Poll: Do you plan on getting married?
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View poll results: Do you plan on getting married?
Yes, some time.
163 75%
No, never.
53 25%
Voters: 216.
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#1
Just wondering.

Some people seem to be quite engrossed with the idea. Personally, I would not do it. It just seems too stupid and when I look around, I see very unhappy married couples.

Opinions and thoughts?
#3
Yep.

If people have an unhappy marriage, it's because they're not compatible and rushed things. People need to spend some REAL time together getting to know eachother etc. That's the point of dating someone in the first place; to find out if you're compatible with another person and could spend your life with them. I don't think people invest enough time in the dating process or don't take it seriously enough which results in shitty marriages and inevitable divorce.

Now, I'm not saying that other circumstances can make marriage difficult (finances, work, inlaw family members, cultural/ethnic ties etc.) but if you put the time/effort into the dating process you can figure out whether you two would be able to withstand these issues.

/imo
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#5
I'm gonna go with probably...
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#6
Why would I wanna be part of the basic working unit of conformed society.

I'd rather have a female life-partner and make babies with her...and get high.
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#11
Wearing a dress and have everyone tell me I'm pretty for a whole day would be fun but I don't want to be somebody's wife, so no, I'd never get married.
#12
No, no woman can tie me down.
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#14
Definitely.

There's a possibility I'll be engaged by the end of the year, the way things are going.
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#15
I'm not particularly keen to. Largely because it's a gigantic waste of time and money, I don't like the institution and think that the laws around marriage are fucking ridiculous. I'm also not confident in my ability to be a partner for anyone.
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#16
sure, if I ever find a woman that is okay with the fact she will be second to the music I listen to and create, plus I spend most of what I make on gear... not gonna happen
#17
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#19
I love love, but I won't get married, I would love to have a female partner with whom to live and whom to love, but marriage( I spent 1min trying to type this word) seems like a waste of A LOT OF money and A LOT OF time, and what for? A binding legal piece of paper? Love's good enough without that kind of shit.
#20
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#21
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I'd love to get married, picking out a dress, planning the wedding, having a partner.

Well if I wasn't already taken...


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Well actually, when has that ever stopped me before?


(The last line was a joke)

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#22
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Well if I wasn't already taken...


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Well actually, when has that ever stopped me before?


(The last line was a joke)

OT: I would, and I would very much like to eventually.


Haha, well thankyou, I think
#23
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#24
The real question is: does anyone plan on marrying me?


No? Didn't think so.
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#25
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Now, I'm not saying that other circumstances can make marriage difficult (finances, work, inlaw family members, cultural/ethnic ties etc.) but if you put the time/effort into the dating process you can figure out whether you two would be able to withstand these issues.

/imo


Ahhh...if only this was true....

It's a good start, having a good relationship and a partner who is your 'everything' don't get me wrong. but as people get older and develop they change..... so the person you have 10 years down the road isn't the same one as you started out with....

Sometimes it's a good thing, sometimes a bad thing... but either way, it happens...
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#26
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Haha, well thankyou, I think

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#27
I don't really care. My parent's aren't married and they have a fine relationship, so I guess I was bought up knowing that marriage isn't a requirement for one. If the girl wanted to then I possibly would, but personally I have no plans or need to get married. If you love someone you don't need a sheet of paper telling you that you do. Marriage to me has always seemed a bit distrusting. It's like you don't believe the person loves you until they're signed a contract saying so, which has always seemed wrong to me. You shouldn't need that to tell you the person loves you, and if you do then your relationship isn't working well, and marriage won't save it.
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#28
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Ahhh...if only this was true....

It's a good start, having a good relationship and a partner who is your 'everything' don't get me wrong. but as people get older and develop they change..... so the person you have 10 years down the road isn't the same one as you started out with....

Sometimes it's a good thing, sometimes a bad thing... but either way, it happens...

As sad as it is, I have to agree. It takes a lot of work to grow together as your marriage goes on than to grow apart.
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#29
WHOOP! My first post since a month!

Yeah! I want to get married and start a family.
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#30
Yes - given the right situation.

With less people getting married, bringing in 'couple' laws which means if you spend such a time with someone in a relationship, when you break you're suddenly entitled to half their stuff which i find completely stupid.
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#31
No interest in it. Actually, the very idea is altogether creepy.
#32
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I don't really care. My parent's aren't married and they have a fine relationship, so I guess I was bought up knowing that marriage isn't a requirement for one. If the girl wanted to then I possibly would, but personally I have no plans or need to get married. If you love someone you don't need a sheet of paper telling you that you do. Marriage to me has always seemed a bit distrusting. It's like you don't believe the person loves you until they're signed a contract saying so, which has always seemed wrong to me. You shouldn't need that to tell you the person loves you, and if you do then your relationship isn't working well, and marriage won't save it.


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#33
Yes, but none of that big wedding shite, it'd be the registers office for me
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#35
If I'm in a long-term relationship I might for the legal benefits.
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#36
I don't plan not to, but I'm hoping that by the time it seems at all likely, it'll have stopped seeming such a depressing idea.
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#39
I can't see myself getting married. I don't think I want to, but that might change with time.

I think IF I do end up wanting to get married, it will be later in life. In my late thirties or forties. I think that I will get married out of a sense of duty to my parents.
#40
Where is the "already am" option?
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