Im preferably looking for a software where i can use my own WAV samples or have some kind of humanizing elements
Yeah i use that at the moment but id prefer something where i can use my own samples because im not 100% happy with the ones on there
BFD 2 allows you to import your own multi velocity samples, stereo or mono. But be careful of it's incredibly high CPU usage.
superior drummer, periphery used it on their first album
grove agent three has humanising elements. i use it and the drums are very good on it
Superior Drummer is good. I personally haven't used it, but I know of people that do and it sounds great. Look up Drewsif Stalin on youtube, his drums are programmed I believe.
Thanks for all the replies ill check them out when i get home