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#41

Glad to be here guys, lets get this thread going.
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#42
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Year 12, I have 6 exams and I have done one so far (English, possibly one of the easier ones).

I have three consecutive exams in three days and they're hard ones (physics, bio, math)

And now I'm here in the Pit

Well I know Physics is supposed to be hell hard, but Bio is supposed to be a lot easier than you expect, if NCEA haven't changed it too much from last year. Math is piss easy. I'm guessing you do music as well?
#43
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You'll be waiting a long time. And I can turn off the Bro for a little bit if you want.


Nah, pitbros just have to get the bro out of their system on the first page or so, eventually they'll get bored of people's problems and it'll be back to normal

I would like to use this post to express my gratitude for this thread. Like many others, being able to vent and read advice here has helped me when I had no one else to turn to.
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Nah, pitbros just have to get the bro out of their system on the first page or so, eventually they'll get bored of people's problems and it'll be back to normal

I would like to use this post to express my gratitude for this thread. Like many others, being able to vent and read advice here has helped me when I had no one else to turn to.

I have no idea why I never went in the old Hug thread. I love to try and help people on UG.
#45
@chaoticfables Exams suck, but whatever you do, DON'T leave the studying till 3am in the morning. Use your day wisely to study, as you will need sleep(proven to be vital to memory), and any exam will be a breeze.
Hugging Thread; I'm here to help


Oh you wouldn’t want an angel watching over
Surprise, surprise they wouldn’t wannna watch
Another uninnocent, elegant fall
Into the unmagnificent lives of adults


It's Tessa, not Tesse please.
#46
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I have no idea why I never went in the old Hug thread. I love to try and help people on UG.


You will fit in quite well then.


Well, hate to be the one to start off the heavy stuff, but whatever. This is kind of embarrassing though -- some of you may know that I used to have a cutting problem. I haven't cut in a long time and I no longer even like it, but in recent months I have taken a liking to bruising. Okay, actually I'm developing quite an addiction to it. It feels way better than cutting ever did, and it doesn't leave scars. On the downside I occasionally have people asking if somebody's abusing me, but I can cover that up fine. I don't really see it as a problem I need to fix but at the same time I know it's not how normal people deal with things and I'm trying so hard to be normal (in terms of my mental health and self-esteem). But it feels too damn good and I don't know why.
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You will fit in quite well then.


Well, hate to be the one to start off the heavy stuff, but whatever. This is kind of embarrassing though -- some of you may know that I used to have a cutting problem. I haven't cut in a long time and I no longer even like it, but in recent months I have taken a liking to bruising. Okay, actually I'm developing quite an addiction to it. It feels way better than cutting ever did, and it doesn't leave scars. On the downside I occasionally have people asking if somebody's abusing me, but I can cover that up fine. I don't really see it as a problem I need to fix but at the same time I know it's not how normal people deal with things and I'm trying so hard to be normal (in terms of my mental health and self-esteem). But it feels too damn good and I don't know why.



#48
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Well, hate to be the one to start off the heavy stuff, but whatever. This is kind of embarrassing though -- some of you may know that I used to have a cutting problem. I haven't cut in a long time and I no longer even like it, but in recent months I have taken a liking to bruising. Okay, actually I'm developing quite an addiction to it. It feels way better than cutting ever did, and it doesn't leave scars. On the downside I occasionally have people asking if somebody's abusing me, but I can cover that up fine. I don't really see it as a problem I need to fix but at the same time I know it's not how normal people deal with things and I'm trying so hard to be normal (in terms of my mental health and self-esteem). But it feels too damn good and I don't know why.

Could you try replacing the bruising with something else? Like every time you get that feeling that you want to bruise yourself, just force yourself to sit down, calm yourself and meditate on why you're feeling that. I used to get angry pretty easily and tried punching things (Trees, walls, etc etc) whenever that happened, but once I consciously started to sit down and meditate every time I got angry, it all slowly started going away. I was getting the urges to punch things after the first time I tried it because I felt good afterwards, and I got used to punching things because it felt good. This wasn't very healthy so it's why I decided to try something different.
Nowadays I don't even need to pull the whole shebang out. If I get angry or get overcome by any negative emotion I just need to take one long breath and release it, and I'm back to my normal self.

EDIT: That was rather therapeutic to write that out.

