Poll: Tell her boyfriend?
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View poll results: Tell her boyfriend?
Yes, tell him. She deserves the punishment, he deserves the truth.
36 40%
No, dick move brah. It's not your business, fack off.
53 60%
Voters: 89.
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#1
Let's say, hypothetically, that you and a girl start to like each other, a lot. However, she has a boyfriend. Because of this, you and are don't get too close, but have intimate conversations, and she promises she'll break up with him soon and she really really likes you.

You trust her and wait for the day to come soon. After a few weeks she texts you telling you she cheated on her boyfriend. And made out with some other guy. You're justifiably angry and she says she's sorry, so sorry, and she plans to tell her boyfriend soon.

It's about a month later. She hasn't told her boyfriend. Do you anonymously tell him what happened, knowing full well that there's a possibility you're the only one who she told and she might know it was you who told him?

EDDIT: Obviously being 'led on' and 'strung along' was a bad decision. It'd be saah-weet if that wasn't the main topic, making me feel bad. and more pertaining to the poll.

I do not plan on dating this girl after telling the boyfriend anonymously (or not telling him )
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#2
Not my problem, why would you get mad?

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#3
she seems like a bitch that isnt worth your time. like ghandi said "Bitches aint nothin' but hoes and tricks"
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#4
Do it ******.


Seriously, she'll come right back to you. PLus, she cheated on you too.
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#6
Don't tell the boyfriend, but make damn sure that she does.
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#7
i'd tell her boyfriend if he was a friend. otherwise, i like to stay out of people's business. i wouldn't let her lead me on like that though.
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#8
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i'd tell her boyfriend if he was a friend. otherwise, i like to stay out of people's business. i wouldn't let her lead me on like that though.


Obviously. .. hypothetically. .. I d- would regret being led on like that.
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#9
Ummm. Don't **** up relationships asshole. Not even if its a girl you like. Don't do it.
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And that's what happen's when you go for people who are taken, it just always doesn't work.
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#12
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Ummm. Don't **** up relationships asshole. Not even if its a girl you like. Don't do it.



I'm just gonna let some one else deal with you.
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#13
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Obviously. .. hypothetically. .. I d- would regret being led on like that.

You still believed after a few weeks that she would dump her boyfriend?
#14
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I'm just gonna let some one else deal with you.


Yeah.... I just realized this is hypothetical so ummm yeah.....
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#15
Stay away from the trifling bitch. She's already gonna break one guys heart, she's working on yours, and she's bringing a 3rd member to the party.

Do you really want to date someone with that much drama involved?
#16
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Yeah.... I just realized this is hypothetical so ummm yeah.....


It's not actually hypothetical. But I would think that while I didn't make the best decisions, perhaps her cheating on her boyfriend contributes more to ****ing up a relatioship.
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#17
Ignorance is bliss. Don't tell him.

Also, she's just using you as a safety net in case she and her boyfriend break up.
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#18
Yeah, I'd tell the boyfriend, I'd call her a *****, then purposely thrust my hips in her general direction and watch her languidly slither over like a cobra, yearning to give me a blowjob out of respect for her duties as a faithful slut.
#19
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It's not actually hypothetical. But I would think that while I didn't make the best decisions, perhaps her cheating on her boyfriend contributes more to ****ing up a relatioship.

To be honest. I would go to and listen to the relationship threads advice which would go something like- Don't cheat with a girl to break them up/ Don't Break up a couple even if you like the girl real bad/ If she doesn't leave her bf for you then she is obviously not committed.
Breaking up a couple is an assholeish move and I can't stress this enough. I'm honestly trying to help you out. If she says she wants to be with you but isn't then she isn't committed. If you like her and want to be committed then you both need to be committed. You AND her. If you or her are just looking to **** then.....
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#20
Tell him, man. I'd want someone to tell me if I was being cheated on, and I bet you would too. She's seems like a bitch anyways.
#21
I'd definitely tell the boyfriend if he was a friend of mine, but if he wasn't a friend, I'd just back away from the situation quietly.
#22
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To be honest. I would go to and listen to the relationship threads advice which would go something like- Don't cheat with a girl to break them up/ Don't Break up a couple even if you like the girl real bad/ If she doesn't leave her bf for you then she is obviously not committed.
Breaking up a couple is an assholeish move and I can't stress this enough. I'm honestly trying to help you out. If she says she wants to be with you but isn't then she isn't committed. If you like her and want to be committed then you both need to be committed. You AND her. If you or her are just looking to **** then.....


