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#1
How do you guys treat women you're interested in? Do you give them gifts, flirt with them, just kiss them, etc?

And for the girls: How do you want guys to act around you if they're interested in you? What attracts you?

And no "he has to have a nice personality and/or good looks", because even the best looking guys can fail at attracting women, and we all know "nice guys" don't anyways :p


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#3
I'm flirty but too nice and end up friendzoned.

Doesn't work well for me.
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#4
Well with my gf before we were going out, we flirted for about... 4 months. Then I finally got the courage to ask her out.

Since then I've basically just treated her as my soul mate, nothing really special, just treat her as I want to be treated myself. It's worked for 4 years and 5 months.

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#6
See the episode of How I met Your Mother where Barnye hooks Ted up with the Mary the Paralegal, who Ted thought was a prostitute. Basically, treat her like she's a sure thing, and you're in. Until you call her a prostitute.
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#8
Im too nice.

Seriously. I'm very friendly to girls I'm interested in then they start think I can be their bestie when really I want to get into their pants. But really I want a relationship because I don't think I have the sexual prowess to handle a f*ckbuddy situation.
#9
As if she was my property. I also, like many ancient cultures, demand sacrifices in the form of sammiches.
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I'm flirty but too nice and end up friendzoned.

Doesn't work well for me.


Same here.

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#13
I feel ya friendzoned bros.

I'm always nice It's in me I cant lose it :sad.
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I'm flirty but too nice and end up friendzoned.

Doesn't work well for me.

This.
#16
I'm flirting with an obvious interest.
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#17
It depends on how much she means to me. If I'm in love in her I treat her like she's everything to me, if she's a bitchy ''friend'' then I treat her like a bitchy one. If she's a friend I talk to her, we share opinions, go out for a drink...so yeah. Depends.
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#18
Friendzoned people are the worst kind of male.

Basically, they act really nice in an attempt to show the female that they are "loyal, nice guys" but only because it's really a veiled attempt to get into bed with them. It's actually quite pathetic/creepy. That's why girls go for the alpha male, at least he doesn't bullshit about his intentions.
#19
I treat them one of three ways:

1. Like sexy bitches (usually gets me slapped when I ask if they wanna ****)

2. Like children (usually gets me friendzoned because I act concerned etc. and take care of them when their sick and whatnot and comfort them when their down)

3. Like a regular person, except perfect, involved lots of corny jokes, compliments and flirting ALL THE TIME NOT JUST FOR A WHILE lolcaps (usually works the best)

3 works best, 2 occasionally as long as you do it quick then ask them out before they consider you a friend which takes from a day to a few month however one time I went up to a girl and said "I'm gonna skip past all the gay ass pick up lines, compliments, lying to make me sound better and letting you win arguments and just ask if you'll have sex with me" and she laughed for five minutes then gave me her number one year two months and counting!...... and still a virgin....
#20
I usually just rub my crotch against any potential mate. Get my scent on em so they can track me down. Then I go home, get naked and wait.
#21
I've given up on girls. But when I was into them I treated them better than anyone ever had before. Was always being cute to them, saying/doing cute things for them. Being there whenever they need me. Was always willing to listen to them when they were down. I always went out of my way to treat them better than others. Because when I like a girl, I probably have fallen in love with them even if i have never personally met them(but I dont come off like that at first, that's just creepy). But All the girls I did that to always claimed they wanted a nice guy who would give them the world. BULL SHIT. They wanted shitty guys who would treat them like shit. Not a generalization of the entire race, but 97% of the ones I have met.
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I've given up on girls. But when I was into them I treated them better than anyone ever had before. Was always being cute to them, saying/doing cute things for them. Being there whenever they need me. Was always willing to listen to them when they were down. I always went out of my way to treat them better than others. Because when I like a girl, I probably have fallen in love with them even if i have never personally met them(but I dont come off like that at first, that's just creepy). But All the girls I did that to always claimed they wanted a nice guy who would give them the world. BULL SHIT. They wanted shitty guys who would treat them like shit. Not a generalization of the entire race, but 97% of the ones I have met.


