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#41
It must just be me, but I think it's weird when gf/bfs decide to go to the same college just so they can be together. I'm becoming a cynical old man.
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#42
Why are people reserving posts here? There was no plan, else my importance of lust thing would have been at least considered. That first three posts is now the FAQ.
#43
Quote by Freezer Burn
Derp! You're missing the word "Only"

*reserved i guess*

Can a mod go through and delete spam posts?

It looked more classy and definitive without "only."

I figured it was a given, anyways
#44
I had to delete and throw away everything about my ex (if you could even call her that), unfortunately I have her number memorized by heart.... Those numbers are like burning coals on top of my brain

This happened like 3 years ago and it's still going on. What am I suppose to do
#45
Meet other girls, dude. It's been three years. Stop thinking about her, you can control your thoughts. You can push her out.


Get out and meet someone new!
#46
Quote by blake1221
It looked more classy and definitive without "only."

I figured it was a given, anyways


Meh, when I made my first one, Carmel made me remake it with the word ONLY.

Freezedit:

I am disappoint You really should have made an announcement to everyone when you were making it, and given more notice than just making it
R.I.P. Jeb
07/31/08

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Last edited by Freezer Burn at Oct 25, 2011,
#47
ITT: People's feelings get hurt because their name isn't on first post
The lake was silent for some time. Finally it said:
"I weep for Narcissus, but I never noticed that Narcissus was beautiful. I weep because, each time he knelt beside my banks, I could see, in the depths of his eyes, my own beauty reflected."
#48
Quote by CrunchyRoll
ITT: People's feelings get hurt because their name isn't on first post

Which reminds me' I should add your name too. Except for the fact that people get butthurt with you sometimes lol.


FB, I'm sorry man, I told you when I was messaging Carmel. I thought that what you told me was all I was supposed to do. I don't really see the harm in kicking off this wa, however.
#49
Howdy new thread.
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#50
The thing is I can't I feel I shouldn't be in a relationship if I'm constantly thinking about someone else, that isn't fair to them.
#51
Quote by rockfan7
The thing is I can't I feel I shouldn't be in a relationship if I'm constantly thinking about someone else, that isn't fair to them.


That's what a rebound is for: to show you that there are other girls and that it's okay to move on. Gotta get past that hurdle in order to get over her.
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#52
Quote by CrunchyRoll
ITT: People's feelings get hurt because their name isn't on first post


Ha, nah I ain't mad. More just think it's unfair to others for not having much warning.

Quote by blake1221
FB, I'm sorry man, I told you when I was messaging Carmel. I thought that what you told me was all I was supposed to do. I don't really see the harm in kicking off this wa, however.


Oh no, that's fine. I had class, so it's just bad timing.

I ain't even mad!

/Dave Chapelle
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07/31/08

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#53
Quote by bradulator
It must just be me, but I think it's weird when gf/bfs decide to go to the same college just so they can be together. I'm becoming a cynical old man.
My girlfriend at the time switched unis and came to live with me. But she was mental.
#54
Quote by bradulator
That's what a rebound is for: to show you that there are other girls and that it's okay to move on. Gotta get past that hurdle in order to get over her.


I never want to make anyone feel like this, and if I can't honestly be into them then I don't want to use them because I know how it hurts
#55
Quote by Freezer Burn
Ha, nah I ain't mad. More just think it's unfair to others for not having much warning.


Oh no, that's fine. I had class, so it's just bad timing.

I ain't even mad!

/Dave Chapelle


Apologies for all inconveniences caused by my hastiness

To everyone.

Except a few people.


You know who you are.
#56
Quote by MaddMann274
I'm 16, she's 13.


Def not.

Do the formula

AGE / 2 + 7 = YOUNGEST DATE AGE
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#58
Quote by blake1221
Already covered, Kirbs.

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#59
Freezer Burn, the brief you gave was obviously not fitting. Blake isn't exactly versed in protocol, is he? You gave him the go ahead; you should have informed him of standard procedure.
#60
Quote by blake1221
We're not the post happy tugfest that is the Anime Thread. Sorry.


Justified as it is a shitty thread.