Double EDIT: vvv I really wish I was a mod sometimes during these late hours.
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#51
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Could you try replacing the bruising with something else? Like every time you get that feeling that you want to bruise yourself, just force yourself to sit down, calm yourself and meditate on why you're feeling that. I used to get angry pretty easily and tried punching things (Trees, walls, etc etc) whenever that happened, but once I consciously started to sit down and meditate every time I got angry, it all slowly started going away. I was getting the urges to punch things after the first time I tried it because I felt good afterwards, and I got used to punching things because it felt good. This wasn't very healthy so it's why I decided to try something different.
Nowadays I don't even need to pull the whole shebang out. If I get angry or get overcome by any negative emotion I just need to take one long breath and release it, and I'm back to my normal self.

EDIT: That was rather therapeutic to write that out.

Double EDIT: vvv I really wish I was a mod sometimes during these late hours.


The thing is, I'll already be calm when I decide to do it. Too calm, actually. I think part of the appeal to me is the adrenaline rush I get from it. I'm just drawn to the aggressiveness of it. And I rather like being angry. But obviously there's more to it than that, because I don't get the same high out of hitting walls and shit. The pain of the bruise feels really good for whatever reason. I have tried to sit and think over why I'm doing this. But I end up being like "doesn't matter had sex pain". But now that you mention it, I have wanted to start meditating lately.

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#53
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The thing is, I'll already be calm when I decide to do it. Too calm, actually. I think part of the appeal to me is the adrenaline rush I get from it. I'm just drawn to the aggressiveness of it. And I rather like being angry. But obviously there's more to it than that, because I don't get the same high out of hitting walls and shit. The pain of the bruise feels really good for whatever reason. I have tried to sit and think over why I'm doing this. But I end up being like "doesn't matter had sex pain". But now that you mention it, I have wanted to start meditating lately.

Yeah the first time you do it, you feel kind of stupid because it doesn't really feel like much, but if you continue to do it in place of the harmful actions, you come to expect that feeling instead of the feeling that bruising gives you. It takes some willpower but if you manage to completely replace it you'll be a lot more in control of your feelings and shit.
#54
Glad to see people are still behind the idea of this thread, i used to contributeb a bit to the old one but i don't really go on UG much anymore but i'll try to help out when i can.

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#55
no! i missed the first page >.>

pro-tip: if you want to get up at 30 to 8, dont set your alarm for 8:30...no breakfast or lunch for me today, although i was still on time. having slept for a whopping three hours last night didnt help either...

also, i once again noticed that my weight can severely fluctuate, meaning i can lose or gain up to 10 pounds in a few days, is that even normal?
#56
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You will fit in quite well then.


Well, hate to be the one to start off the heavy stuff, but whatever. This is kind of embarrassing though -- some of you may know that I used to have a cutting problem. I haven't cut in a long time and I no longer even like it, but in recent months I have taken a liking to bruising. Okay, actually I'm developing quite an addiction to it. It feels way better than cutting ever did, and it doesn't leave scars. On the downside I occasionally have people asking if somebody's abusing me, but I can cover that up fine. I don't really see it as a problem I need to fix but at the same time I know it's not how normal people deal with things and I'm trying so hard to be normal (in terms of my mental health and self-esteem). But it feels too damn good and I don't know why.


Have you ever thought about taking up kickboxing/muay thai?

I know it's not the same thing but I used to be quite violent/aggressive and i'd lash out at random shit for no good reason. I mean, I like getting hit too but doing kickboxing or whatever means there's a reason for it. It took me ages (having AS) to man up and go down to the gym to learn but it was the best thing I ever did. I'm much happier, more motivated and very calm IRL.

I'm bringing it up because I think it would be perfect for you. Wanting to be hurt isn't necessarily a bad thing (some people just like the feeling) but the way you're going about it is. I mean, it's seriously helped my self-esteem and mental health in general as well as keeping me in great shape and making me much more peaceful.

Obviously I can't force you to give it a go but i'd seriously recommend it. Like I said, best thing i've ever done and I think it would really help you
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#57
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You will fit in quite well then.


