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Alright Pit.

There are a few girls at my school that I could potentially date, and I like each of them in a different way, somewhat, but in the end I'd readily date all of them. (there are 3) I haven't had a girlfriend in a long time, but I wondered:

Is it wrong in some way for me to ask one out, and if she says no, just ask one of the other girls say the week after? I know that makes it sound like I just want to get in their pants, but honestly it's not (completely) about that.

I don't see how it'd really be that wrong/weird, since none of the girls really know each other. Your thoughts?
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#3
If they are close friends they will find you weird and disgusting mostly.

And the one you ask third will be offended.
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#5
Nah, go for it. A defeatist attitude will get you nowhere fast. Tend to your task.
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#6
sounds like a good plan to me. just going out on a date doesn't mean you're "together."

start with the one you're most attracted to and work down if necessary. don't want to short change yourself aiming low.
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#8
Make sure you concentrate you efforts on the person you like the most, and who you think might like you too. If she says no, just leave it with the rest, or atleast wait a month or two.
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#9
I think you should get them together and just ask them all at the same time. That wouldn't be strange or awkward, right?

And maybe I'm just old fashioned, but when you're dating someone, you're not seeing other people. The distinguishing of dating being different from being in a relationship is stupid to me. What the hell kind of woman would want to consider romantically involving herself with a douche-box that's trying out other women at the same time?

Give one woman your attention and go from there. Life isn't the Jersey Shore.
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#11
If they don't even know each other then who cares they're not going to say anything to each other. On the other hand I'd definitely wait a few days between each one.

About a month ago I met a girl at an end of the year formal at my university. She invited me to a party the next week and I ended up going home with her friend. Her friend invited me to a party and I went home with her friend's friend. Now that friend wants to hang out... haha
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#12
I'd do it as long as there's no chance they'd find out you asked them all within a month. Because that would make you seem like you're trying to get in their pant's, even though you're not.

Or wait until you know one of them is right for you, so you know it's not just a crush. But if you're just asking them out for a date you should ask them all
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#13
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I think you should get them together and just ask them all at the same time. That wouldn't be strange or awkward, right?

And maybe I'm just old fashioned, but when you're dating someone, you're not seeing other people. The distinguishing of dating being different from being in a relationship is stupid to me. What the hell kind of woman would want to consider romantically involving herself with a douche-box that's trying out other women at the same time?

Give one woman your attention and go from there. Life isn't the Jersey Shore.


This.

I don't want to date a girl who just sees it as a date, it's either full out or nothing. Unless it's obvious it's only a physical relationship. But the date is not love is just bullshit.
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#14
Thank you all. Yeah I planned on asking the girl I like most out soon. I don't talk to her all the time, but she's really fun, and I see potential there. And yeah, it'd just start as a couple of dates and then hopefully become a relationship. I very much dislike the idea that people say they're "together" after only one date, but I wouldn't like dating more than one person at the same time.

Also, I will herp before I derp, and then derp before I herp. Then I'll definitely be in the clear.
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#15
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If they don't even know each other then who cares they're not going to say anything to each other. On the other hand I'd definitely wait a few days between each one.

About a month ago I met a girl at an end of the year formal at my university. She invited me to a party the next week and I ended up going home with her friend. Her friend invited me to a party and I went home with her friend's friend. Now that friend wants to hang out... haha


Dude! There should be a film about this.....
#16
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I think you should get them together and just ask them all at the same time. That wouldn't be strange or awkward, right?

And maybe I'm just old fashioned, but when you're dating someone, you're not seeing other people. The distinguishing of dating being different from being in a relationship is stupid to me. What the hell kind of woman would want to consider romantically involving herself with a douche-box that's trying out other women at the same time?

Give one woman your attention and go from there. Life isn't the Jersey Shore.



Wtf? Get them all together and ask them at the same time? Have you ever had a relationship? This is the BEST way to LOSE them all. You're young man, from the sounds of it you must be in high school or something. You don't need to know someone is right for you to date them. You just need to be attracted to them, have things in common and think maybe there's a chance you might enjoy spending lots of time with each other. At this stage, thats IT. Just because you're dating someone does not mean you devote your life to them, especially a) when young, b) in the early months of the relationship. If she's not right for you, move on. If you think maybe there's someone else that's right for you, guess what this is the time to explore that, not 10 years down the line when you're married and thinking "wow what if..."
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Wtf? Get them all together and ask them at the same time? Have you ever had a relationship? This is the BEST way to LOSE them all. You're young man, from the sounds of it you must be in high school or something. You don't need to know someone is right for you to date them. You just need to be attracted to them, have things in common and think maybe there's a chance you might enjoy spending lots of time with each other. At this stage, thats IT. Just because you're dating someone does not mean you devote your life to them, especially a) when young, b) in the early months of the relationship. If she's not right for you, move on. If you think maybe there's someone else that's right for you, guess what this is the time to explore that, not 10 years down the line when you're married and thinking "wow what if..."