Sup new thread.
#61
Quote by Colohue
Freezer Burn, the brief you gave was obviously not fitting. Blake isn't exactly versed in protocol, is he? You gave him the go ahead; you should have informed him of standard procedure.


Meh, he said he'd run some stuff by me before he posted it. But you're right, I messed up. I should have told him to give everyone some notice. Didn't think he'd pull a defrocked... sorry all
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#62
I'm a little wary of posting in here again, or if this question is appropriate here, but...

This girl broke up with me through text message about 2 weeks ago. I asked her a few times and tried calling her once or twice, but she won't really tell me why or give me a chance to discuss it. Now I'm just trying to get back a CD I lent her and she won't even let me come over to pick it up. What should I do?
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#63
I wrote a pretty in the hugging thread, but tl;dr: how do you deal with jealousy, heartbreak, and all the despair that comes with it? I just want to get this person out of my mind and I want to stop liking him once and for all.
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#64
Quote by fail
I wrote a pretty in the hugging thread, but tl;dr: how do you deal with jealousy, heartbreak, and all the despair that comes with it? I just want to get this person out of my mind and I want to stop liking him once and for all.


It takes a very long time. I think your best bet is to instantly find a replacement to get your mind off her. I'm sure the new girl will relate.
#65
Quote by DoGaLoG
Obviously, but there is also a rather large difference between a 32 and 50 year old. And I don't just mean "LOL thurrs lots ov numbas betwen 32 n 50!!1!".


You really want to date a 13 year old, don't you?
#66
Quote by MaddMann274
I'm 16, she's 13.


Dude way too young. Both of you. My advice is don't even think about dating till you're 18. You'll understand why when you're older. You have the rest of your life to date.
#67
Quote by rgrockr
I'm a little wary of posting in here again, or if this question is appropriate here, but...

This girl broke up with me through text message about 2 weeks ago. I asked her a few times and tried calling her once or twice, but she won't really tell me why or give me a chance to discuss it. Now I'm just trying to get back a CD I lent her and she won't even let me come over to pick it up. What should I do?



Sucks man, I can tell you why she busted up with you though. It all boils down to attraction, you weren't triggering enough of it. I'm assuming that you started doing everything that she wanted to do or came on to strong yes?
It's wussy behaviour that stops girls feeling attraction. (More on this if you want it)

She's got a term called 'buyer's remorse' about you because:
1. You displayed wussy behaviour
2. You were too creepy
3. You didn't demonstrate enough social value (More on this if you want)

Give it a couple of weeks to call her or wait till you see her in person.
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#68
I'm not sure if this is the exact thread i should be in, but what the hell.

I fell into unrequited love with this girl about 5 years ago. I've managed to move on from it somewhat (i'm starting afresh), but the negativity of such an experience still recurrs. It has caused me to do a lot of crazy and stupid shit. But at the same time, i've been grateful i did experience it, because i learned so much about myself and other people's feelings. In fact this whole experience completly changed my life and changed who i am.

I want to move on from what i had to go through, but because i have learned so much from this experience and because i feel that i have become a much more compassionate and understanding person, i fear that if i move on from her, i fear that i'll lose that part of me that is loving and compassionate.

I've found another person in my life but they're long-distance. they make me really happy and fulfilled, but i don't have the oppertunity to communicate with them often.

So anyway,

I fell in love with this girl and i learned a lot about my life from the experience. It has made me very depressed about my life, but the changes that the process made have helped make me a more lovable person. I fear that i will lose that caring side of me if i completly forget, i seemingly associate my love and kindness for this girl i fell in love with all those years ago.
Quote by TheSennaj
And well yes, I'll enjoy the carpal tunnel and tendonitis, because trying to get one is clearly smarter than any word you have spoken thus far.
#69
Quote by Freezer Burn
Meh, he said he'd run some stuff by me before he posted it. But you're right, I messed up. I should have told him to give everyone some notice. Didn't think he'd pull a defrocked... sorry all


Not trying to weasel my way out of anything, if I fucked up, I fucked up, but what is exactly the problem?