Well, hate to be the one to start off the heavy stuff, but whatever. This is kind of embarrassing though -- some of you may know that I used to have a cutting problem. I haven't cut in a long time and I no longer even like it, but in recent months I have taken a liking to bruising. Okay, actually I'm developing quite an addiction to it. It feels way better than cutting ever did, and it doesn't leave scars. On the downside I occasionally have people asking if somebody's abusing me, but I can cover that up fine. I don't really see it as a problem I need to fix but at the same time I know it's not how normal people deal with things and I'm trying so hard to be normal (in terms of my mental health and self-esteem). But it feels too damn good and I don't know why.




I'm sorry that you're feeling so conflicted, and it's good that you're talking about it. Talking about it goes a long way towards treating it. It may feel so good to you because you may not really feel any strong emotions, and the self-injury may help fill that gap. Regardless, just remember that all of us are here if you need to talk about it.

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I'm sorry to hear that.
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#60
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I cannot take this thread seriously because of this.
I don't give out many of hugs myself. I rather let my advice make an impact. That emote sometimes needed though.
"Music became a healer for me. And I learned to listen with all my being. I found that it could wipe away all the emotions of fear and confusion relating to my family." Eric Clapton
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I'm sorry to hear that.


you bitch.




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I don't give out many of hugs myself. I rather let my advice make an impact. That emote sometimes needed though.



In the posts like I quoted, I feel it undermines any real comfort, and even the ones with advice that use it, I feel it cheapens whatever was said.

But whatevs, I don't post here, so it's not going to affect me.

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#62
This is a shitty day.
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This is a shitty day.


I'm sorry to hear that, what's up?
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#64
Just work. We only have 2 guys here today. One guy MIA its seems and our Boss is at the main office.
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Just work. We only have 2 guys here today. One guy MIA its seems and our Boss is at the main office.


Well that sucks, but at least it's just today, right?
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#66
Had a bad day today. My electronics lecturer is French and i cannot understand a word that he's saying. He's so lazy about his language that he doesn't even care to accent his speech properly. It just makes everything harder than it is, especially as the nature of the lectures is technical. We were not given nearly enough time to carry out our tasks either. For the amount of work we had to do we needed at least another hour. I cannot do any work outside of the labs either because we're not allowed to take our reports out.

He never writes anything down during the lectures either. He just says speaks in martian and gives handouts. If i can't understand the handout, i'm screwed.

I've pretty much come out of the labs having learned nothing today and now i've fallen behind in my studies.
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#67
I understand man. Teachers like that you just have dig in your book more to learn it.


DDP: One guy is MIA so I don't know, my boss will be back tomorrow
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#68
Grats on the new thread guise.


Haven't been feeling too well lately. Going through long bouts of self-loathing more than usual.

Hope everyone's alright
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I understand man. Teachers like that you just have dig in your book more to learn it.


I hate electronics.

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Haven't been feeling too well lately. Going through long bouts of self-loathing more than usual.


Have one on me, man.

I hope everything works out. I'm depressed too.
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And well yes, I'll enjoy the carpal tunnel and tendonitis, because trying to get one is clearly smarter than any word you have spoken thus far.
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#70
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Well I know Physics is supposed to be hell hard, but Bio is supposed to be a lot easier than you expect, if NCEA haven't changed it too much from last year. Math is piss easy. I'm guessing you do music as well?

Math is pretty easy, yeah really? Is bio easy? I've found it pretty difficult but my teacher is a ridiculously strict marker and if you miss out on one minor detail he drops your E down to an M. Any more and it's an A, etc. Physics can screw you over from out of nowhere. I hate physics. I have it tomorrow.

I have a feeling the stuff I'm posting belongs in the New Zealand thread. Screw it. Come here. Hug me.
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I got my mum pressuring me into getting a job but no where will even give me a ****in interview, I got my teacher telling me to spend more time in the computer labs out of lesson. My mind wont stop ****ing thinking about Cassie.

I don't have enough time to sort out all of these ****in problems and I can't talk to anyone about it because I'm afraid that if I do I'll just get called a freak by everyone and shunned

So instead everyday I go in, fake a smile throughout the day to keep the questions away, pretend to be happy, keep myself caffined up so I can actually pretend to be happy when I'm not

Im too scared to talk to anyone about this and the only other person I thought I could talk to about this stuff probably wont even want to talk to me anymore because I decided it would be a great ****in idea to ask her out on a date


So I ask of you hugging thread can you please help me
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#72
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also, i once again noticed that my weight can severely fluctuate, meaning i can lose or gain up to 10 pounds in a few days, is that even normal?