You got friendzoned repeatedly, Girls want a strong and nice guy not just nice.
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#24
Idk, I'm pretty decisive with girls.
I usually just directly click a link with a girl my type and wait for the video to finish.
#25
Like they're just girls, whether it be playfully, intellectually challenging, silly, demeaning like they're spoiled kids if they act like one, maturely, immaturely, sexually or not. Confident no matter what.

Don't act like they're on a piedestal because they're not, don't be overly nice because they know what you're up to, don't let them take charge because you have a say and don't act like a child because women want men.
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#26
I always try to make them laugh combined with some serious philosophical talk. quite a few girls like that, though atm the problem is finding someone I'd be interested in .
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#27
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Friendzoned people are the worst kind of male.

Basically, they act really nice in an attempt to show the female that they are "loyal, nice guys" but only because it's really a veiled attempt to get into bed with them. It's actually quite pathetic/creepy. That's why girls go for the alpha male, at least he doesn't bullshit about his intentions.

Nice guy: "I would never want to sleep with her because I'm her friend!"

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EDIT: and what Kensai said up there ^
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#28
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I always try to make them laugh combined with some serious philosophical talk.

i've tried that, but I haven't found a girl with who i felt was on the same page as me on philosophical level if you get what i mean.
#29
My experience tells me that you won't get in a girl's pants if you treat her like a friend.


You have to treat her like a potential lover, she'll respond as such. Treat her like a friend, she'll befriend you.
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#30
I lock her in a cage and beat her every time she tries to escape. Eventually, she realises that I do this because I love her, and she will never leave me, unless she wants another beating.
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i've tried that, but I haven't found a girl with who i felt was on the same page as me on philosophical level if you get what i mean.


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You got friendzoned repeatedly, Girls want a strong and nice guy not just nice.


That's the thing. They all insisted that I was what they wanted, repeatedly stated that. But they all truly want the opposite. But it's whatever. I can go being single for my life. I'll wait for a girl that I don't have to be a complete dick to and cheat on them and whatever else typical guys do. I treat women the way I do because that's how I am, never gonna change.
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That's the thing. They all insisted that I was what they wanted, repeatedly stated that. But they all truly want the opposite. But it's whatever. I can go being single for my life. I'll wait for a girl that I don't have to be a complete dick to and cheat on them and whatever else typical guys do.

What was your reply to that? I mean it might be something they say or a pretty big indication that they want you to make a move.
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#35
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#36
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#37
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What was your reply to that? I mean it might be something they say or a pretty big indication that they want you to make a move.


When they said I was the kind of guy they wanted? Oh I always acted upon that. It was always them wanting to talk to me 24/7 and they way they looked at me or held me when we hung out, thats where the relationship started.They never made the moves, I did. Than we start dating or whatever. They all fall in love with me(whether or not it was all a lie a could care less these days) then ****ed me over for someone whom they insisted they didnt want. Most likely someone they used to date that they left because of how badly they treater them.

OH, and the funniest part is months down the road when they try and come crying back to me after they were ****ed over/cheated on. Twice I took the girls back and they left me a day or two later. haha

Now that I think about it. I have actually never been "friendzoned". My care and niceness got me that whole "soul mate" and "marriage" bullshit. Which I fell for twice, and never again.
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#38
Yep. Too nice, often gets me friendzoned. ;(

But when I'm with a girl I treat her like a soulmate like someone above me has said.
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#40
I don't need to treat women. Some simple body language/physical expression followed by (this is important; see quote) only saying things that let them know you're considerate of women is all thats required really.

"Oh I want a guy to be smart, tall, funny etc etc.."

Notice how funny is always on the list. Showing her a good time makes a huge impact. Although its funny how they'd associate a good time with a guy.
"Hahaha.. you're funny."

"...doesnt take much to make you laugh "


Now as for me I usually try not to screw things up. I'm way too _____ to insist on making her feel ALL the time.
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