This is a brand new site I found out about from my friend. I am not affiliated with them at all, but it seems cool so I thought Id share it. The listings have a space where you can embed a video of yourself or your band in it so it seems like a way more effective way of getting a response. There are literally only a handful of listings on it ( in California section) right now its that new. Apparently its only open to the USA which I know wont work for alot of the people on here. Check it out if its something that sounds like it might help in your search for a band/bandmate. Cheers!