When I'm sick I've sweat out 7kg+ over the course of one night. Dunno what that is in pounds because I'm too lazy to google.

EDIT: Just googled and it comes out to ~15 pounds.

<.<
>.>

You'll be fine bro.
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Had a bad day today. My electronics lecturer is French and i cannot understand a word that he's saying. He's so lazy about his language that he doesn't even care to accent his speech properly. It just makes everything harder than it is, especially as the nature of the lectures is technical. We were not given nearly enough time to carry out our tasks either. For the amount of work we had to do we needed at least another hour. I cannot do any work outside of the labs either because we're not allowed to take our reports out.

He never writes anything down during the lectures either. He just says speaks in martian and gives handouts. If i can't understand the handout, i'm screwed.

I've pretty much come out of the labs having learned nothing today and now i've fallen behind in my studies.

Have you tried looking for online lessons and tutorials of what you're learning or asking your school to get put in another class? Is it possible for you to do part of your work at home and then bring it in real discreetly?
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Haven't been feeling too well lately. Going through long bouts of self-loathing more than usual.

Y u feel self loathing?

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Math is pretty easy, yeah really? Is bio easy? I've found it pretty difficult but my teacher is a ridiculously strict marker and if you miss out on one minor detail he drops your E down to an M. Any more and it's an A, etc. Physics can screw you over from out of nowhere. I hate physics. I have it tomorrow.

I have a feeling the stuff I'm posting belongs in the New Zealand thread. Screw it. Come here. Hug me.

I didn't actually do Bio, but my mates that did said it was a easier than they expected. You really shouldn't listen to that though, if you study for a hard test, you'll blitz an easy test. Physics is always supposed to be hell hard so yeah... Good luck with that. If you're worried about getting excellence, then I'm sure you'll be fine.

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I got my mum pressuring me into getting a job but no where will even give me a ****in interview, I got my teacher telling me to spend more time in the computer labs out of lesson. My mind wont stop ****ing thinking about Cassie.

I don't have enough time to sort out all of these ****in problems and I can't talk to anyone about it because I'm afraid that if I do I'll just get called a freak by everyone and shunned

So instead everyday I go in, fake a smile throughout the day to keep the questions away, pretend to be happy, keep myself caffined up so I can actually pretend to be happy when I'm not

Im too scared to talk to anyone about this and the only other person I thought I could talk to about this stuff probably wont even want to talk to me anymore because I decided it would be a great ****in idea to ask her out on a date


So I ask of you hugging thread can you please help me

I know that feel about getting a job bro, I've only had one interview in the past year. You should take a whole day and just spend it relaxing because you sound like you're under a lot of pressure most days. I'm guessing Cassie is a girl you like? Dunno the situation so I won't give any advice here.
There's only one way to find it if you'll get called a freak, and you probably won't. Me and my Best Friend have about one serious conversation about everything in our lives and what not about once a year, and that's usually enough to get everything out and feel better. Just talk to your mates, they're going through the same thing for all you know.
It sucks that you have to pretend to be happy everyday bro, I guess the only thing to do is to push through it until you come through on the other side as a happier person.
Ahk, I guess that you asked Cassie on a date and she got freaked out? Let her sort her feelings out for a few days, and then talk to her about it. She sounds like a good friend so once you guys are cool, you can talk to her about it.
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#73
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Have you tried looking for online lessons and tutorials of what you're learning or asking your school to get put in another class? Is it possible for you to do part of your work at home and then bring it in real discreetly?


I can't be put in another class because i'm in uni. My group has been decided and the university is already understaffed as it is. Everyones groups are on a rotar, so if i did move to another group, it would mean that i missed essential practicals that i couldn't do again.

I might try some online tutorials if i have to, but it isn't what i want. It would be easier to understand and be more relevent to my course if i learnt what to do in the labs like everyone else. It is unlikely that an online tutorial would teach me exactly what i needed to know with exactly the right scope of understanding.

The uni have a very strict rule to not move the report outside of the lab. They wouldn't allow me and if i did sneak it out, they would know about it. It is practical work too. Not somthing i can do in my flat on my own.

The best i can do is file a complaint and hope for the best, but even then, what would that achieve?
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Freaking adbot just quoted me from the first page.

