15
I really don't know. I keep feeling like I'm in love with someone now but then I'm so guarded that I keep talking myself out of it. I'll think, "Wow, I really do love her..." then that'll go to, "Wait a minute, no, that's not possible. You haven't known her that long..."

I want to be in love but at the same time, my mind won't let me believe it.
Knowledge speaks, but wisdom listens.

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#16
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Yea this



It'll be ok. We'll meet the right people eventually. It just takes time. Once you meet that person, you'll feel the most amazing feelings. I thought that I did, but I know it can be so much better. You'll be elated most, if not all of the time. They'll mean so much more to you than you could ever imagine. You'll love them, and they'll love you.

We'll get there in the end. We all do.

It'll be alright Hartman.

#17
I was thinking about that too.. I've got a boyfriend for 4 months now and I just find it hard to say I love him. I mean what's 4 month's in a livetime? How do you know you're gonna stay together? I do really like to be with him, think about him etc but to say I really really love him, it's just hard to say
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#18
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It'll be ok. We'll meet the right people eventually. It just takes time. Once you meet that person, you'll feel the most amazing feelings. I thought that I did, but I know it can be so much better. You'll be elated most, if not all of the time. They'll mean so much more to you than you could ever imagine. You'll love them, and they'll love you.

We'll get there in the end. We all do.

It'll be alright Hartman.


I'm holding you to that

If I die in 40 years time a sad lonely old man, I'm haunting the shit out of you.

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#19
You will see the trees, not the forest.

figure that one out
#20
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You will see the trees, not the forest.

figure that one out




I thought it'd be the other way round. Where 'trees' are all the smoking hot babes around, and 'forest' is the one girl who's more important than anything. And you love her even though she's the size of a forest, or something...
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#21
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I'm holding you to that

If I die in 40 years time a sad lonely old man, I'm haunting the shit out of you.

You won't be an old man in 40 years.
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#23
This whole 'you just know' answer seems to be very popular, but how do you know? Is it like a little voice in your ear? Does your body feel different when you're around him/her? What are the clues?
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#24
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This whole 'you just know' answer seems to be very popular, but how do you know? Is it like a little voice in your ear? Does your body feel different when you're around him/her? What are the clues?

Bloodlust, amongst other feelings.
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#25
Love isn't my friend at the moment. I fell in love with a close friend of mine, just after spending more and more time with her she was just always on my mind. Literally, first thought every morning and last thought every night. If I just randomly saw her in town my legs would just turn to crap and it'd feel very weird. She always made me smile whenever I saw her. Then, I got the courage to ask her out. She said yes. It blew me away. I can't explain how I felt. Imagine playing on stage with someone like Queen or Bon Jovi or your favourite band ever then times it by as big a number as you can... It's just incredible. But then we broke up after a while.

I can't give a definition of "love" cuz it's a mix of many emotions but that's my experience in it. After you've been properly in love once, you'll know if the next person is just a crush or not.
#26
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Bloodlust, amongst other feelings.


Ahh yes, the desire to slay a mountain of men to impress your beloved. I've felt that one many a time. I still have the bloody axe to prove it.
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#27
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You won't be an old man in 40 years.

Sorry mate, but society deems it so

You're still a young whippersnapper to me though

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#28
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This whole 'you just know' answer seems to be very popular, but how do you know? Is it like a little voice in your ear? Does your body feel different when you're around him/her? What are the clues?

You just know.
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#29
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This whole 'you just know' answer seems to be very popular, but how do you know? Is it like a little voice in your ear? Does your body feel different when you're around him/her? What are the clues?

Honestly, one day it just hit me and I knew I loved her. subjective brah, you can't complain.
#30
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Honestly, one day it just hit me and I knew I loved her. subjective brah, you can't complain.


Subjective indeed. I've always found it in little things, like a tiny shared moment that makes you realise 'wow...I love you.'
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#31
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I really don't know. I keep feeling like I'm in love with someone now but then I'm so guarded that I keep talking myself out of it. I'll think, "Wow, I really do love her..." then that'll go to, "Wait a minute, no, that's not possible. You haven't known her that long..."

I want to be in love but at the same time, my mind won't let me believe it.


Once you can't talk yourself out of it you're probably there.
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#32
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Once you can't talk yourself out of it you're probably there.


I think that'll only happen when she's finally in my arms.
Knowledge speaks, but wisdom listens.

When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace.


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#33
You can say you love her when you can eat her poop

But seriously, it's a happiness, selfless thing. I'm currently not in love with anyone, so it's harder for me to make the definition clear.



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#35
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You can say you love her when you can eat her poop

But seriously, it's a happiness, selfless thing. I'm currently not in love with anyone, so it's harder for me to make the definition clear.



I R ALONE


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Neopowell, that's because you are a pumped-up sex offender.
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#36
When you wake up next to her and your first thought isn't 'shit! leg it!', that's when you're in love.
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#37
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if you have to ask, you're not there. if you're making this thread, you're definitely not there. when you're in love, you'll do anything for her to make her happy. you'll be thinking of her all the time, and you'll be longing to spend time with her. you'll be thinking of random little things she does that make you so happy, and not the huge ones. you'll remember the little things at dates that mattered, and not the dates themselves. you'll enjoy spending time with her more than having sex with her.

thats how you know. btw, i love my girlfriend!!



I agree with this statement 100% therefore I believe this is that answer you are looking for TS.
#38
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I agree with this statement 100% therefore I believe this is that answer you are looking for TS.


Pretty much. I fell in love with a girl a while ago, and we're still together, so I didn't really think about it. I met someone else last week and realised I wasn't feeling the same about my current girl as I used to. Or maybe I never did. I've been in love before, and everything in that paragraph you quoted is true, so I guess I'm not in love anymore.

I hate breaking up with people.
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#39
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Pretty much. I fell in love with a girl a while ago, and we're still together, so I didn't really think about it. I met someone else last week and realised I wasn't feeling the same about my current girl as I used to. Or maybe I never did. I've been in love before, and everything in that paragraph you quoted is true, so I guess I'm not in love anymore.

I hate breaking up with people.

You don't know what you've got until it's gone.
#40
Feelings are hard to describe and explain. Imagine describing happiness to somebody who had never had the feeling before. You could just say "When you feel good about something" but that's just like saying "When you care about someone" in this situation. I guess Love is just the pull that you get to someone when you know that they are really going to make a difference to your life, when they become another big section of your life instead of just a small part. Imagine your life on a pie chart, I'd say love is when that person's section becomes as big as your family's section.

I think I've been in love. But I guess I'll never know 'till I feel something that tops those feelings.
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