...OK, since you seem to have no idea as to what you're doing, I'll explain.

Soldering involves melting solder, a lead/tin alloy, over two components (in your case a wire and a jack), fusing them together. what you do is heat up the components and then touch the solder to the components once it's hot enough.
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You CAN play anything with anything....but some guitars sound right for some things, and not for others. Single coils sound retarded for metal, though those who are apeshit about harpsichord probably beg to differ.