Thanks, but please read the edited OP. I've already talked to the relationship thread about this by the way. I do not plan to date her.
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#23
If I were him I would want to know. I voted yes.

If you were him, would you want to know? This is your vote.

Also, you might consider that telling him will just make him think you're trying to break them up to get her (which she may well try to tell him herself). If you do vote yes, you're gonna need tangible proofs.

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#24
Excellent descision not to date her. Trust me. Even before the cheating thing.

But on that note, I'd ask her if she has told him beforehand, if she says no, I would but make sure you keep it anonymous. He has a right to know, but if it gets out that you told him, people will assume you were just trying to get back at her for not going out with you.
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#25
Sorry. just read OP. I would have to say back off. You'll only create enemies this way. Better off minding your buisness /opinion
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#26
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If I were him I would want to know. I voted yes.

If you were him, would you want to know? This is your vote.


I lol'd at first scrolling through the forum then seeing you had posted last in this thread, I was terrified you would have a paragraph of scorching criticism for all the terrible things I did wrong Thanks for the simple answer though dude.
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#27
Quote by Eddie4President
I lol'd at first scrolling through the forum then seeing you had posted last in this thread, I was terrified you would have a paragraph of scorching criticism for all the terrible things I did wrong Thanks for the simple answer though dude.

Wat The only terrible thing you did wrong is thinking FreakAddiction isn't hot.

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#28
Pfftt women, who needs them.
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Originally Posted by Guitarbaddie
Dude, she's like 12, what is wrong with you?



Originally Posted by RockGuitar92
You're the one who came on her face.

#29
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Wat The only terrible thing you did wrong is thinking FreakAddiction isn't hot.


She is. I wasn't amused by her trolling though haha.

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Sorry. just read OP. I would have to say back off. You'll only create enemies this way. Better off minding your buisness /opinion


I guess it narrows down to whether it's my business. I don't think he'll be pissed at ME even though, as I've said, it'd be anonymous, because out of respect for him (he's not really a friend don't know him well) and principle I didn't get too close to her, as said in OP.
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#30
Ignorance is a bliss

but **** that bullshit
tell him
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#31
What a slut.
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#32
It's not my place to bring it up to the boyfriend. So I wouldn't. I'm morally against adultery, but eventually the boyfriend will find out. I'll tell her how I feel about the subject, and that's as involved as I'll get.
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#33
fack off
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#34
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Excellent descision not to date her. Trust me. Even before the cheating thing.

But on that note, I'd ask her if she has told him beforehand, if she says no, I would but make sure you keep it anonymous. He has a right to know, but if it gets out that you told him, people will assume you were just trying to get back at her for not going out with you.


Thanks, but this would really not be anonymous. Asking her if she told him then leaving and telling him? She'd immediately know it was me.
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#35
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fack off

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#36
If she's gonna cheat on him, she's gonna cheat on you.

But I wouldn't tell him. Dick move, it's their relationship. It's between them and them only, you don't want to get involved in that. Trust me. And the relationship thread.
#37
Pfft women.
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Originally Posted by Guitarbaddie
Dude, she's like 12, what is wrong with you?



Originally Posted by RockGuitar92
You're the one who came on her face.

#38
I say no, don't tell him. it really isn't your business, but you shouldn't have feelings for that girl. she would do the exact same thing to you twice as fast as her current boyfriend. not worth it.
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#40
Women you cant live with them............thats it.


But seriously I would get the **** out of Dodge man. Move to a deserted island or out in the jungle but get the hell away from this broad. Dont say a word to him or her ever again.
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