Youtube video screen thingies aren't loading and this is proving to be quite a problem for me, but its not just Youtube, its other video sites as well , I think its the video player or something.. What is it that I should download that make them play? Like adobe something something or something like that?

You haven't heard of Adobe Flash Player? You've got a lot to learn about the internet.
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