#1
Hey guys.

My life is looking better now and stuff, but I feel as if my confidence level is much lower than it was 2 years ago.

Confidence doesn't come from anywhere, so I was hoping you guys could give some suggestions on how to gain it.

I'll be starting Uni soon so any extra confidence would be awesome.

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#2
Confidence inherently comes from within. Fake it 'til you make it.
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#4
Have some sex.
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#5
You will get confident soon enough; you can't force it. Just go with the flow and remember: you don't have to be confident to be happy
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This.

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#10
Do stuff that makes you happy, and don't take any shit from anyone about it.
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#12
Do things that you normally try to avoid doing. Try to test yourself.

For example, if you're the kind of person who hates to walk up to someone to start a conversation (especially with girls...), or you hate to walk up to a group of friends and ask if you can join them, just do it.

Don't think about it, before you get any doubts, just do it. Afterwards, you'll feel much better and you'll be able to do it again.

Keep doing these things, and they will build your confidence.
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Do things that you normally try to avoid doing. Try to test yourself.

For example, if you're the kind of person who hates to walk up to someone to start a conversation (especially with girls...), or you hate to walk up to a group of friends and ask if you can join them, just do it.

Don't think about it, before you get any doubts, just do it. Afterwards, you'll feel much better and you'll be able to do it again.

Keep doing these things, and they will build your confidence.


Unless you fail in which case you'll just plummet in confidence.
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Unless you fail in which case you'll just plummet in confidence.


Mmm, yes, but, you're not going to fail.

It worked for me anyway...TS, say one thing that you don't like about your lack of confidence? What does it stop you doing?
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#17
http://www.brathay.org.uk/people-development.aspx

try to do a course here i got sent on one with work it was a real confidence booster i think its expensive though


i think another way which im doing is to force yourself to do things that make you feel uncomfortable like talk to random strangers at work etc it really helps
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#23
Starting university is a wicked way to build confidence, actually. You're forced to talk to all these new people, but really it's the best time to do it because everyone else is in the same boat as you and doesn't know anyone else, so everyone wants to be friendly really.

Unless you live in the US? I don't know if it works like that there.
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#26
I was at a festival recently and the ket heads all seemed pretty confident. You could try that. There was this one group who were practically circle-jerking during a Blink-182 set, maybe don't try that. Though you've gotta admit it takes confidence to get your **** out in front of both your friends and 70,000 strangers.
#27
Thanks for all your kind words guys. You're all awesome.

I guess I'm just in a strange point in my life.

Be cool.