Poll: Physical discipline
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Yay
42 52%
nay
39 48%
Voters: 81.
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#1
Yay or nay? If you do believe in it, at what point does it stop being ok?
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#2
What I say about making threads? Don't make me get out my belt again

EDIT: No. Yelling always worked for my parents

Though a slap in the back of the head after something REALLY stupid is ok.
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#4
Anything more than a spanking or two causes psychological problems later.
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#6
At first I thought you meant going to the gym and stuff, y'know, being disciplined with your body. Taking good decisions and sticking to them.

Guessing you're talking about physical punishment. I'd say it's generally not ok. Can't really think of a scenario where it's ok off the top of my head.
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#7
I was given a smack as a kid if I did something wrong and simply being told off didn't work. When it got to that point I knew I had over stepped my bounds and had to stop what I was doing (I'm talking about just one smack after being told off and/or sent to my room or a naughty step). Hasn't done me any harm so I don't see it as that much of a big deal
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#8
You can lightly smack a young'n to get their attention, but other than that, no, it's mostly an excuse to take your anger out on the poor kid. Once the kid is old enough to comprehend they're being spanked for a reason they're also old enough to have their behavior modified through other, better ways.

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#9
There is a difference between spanking a child and beating the crap out of them. It isn't a thin line or anything - stay on the right side of the line and you're good to go. Sometimes it is needed to teach a child important lessons. That shouldn't last after they get old enough to have a sit down conversation with you, though, because at that point you should have things under control.
#10
Absolutly not.

After a certain age, it just becomes disgusting.

But my mom used to wash my mouth out with soap when I talked back.

Shit sucked.
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#11
No. I think it's horrible.

I was never hit. I was never even yelled at really. My parents aren't like that. Though I never really did anything to deserve it either.

Actually I do remember my mom smacking me once for cursing at her when I was like 12 or something. Not hard or anything, but she felt really bad.

^My brother got that a few times.
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#12
If you leave a bruise, scratch or cut, it's not okay.

I was slapped about as a kid, but never enough to actually harm much, just enough to sting for a bit.
#13
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#15
The odd clip round the ear is fine I think. Sometimes you get kids who just do not care if they're shouted at after doing something very wrong.

Also, for example if they're at the roadside and about to cross with a car too close by etc then I think it would be ok to aggressively grab them so that they know what they've done is wrong and it's for their own safety.
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#16
A swift kick in the ass from my grandpa. Or if it was in public I got pulled by the ear to get scolded in private. Taught me not to be a dumbass.
#17
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I've never been so disgusted by a video. I honestly couldn't watch past 1.10 and I never want to see it again in my life.

Oh I totally forgot about that. I wasn't referencing it. Didn't even watch it.
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#19
I remember being only slapped once or twice, but I really deserved it. Other than that, it was enough to just tell me I was behaving bad... then puberty came and instead of being yelled at, my mom always talked to me bout it when I did smth bad and I understood.

That's the way things should go, when kids are too young to understand, give them a tick or a slap on the butt if nothing else helps. When they get older, TALK them out of it

EDIT: I didn't even watch the vid and I'm not going to (very sensitive to violence/abuse when it's real)
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#20
I'm glad my parents used physical discipline on me, or I'd have turned out a total shithead like my brother.

But also, it was only appropriate because I always deserved it, and I was the type of kid who could take it. I think it depends upon the kid, and what they did, and the type of discipline.
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#21
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You can lightly smack a young'n to get their attention, but other than that, no, it's mostly an excuse to take your anger out on the poor kid. Once the kid is old enough to comprehend they're being spanked for a reason they're also old enough to have their behavior modified through other, better ways.
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#22
Me and my dad used to yell at each other... Yeah, we are very similar in many ways.

I do not know where I stand though, I see no harm in it if you are not hurting the kid, that is imperative. Yet I probably could not bare to strike my own child...
#23
Spanking should be strictly recreational.
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#24
I was spanked by almost everyone in my family, and I wouldn't stop biting people as a toddler until my mom bit my hand for me to understand "Wow, this really does hurt."

I think it depends on the child, and should be handled accordingly, but never more force than a light tap, and no belts/paddles.
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#25
It's been scientifically proven time and time again that "physical discipline" (which is sadly often a euphemism for beatings/abuse/etc.) does not work. The only thing it does it make the kid more messed up, and more likely to engage in antisocial behavior later on.
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#26
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It's been scientifically proven time and time again that "physical discipline" (which is sadly often a euphemism for beatings/abuse/etc.) does not work. The only thing it does it make the kid more messed up, and more likely to engage in antisocial behavior later on.


Not necessarily says this literature.
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I think it depends on the child, and should be handled accordingly, but never more force than a light tap, and no belts/paddles.


My dad's mother was quite fond of slapping me with one of those paint stirring sticks they give out at Home Depot. I resent her for it. It was completely unnecessary, and she had no right to discipline me anyways.

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#29
I flick people in the forehead when they're being stupid. I'd say it works pretty well.
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#30
A spanking is one thing, but it seems like physical discipline eventually comes to a point where it's inhumane. Harming a child so that he/she will listen to you? That's very similar to how a dog would be trained.

If you're going to hit your child, you might as well buy him/her a choke collar and leash as well.
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#31
No.
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#34
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A spanking is one thing, but it seems like physical discipline eventually comes to a point where it's inhumane. Harming a child so that he/she will listen to you? That's very similar to how a dog would be trained.

If you're going to hit your child, you might as well buy him/her a choke collar and leash as well.

Except you don't really need violence to train a dog, either.
#35
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Exactly this. If you disagree, you're wrong.


That's a pretty retarded way of saying you don't agree with someone elses point of view.

I was given the belt when I was a kid, no more than 2 or 3 hits at a time 'cause I was a real shit. Straightened me the hell out because back then I wouldn't listen to my parents, and they're the kind to resolve things as peacefully as possible.

You'll always get kids that just don't give a ****, even when they know it's wrong, 'cause they think they're untouchable. And to be honest, I'd give my kid a good clipping round the ear or a slap round the back of the head if he was a real shit or did something for no good reason.
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#36
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That's a pretty retarded way of saying you don't agree with someone elses point of view.

I was given the belt when I was a kid, no more than 2 or 3 hits at a time 'cause I was a real shit. Straightened me the hell out because back then I wouldn't listen to my parents, and they're the kind to resolve things as peacefully as possible.

You'll always get kids that just don't give a ****, even when they know it's wrong, 'cause they think they're untouchable. And to be honest, I'd give my kid a good clipping round the ear or a slap round the back of the head if he was a real shit or did something for no good reason.
No it's not. Spanking is morally wrong.

If you spank, you're doing something that is wrong.
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#38
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No it's not. Spanking is morally wrong.

If you spank, you're doing something that is wrong.

Not even if she likes it?

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#39
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Can you see the entire article? All I can get is the first page, which only supports its claims by saying corporeal punishment suppresses behavior in the short term. Which we kinda know and that's not the issue with it.

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#40
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Can you see the entire article? All I can get is the first page, which only supports its claims by saying corporeal punishment suppresses behavior in the short term. Which we kinda know and that's not the issue with it.


The full link is on the top of the page, but I'll post it here as well.

http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/01926187.2010.514214
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