Anyway, sorry I'm not posting any advice right now but I have just been so stressed with things lately. Not only with school but thinking about my ex. It just bothers me that he never cared, just lied to me and led me along. That's why I needed to leave and sort my life out. I can't help but think about it. Even though I have someone else interested in me now I can't stop thinking about the past. I know I need to let it go but it's just so hard. I guess a hug will help me now and maybe some advice about letting go and to stop thinking about the past.
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Freaking adbot just quoted me from the first page.

Anyway, sorry I'm not posting any advice right now but I have just been so stressed with things lately. Not only with school but thinking about my ex. It just bothers me that he never cared, just lied to me and led me along. That's why I needed to leave and sort my life out. I can't help but think about it. Even though I have someone else interested in me now I can't stop thinking about the past. I know I need to let it go but it's just so hard. I guess a hug will help me now and maybe some advice about letting go and to stop thinking about the past.


I know how you feel, hun. So, so much.

Remember when i told you that i fell in love with Ash? It led me to be with Rhodri to distract myself from her. But in reality, it just made things worse, i'm sorry to say. Aulthough your situation is quite different to mine.

All i can say is to tell yourself that you're through with them and there is nothing constructive in being resentful towards him. You have a responsibility to be happy for your current bf. He doesn't want you to be sad just as much as the rest of us do, Andrea.

You'll get over this, hun. Trust me. Just keep your friends close and you can accomplish anything.
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Freaking adbot just quoted me from the first page.

Anyway, sorry I'm not posting any advice right now but I have just been so stressed with things lately. Not only with school but thinking about my ex. It just bothers me that he never cared, just lied to me and led me along. That's why I needed to leave and sort my life out. I can't help but think about it. Even though I have someone else interested in me now I can't stop thinking about the past. I know I need to let it go but it's just so hard. I guess a hug will help me now and maybe some advice about letting go and to stop thinking about the past.






Andrea, I'm sorry to hear that you're having problems with your ex, but just remember one thing: You lived before him, so you can live after him. It isn't your fault he didn't car, it's his own fault for being a jerkface. Try your best with this new guy, and that'll help the thoughts of your ex go away.

As for thinking about the past, learn from it, occasionally reflect on it, but don't dwell in the past. The only thing you can control is the present.
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#77
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Freaking adbot just quoted me from the first page.

Anyway, sorry I'm not posting any advice right now but I have just been so stressed with things lately. Not only with school but thinking about my ex. It just bothers me that he never cared, just lied to me and led me along. That's why I needed to leave and sort my life out. I can't help but think about it. Even though I have someone else interested in me now I can't stop thinking about the past. I know I need to let it go but it's just so hard. I guess a hug will help me now and maybe some advice about letting go and to stop thinking about the past.

He's the fag. By not caring for you, he's gonna miss out big time. It'll take time, don't worry

Also, did you know that in Japan they've invented a robot that hugs? We all could use them
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#78
Thanks Mac, Ziggy and behind-you.

Your kind words are too much that I ask for and it really helps. I'll make sure to take all of your advice. Thank you again.
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I know that feel about getting a job bro, I've only had one interview in the past year. You should take a whole day and just spend it relaxing because you sound like you're under a lot of pressure most days. I'm guessing Cassie is a girl you like? Dunno the situation so I won't give any advice here.
There's only one way to find it if you'll get called a freak, and you probably won't. Me and my Best Friend have about one serious conversation about everything in our lives and what not about once a year, and that's usually enough to get everything out and feel better. Just talk to your mates, they're going through the same thing for all you know.
It sucks that you have to pretend to be happy everyday bro, I guess the only thing to do is to push through it until you come through on the other side as a happier person.
Ahk, I guess that you asked Cassie on a date and she got freaked out? Let her sort her feelings out for a few days, and then talk to her about it. She sounds like a good friend so once you guys are cool, you can talk to her about it.

This situation between me and this girl is that she is the first person to make me genuinly happy since my breakup with my ex and she doesn't feel the same way, it's hitting me pretty hard and all I wanted was a chance with her. But alas it's always the same old story. And the best thing about all of this is that if you were to rewind about 3 days I would have been the happiest person on earth. All this shit seems to have happened in just one weekend and I can't take it
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Thanks Mac, Ziggy and behind-you.

Your kind words are too much that I ask for and it really helps. I'll make sure to take all of your advice. Thank you again.

Anytime
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