Sarcasm bro. You speak it?
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#18
ask them out at the same time
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Interesting question...
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Wtf? Get them all together and ask them at the same time? Have you ever had a relationship? This is the BEST way to LOSE them all. You're young man, from the sounds of it you must be in high school or something. You don't need to know someone is right for you to date them. You just need to be attracted to them, have things in common and think maybe there's a chance you might enjoy spending lots of time with each other. At this stage, thats IT. Just because you're dating someone does not mean you devote your life to them, especially a) when young, b) in the early months of the relationship. If she's not right for you, move on. If you think maybe there's someone else that's right for you, guess what this is the time to explore that, not 10 years down the line when you're married and thinking "wow what if..."


Ever heard of sarcasm, 04er?
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#20
If they find out that you've been asking these other girls out, they'll just think you're desperate and no one will date you. Word goes around - personally, I don't like the idea of you asking different girls out at the same time. It gives the impression that you are desperate (as already stated), looking for sex and is a bit of creep.

If I were you, i'd just concentrate on the girl that you like the most. If it fails, don't ask out the others until some time. Or, you could just screw my advice, ask them all out on the same day and make sure they don't know about your intentions of asking others out as well.
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#22
Yo, sorry for my first post. I just got unbanned and wanted to celebrate my new found freedom with a pointless post (just like I almost always do...).

So, let's get back to your question:
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Is it wrong in some way for me to ask one out, and if she says no, just ask one of the other girls say the week after? I know that makes it sound like I just want to get in their pants , but honestly it's not (completely) about that.

Are you fückin serious?!?!?!?!

Duuuude, you're a dude!
Why the hell do you have to deny or justify your dick?
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phew... btw I really hope you don't think 04 was the year I was born


Nah, that would almost make your answer reasonable.
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#26
He's 17 in high school, he isn't proposing. Settle down.
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#27
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He's 17 in high school, he isn't proposing. Settle down.


Did anyone do anything but give them their view/opinion? Just because you're young there's no need to act like a disrespectful sexually frustrated prick is there?
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Did anyone do anything but give them their view/opinion? Just because you're young there's no need to act like a disrespectful sexually frustrated prick is there?

Ten f_cking points for you, Johnny. If there were more people like you in the world, I wouldn't be so pissed off that they were procreating.
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#29
I'm more curious about how TS is going to ask these girls out.
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Ten f_cking points for you, Johnny. If there were more people like you in the world, I wouldn't be so pissed off that they were procreating.


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LOL ok 95er. /end argument.


Yeah, I agree. That is embarassing for you.
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I'm more curious about how TS is going to ask these girls out.


Seconded.
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#34
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I'm more curious about how TS is going to ask these girls out.



I'm going to hire some ninjas, see...

Really, though, I have yet to figure that out. Probably talk to the girl for a while and hopefully fit in a "hey, do you want to hangout/go on a date?" somehow. I need to work on that.
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LOL ok 95er. /end argument.

Nice recovery old timer.
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what's the point in being "philiosophical"?

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#36
If you're asking for a choosing order, ask which one like anal and go with that one first.
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#37
girl are terribly evil creatures, bent on taking you money and then stealing your soul. it would be in your best interest to avoid them TS. however, if you are still interested, just remember that the fastest way to a woman's heart is through her stomach. girls are fascinated by food. that's why they enjoy cooking. in fact, when Pac-Man was first designed, the designers decided to make a game that involved eating because they believed that it would attract more female players, and they were right.

so back to you TS, you could invite her out to dinner, because girls don't turn down free food, but that is cliched. instead, you should hide in a large cake, the way strippers do, and then surprise her by coming out of the cake. make sure it is a real cake, or else the girl will be very disappointed that there is no real food and she'll kick you in the groin and steal your wallet and call the police. so use real cake, and it has to taste good. the only potential problem is that the girl may accidentally eat you along with the cake, but the chances are only like 1 in 12 or something like that. but the risk is well worth it, because that kind of thing impresses girls so much that she'll brag about it to all of her friends and then you will be up to your waist in hot chicks.
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Haha oh man, i forgot that you have to ask girls out in high school .


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girl are terribly evil creatures, bent on taking you money and then stealing your soul. it would be in your best interest to avoid them TS. however, if you are still interested, just remember that the fastest way to a woman's heart is through her stomach. girls are fascinated by food. that's why they enjoy cooking. in fact, when Pac-Man was first designed, the designers decided to make a game that involved eating because they believed that it would attract more female players, and they were right.

so back to you TS, you could invite her out to dinner, because girls don't turn down free food, but that is cliched. instead, you should hide in a large cake, the way strippers do, and then surprise her by coming out of the cake. make sure it is a real cake, or else the girl will be very disappointed that there is no real food and she'll kick you in the groin and steal your wallet and call the police. so use real cake, and it has to taste good. the only potential problem is that the girl may accidentally eat you along with the cake, but the chances are only like 1 in 12 or something like that. but the risk is well worth it, because that kind of thing impresses girls so much that she'll brag about it to all of her friends and then you will be up to your waist in hot chicks.


This is the greatest comment I've read all year.
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How was Confucius death metal?
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As I wait on the edge of the earth,
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Only to be rebuilt in another name,
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