Just needed more time to ease the way into the new thread?

Quote by T00DEEPBLUE
I'm not sure if this is the exact thread i should be in, but what the hell.

I fell into unrequited love with this girl about 5 years ago. I've managed to move on from it somewhat (i'm starting afresh), but the negativity of such an experience still recurrs. It has caused me to do a lot of crazy and stupid shit. But at the same time, i've been grateful i did experience it, because i learned so much about myself and other people's feelings. In fact this whole experience completly changed my life and changed who i am.

I want to move on from what i had to go through, but because i have learned so much from this experience and because i feel that i have become a much more compassionate and understanding person, i fear that if i move on from her, i fear that i'll lose that part of me that is loving and compassionate.

I've found another person in my life but they're long-distance. they make me really happy and fulfilled, but i don't have the oppertunity to communicate with them often.

So anyway,

I fell in love with this girl and i learned a lot about my life from the experience. It has made me very depressed about my life, but the changes that the process made have helped make me a more lovable person. I fear that i will lose that caring side of me if i completly forget, i seemingly associate my love and kindness for this girl i fell in love with all those years ago.


You've analyzed yourself, and can pinpoint the exact location where you learned. That's all well and good, but it also means you can separate what you learned from the teacher.

It's okay to let go, and at five years, I'd say it's time to do so. Don't worry about "losing yourself," you know exactly who you can be now. There's no excuse to lose anything from it. You need to live your life and be happy, and to do so, just let go of her.

It's going to be okay.


Quote by rgrockr
I'm a little wary of posting in here again, or if this question is appropriate here, but...

This girl broke up with me through text message about 2 weeks ago. I asked her a few times and tried calling her once or twice, but she won't really tell me why or give me a chance to discuss it. Now I'm just trying to get back a CD I lent her and she won't even let me come over to pick it up. What should I do?


Cut your losses, homie. It sucks, but you can't always expect the right amount of closure, no matter how much you need it. You just have to learn when to walk away from the situation, and seeing how she's being so obstinate about it, it'd be better to just stop now.
Last edited by blake1221 at Oct 25, 2011,
#70
Quote by blake1221


You've analyzed yourself, and can pinpoint the exact location where you learned. That's all well and good, but it also means you can separate what you learned from the teacher.

It's okay to let go, and at five years, I'd say it's time to do so. Don't worry about "losing yourself," you know exactly who you can be now. There's no excuse to lose anything from it. You need to live your life and be happy, and to do so, just let go of her.

It's going to be okay.



Thanks, Blake. I could elaborate on how she made me who i am, but it isn't really appropriate for this forum. The whole story is far too long to explain.

Thanks again.
Quote by TheSennaj
And well yes, I'll enjoy the carpal tunnel and tendonitis, because trying to get one is clearly smarter than any word you have spoken thus far.
#71
Well, you know yourself best. I do know however, that sometimes your mind makes up reasons why you shouldn't let go, and it just becomes increasingly hard not to.

I still recommend you do so, but do what you feel is best in the end.
#72
What timing, eh? I break up with my girlfriend, two weeks later I start being more active again on the RT and now THIS:

I met an awesome girl. I hardly spoke to her cause she was a friend of one of my friends (also a girl) and we went to a club with LOADS of people. She has everything that my ex lacked (which led to the breakup). I felt butterflies in my stomach, shy, like I did when I was a small, shy, pubescent 14 year old.

IT FEELS GREAT!

THis girl is so great and I for some reason got a small (very small) feeling that she might like me a bit (despite only just meeting). If I look back, she doesn't show too many of the signs (except for being really shy, smiling only when I spoke to her, acting different with me than the other guys she'd just met; my mates).

Anyway, she's really cute, really pretty and my friend said she'd "drop a hint" to see if the girl might be in to me (maybe not the best idea but irreversible now).

If what I heard is true, she's very shy and doesn't have much (if any) of a relationship-past.

How should I go about this? I usually don't go for the shy girls. She's my friend's flatmate so the only way I can get to see her is if I visit my friend (even then there's not a huge chance of her being there).

