(For the guys) Do you judge girls on how many guys they've been with??

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#1
Do you guys care if a girl that you are talking to or are looking to enter a relationship with has been with more then 10 or more guys??

The girl I WAS talking to is 26 years old (I'm 21) and she said she's been with a little more then 10 guys (in bed just in case you dont quite understand where im getting at)...I pretty much stopped talking to her and shes upset and she said that Ive been with more girls then she has been with guys so i shouldnt judge her...in my opinion i think more then 10 guys at 26 years old is a little too much for a female...and on top of that she said she's had two or three one night stands...

what do you guys think?? Should i have kept talking to her? or did i do the right thing??
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Yes.

yes what?? you judge girls on how many guys theyve been with?
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#5
I think that's kinda superficial. Are you willing to give up what could potentially be a meaningful emotional connection just because she's been with other guys?

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#7
You're telling me she's had sex with over 40 guys and only 3 of them were one night stands? She's had 37 boyfriends/"friends with benefits" and she's 26? Bullshit.

Also you are being pretty sexist about it.
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#8
I generally just prefer not to know.


Most girls will lie about it anyways, so why even ask?
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#9
Maybe not judge. But make a note of it. It's sure as hell is interesting nonetheless.

10, and she's 26? That's not a lot.
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You're telling me she's had sex with over 40 guys and only 3 of them were one night stands? She's had 37 boyfriends/"friends with benefits" and she's 26? Bullshit.

Also you are being pretty sexist about it.

lol what?? Shes 26 and she said shes been with a little more then 10 guys but she wouldnt give me an exact number
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lol what?? Shes 26 and she said shes been with a little more then 10 guys but she wouldnt give me an exact number

How many girls have you been with?
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did you say it's ok for you but not her?

no i didnt say that but i mean damn over ten for a female?? and your only 26?? jeez...
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10, and she's 26? That's not a lot.



Seriously. I know girls who rack up ten notches in a year's time.
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#17
I judge both man and women on how many people they've been with. But that doesn't mean I can't respect them or have a really negative image about them right away.
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#19
Not unless she's sucked 37 dicks
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How many girls have you been with?

over ten but damn most of them were my girlfriends...ive never had one night stands...she has
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#21
You shouldnt have just left her just because shes been with 10 guys, either you were after an actual relationship or just for the sex, in which case maybe you could try and make the relationship last, maybe she just hasnt found anyone she really likes, maybe that person could be you. Or just have a one night stand, watever you want really
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#22
It doesn't fucking matter.

Incidentally, I don't ask my potential partners about it because I do not care to know about it. Some things are better just left outside the door ey.
#23
I have near-impossibly high standards for womenfolk I might enter a relationship with, so yes I judge women on that count.

As for you and your situation: do what you want. Other peoples opinions should weight very little when it comes to your own standards.
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#24
If you're just after the sex, isn't that a good thing. Means she's experienced

if you're after a solid relationship, why would it matter? You are in love with her right? Not her lack of sexual activitity?
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#25
Depends on the number really. If it's a really high amount like what you're describing then I'm not going to go out with that girl. I won't judge her or anything, I just wouldn't want to date that girl. I don't mind if she's been with a few guys in her life. Same goes for the other gender to me. I wouldn't want to go out with a guy that's been with really high amount of people.
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#26
meh..for some reason I get judged for the amount of girls I've been with....

But yeah...you did the right thing...

And yes..i do judge based on former relationships...
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over ten but damn most of them were my girlfriends...ive never had one night stands...she has

Her: 26 with just over 10 guys, a few one night stands

You: 21 with over 10 girls

Are one night stands really that big a deal?
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#28
Actually yes. If she's been with 20 guys, what are the odds that she'll stay with you longer, and that she doesn't have std's and that she's completely over every one of her past guys and she'll definitely have at least slight expectations for you that prior partners have set that you don't know about. Basically you have to outdo all her past relationships and the odds are that you can't
#29
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Seriously. I know girls who rack up ten notches in a year's time.

The whole thing is she kept telling me for months how shes a good girl and how ive gone out with skanks and i need to find a good girl...meanwhile she has all of these stories to tell me herself...
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#30
You are saying you've had 10 girlfriends and you are 21? Your definition of a girlfriend is either extremely ****ing loose or you're lying.
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#31
Subconsciously, to some extent. I tend to become less attracted to girls who I have found out to have got with a lot of guys in the past.

It depends on your way of looking at it tbh, 10 isn't a huge deal. I've known girls who've had 10 in as many weekends
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#33
I only judge what they've picked up from the guys they've screwed in the past, such as HIV, herpes, etc. I don't ask about the other things and I wonder why on earth you would ask.
#34
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...in my opinion i think more then 10 guys at 26 years old is a little too much for a female...and on top of that she said she's had two or three one night stands...
What is that suppose to mean
#35
i dont care/ dont ask.

if i like them why would it matter.
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#36
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You are saying you've had 10 girlfriends and you are 21? Your definition of a girlfriend is either extremely ****ing loose or you're lying.

o ive really had 10 girlfriends...first gf was at 15 years old, who i lost it to...i never said the relationships lasted long...the shortest was 6 months...the longest was a year
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#37
Sluts aren't attractive, no.
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#40
I know a few girls that have been with around 15 people, there all 18, 19 or 20. Better to not know if you ask me. She was blatantly not comfortable with it, or she would have said "ooooo, iv bin wi' 17 lads, dint no any ov em, when ya puttin it up me?!", or something along those lines.
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