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Dirt Bag
5 5%
Bad Friend
6 5%
Victim of Circumstance
85 77%
All three
15 14%
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#1
Hello Pit, long time no post

I had a crazy night last night and I wanted some unbiased (HA!) opinions on if I'm a dirt-bag, a bad friend, a victim of circumstance, or all three.

So I'm out with a group of friends (a couple, a guy and girl who came out together, and my roomie) and we end up back at my place. Me and my roomie have a well-maintained apartment and the common area/living room is covered in my artwork and scattered guitar stands. I do tattoo design for friends, although I'm not a tattoo artist.

Anywho, the girl who came out with the guy had been throwing me looks and hints here and there, but at that point in the night I had just assumed she was flirty and that she was dating the guy she came out with. She's super interested in playing he guitar, so I gave her a quick lesson away from the group.

Eventually we end up on the blacony (cigarette break) and she leans in for a kiss. I held her off and asked if she was dating the guy she came out with. She said no, they were friends and had talked about it so it was crystal clear. GREEN LIGHT!!!

So half an hour of making out later I get this text from my roomie (who invited the guy out to begin with) saying that it wasn't cool, to which I replied they were friends and he knew it. My roomies reply: "True, but he's my guest and its making him uncomfortable." This girl is gorgeous guys, a 9/10, easy. I'm having willpower issues.

So I tell her we should confront the guy, and we do. He gets offended, says this is bullshit, and storms out. My roomie goes to his room ans shuts his door, shaking his head at me. She stays the night

I feel like a dick, but I can't put my finger on why. I think mostly becuase I offended my roomie.

So Pit: am I a dirt-bag, a bad friend, a victim of circumstance, or all three.

Sorry about the text wall BTW.
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Last edited by gizmodious at Jun 30, 2010,
#2
Crazy...
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#4
I had a similar situation with a friend. It wasn't as involved as this one seems. The girl I got with probably wasn't as hot either. You'd think the captain of the high school cheerleading squad would be hotter, but nah man.
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#5
Somehow I thought this was going to be about either a pregnancy scare at McDonalds or getting jumped. I am disappoint so you're a dirt-bag, a bad friend, a victim of circumstance, adopted, you caused global warming, and you touch yourself at night.

But really, none of the above, he'll get over it.
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If she is as hot as you say, then I honestly don't see a problem.

+1
exactly. sometimes you just have to do want you need to do. they are to me just being dramatic about it.
#8
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She said no, they were friends and had talked about it so it was crystal clear. GREEN LIGHT!!!

His problem now. You're in the clear TS.

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#9
Right on guys.

Chuckles, I gotta agree with you on that bro. He's obviously got a thing for her but hasn't been able to push it to the next level.
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#10
I reckon if you knew the guy had some massive crush on the girl, and they're both your friends, then it may have been a bit out of order.

Still, you didnt really do anything wrong. And the guy didnt do himself any favours.

Hope it all works out for you all.
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#11
they wern't going out, he's not a close friend who you knew was interested in her, therefore, you have no reason to feel guilty.
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#13
TS, you're in the clear.

The First Commandmant is clearly "Thou shalt not cockblock a buddy."

Call that f*cker back and rip him a new one. He's the bad friend.
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#14
TS you're such a bad, bad person!


Now really, your roommate's friend was probably on his period.


And your roommate too.
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Right on guys.

Chuckles, I gotta agree with you on that bro. He's obviously got a thing for her but hasn't been able to push it to the next level.



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#17
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#18
I usually read these things and call the TS a douche bag.
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#19
The other guy is just pissed he is clearly friend zoned whilst your room mate probably wanted a shag too.

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#20
You played your cards, the other dude folds, and you win the girl.

Enjoy it ts, and tell the haters to go throw themselves in a river.
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#21
Hit it like the fist of a god.

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#23
its happened to me before too TS, proabably about 2 weeks ago actually. women will lie, men will lie, we will lead each other on. basically, it revolves around what the girl wants, and in this case, it was you!

dog eat dog. TS you are fine. if anything its her fault for leading him on.
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#25
Obviously your friend tried to hook up with the girl and failed.

Based on her immediate interest in you, it was obviously not because of her moral standards.

In other words, your friend is probably a pussy, and couldn't get with the girl.

You are definitely in the clear, and enjoy your girl. If your buddy gives you any shit, beat the **** out of him, because he lost his chance.
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#26
Where's the option for 'In this situation I am a' : normal guy.

There is nothing wrong at all with what you've done, so fair play!

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#27
none of them, really. I would have done the same. The guy was probably the easily offended type, although perhaps you were a bit of a dick, because you didn't really NEED to confront him. You could have just reined it in until they left.
#28
yeah TS, you were in the right
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#30
Tbh I wouldn't do it and I'd be pissed if my friend did it to me, although in the situations I've been in which are a little bit similar to this, the liking of said girl is previously known about. But as is I guess it's fine. I wouldn't say go and kill the other guy, but I'd say that it was cool for you to carry on seeing and having awesome sex with the chick.


if she wasn't so hot i'm pretty sure my opinion would be different which is weird.
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#31
If I was you I would probably think I did the right thing, if I was the guy who came with the girl I'd think you were a jerk.
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I'll make sure to hit it rough next time You guys rock pit thanks for cutting through the BS.

My roomies totally on the Rag still hahahaa
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#33
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hi 5.

how was teh SEX


10/10

Total vixen, we started around 1 and finished up about 4
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#34
She was the one who made the first move, and you even held her off to make sure you weren't screwing anything up before you kissed her. You did nothing wrong.
#37
Talk about ackward.
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