My main problem is how I should go about this. I feel like she needs to know a little bit more about me than she already does (which is basically nothing), so I was thinking maybe add her on fb....but I don't wanna be too obvious and imposing. I don't wanna scare her away but I'm so infatuated right now that I just wanna get her number and ask her out :P

How should I go about it?


Quote by Freezer Burn
Meh, he said he'd run some stuff by me before he posted it. But you're right, I messed up. I should have told him to give everyone some notice. Didn't think he'd pull a defrocked... sorry all


Pull a defrocked, is that a term now? What exactly are you referring to? :P
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#73
Quote by thedefrockednun
What timing, eh? I break up with my girlfriend, two weeks later I start being more active again on the RT and now THIS:

I met an awesome girl. I hardly spoke to her cause she was a friend of one of my friends (also a girl) and we went to a club with LOADS of people. She has everything that my ex lacked (which led to the breakup). I felt butterflies in my stomach, shy, like I did when I was a small, shy, pubescent 14 year old.

IT FEELS GREAT!

THis girl is so great and I for some reason got a small (very small) feeling that she might like me a bit (despite only just meeting). If I look back, she doesn't show too many of the signs (except for being really shy, smiling only when I spoke to her, acting different with me than the other guys she'd just met; my mates).

Anyway, she's really cute, really pretty and my friend said she'd "drop a hint" to see if the girl might be in to me (maybe not the best idea but irreversible now).

If what I heard is true, she's very shy and doesn't have much (if any) of a relationship-past.

How should I go about this? I usually don't go for the shy girls. She's my friend's flatmate so the only way I can get to see her is if I visit my friend (even then there's not a huge chance of her being there).

My main problem is how I should go about this. I feel like she needs to know a little bit more about me than she already does (which is basically nothing), so I was thinking maybe add her on fb....but I don't wanna be too obvious and imposing. I don't wanna scare her away but I'm so infatuated right now that I just wanna get her number and ask her out :P

How should I go about it?


Pull a defrocked, is that a term now? What exactly are you referring to? :P


That's good You don't need a reason to see her. Just ask her to hang out doing something mundane like IKEA. The more mundane, the better.
Basically just man up and do it, otherwise the moment is gone and you've lost all spontaneity and boring.
She'll open up over time and be less shy. Some of the craziest chicks I know, started out shy.
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#74
Quote by DoGaLoG
Obviously, but there is also a rather large difference between a 32 and 50 year old. And I don't just mean "LOL thurrs lots ov numbas betwen 32 n 50!!1!".

no theres not also you like icp so shut up
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#75
Quote by blake1221
Well, you know yourself best. I do know however, that sometimes your mind makes up reasons why you shouldn't let go, and it just becomes increasingly hard not to.

I still recommend you do so, but do what you feel is best in the end.


I'll send you a few PM's.
Quote by TheSennaj
And well yes, I'll enjoy the carpal tunnel and tendonitis, because trying to get one is clearly smarter than any word you have spoken thus far.
Last edited by T00DEEPBLUE at Oct 25, 2011,
#76
Quote by rockfan7
The thing is I can't I feel I shouldn't be in a relationship if I'm constantly thinking about someone else, that isn't fair to them.

woah man. slow down, we're not saying go out and get yourself into another relationship right away. just get out there, chat with girls, flirt with ones you find attractive, get your mind off the past and into the present.
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#77
Quote by blake1221
Not trying to weasel my way out of anything, if I fucked up, I fucked up, but what is exactly the problem?

Just needed more time to ease the way into the new thread?


I don't like upsetting Tom. He's like a big brother to me in these parts.

Quote by thedefrockednun
Pull a defrocked, is that a term now? What exactly are you referring to? :P


Oh you know what I mean.
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#79
Quote by JAHellraiser
woah man. slow down, we're not saying go out and get yourself into another relationship right away. just get out there, chat with girls, flirt with ones you find attractive, get your mind off the past and into the present.


I honestly haven't found anyone attractive since, besides like, Carey Mulligan

I'm screwed.
#80
Can you be indirectly friend-zoned? Like, implied over a period of time rather than a straight flat-out 'let's just be friends'?