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I recently started dating this girl i really like, and i can see she likes me back. She feels comfortable when i put my arm around her, and walk her places, but how long should i wait before i kiss her? We are in Highschool, weve been hugging for 2 days. Ive put my arm around her twice, About how many days should i wait before our first kiss? and should i tell her i love her?
We are going to be spending a few hours together after school Wednesday, and i need to know if i should go for it, or wait some more... Also, i need to know how to lead up to the kiss, this is my 2nd relationship, my first one didn't go so well, with my first relationship, she ended up dying because a guy kept making fun of her, and i was stupid not to stand up for here more than i did. That was a few years ago, I want to tell this girl i love her, but im afraid its too soon..

Anyways, if anyone out there can help me by telling answering my questions, i would be grateful. i just need to know if i should wait longer, and how to lead up to the kiss.

My deepest thanks to all who help.
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#4
Just don't let her kiss you first. That's what happened to me. She was fine with the way it happened, but I felt really lame :'(
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#5
Wait until the time is right. You're lucky to have what seems to be more of a "conservative" girl. I get all the crazy sex addicts...not a bad thing, but can get annoying.

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#6
Just do that shit.

But DON'T tell her you love her. That comes waaaay later.
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we've been hugging for 2 days. Ive put my arm around her twice,


I want to tell this girl i love her, but im afraid its too soon..


Really?
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#8
Wait....you've been hugging for 2 WHOLE DAYS?? Wow, at least go get something to eat and take a shower dude. And slow down there mister! You've put your arm around her TWICE? Once in the first month is more than enough, ladies don't like all that affection.
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#9
If you want to kiss her just grab her around the waist and lean in for a soft kiss. If she doesn't do the same just kiss her on the cheek.

Most importantly, DO NOT TELL HER You LOVE HER.
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Quote by Arcane Circle
I recently started dating this girl i really like, and i can see she likes me back. She feels comfortable when i put my arm around her, and walk her places, but how long should i wait before i kiss her? We are in Highschool, weve been hugging for 2 days. Ive put my arm around her twice, About how many days should i wait before our first kiss? and should i tell her i love her?
We are going to be spending a few hours together after school Wednesday, and i need to know if i should go for it, or wait some more... Also, i need to know how to lead up to the kiss, this is my 2nd relationship, my first one didn't go so well, with my first relationship, she ended up dying because a guy kept making fun of her, and i was stupid not to stand up for here more than i did. That was a few years ago, I want to tell this girl i love her, but im afraid its too soon..

Anyways, if anyone out there can help me by telling answering my questions, i would be grateful. i just need to know if i should wait longer, and how to lead up to the kiss.

My deepest thanks to all who help.


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That would be my reaction if someone told me they loved me after 2 days.

Well yeah He said they'd been hugging for 2 da- wait what
#14
Just kissing her and telling her you love her is not gonna cut it, buddy. If you're a real man you will throw some chloroform her way and help her sign her signature on your marriage certificate. A diamond ring is for wimps. When she wakes up, tell her you got her a present, but she can't open it for another 9 months. That's how you really show women that you're committed to them.
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She's a absolute, total fridge.

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I recently started dating this girl i really like, and i can see she likes me back. She feels comfortable when i put my arm around her, and walk her places, but how long should i wait before i kiss her? We are in Highschool, weve been hugging for 2 days. Ive put my arm around her twice, About how many days should i wait before our first kiss? and should i tell her i love her?
We are going to be spending a few hours together after school Wednesday, and i need to know if i should go for it, or wait some more... Also, i need to know how to lead up to the kiss, this is my 2nd relationship, my first one didn't go so well, with my first relationship, she ended up dying because a guy kept making fun of her, and i was stupid not to stand up for here more than i did. That was a few years ago, I want to tell this girl i love her, but im afraid its too soon..

Anyways, if anyone out there can help me by telling answering my questions, i would be grateful. i just need to know if i should wait longer, and how to lead up to the kiss.

My deepest thanks to all who help.


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#16
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Please tell me you mean crying and not dying!

Anyway, don't tell her you love her...


no she drove herself off the road...


anyway, from the posts above, i will not be telling her i love her too soon...

but is it too soon for a kiss? also, should i put my hands on her hip or shoulder when i am walking with her?
#17
The next and most advisable step would definitely be surprise buttsecs, then wait a few months to kiss her, so you don't seem too full on.
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Quote by Arcane Circle
I recently started dating this girl i really like, and i can see she likes me back. She feels comfortable when i put my arm around her, and walk her places, but how long should i wait before i kiss her? We are in Highschool, weve been hugging for 2 days. Ive put my arm around her twice, About how many days should i wait before our first kiss? and should i tell her i love her?
We are going to be spending a few hours together after school Wednesday, and i need to know if i should go for it, or wait some more... Also, i need to know how to lead up to the kiss, this is my 2nd relationship, my first one didn't go so well, with my first relationship, she ended up dying because a guy kept making fun of her, and i was stupid not to stand up for here more than i did. That was a few years ago, I want to tell this girl i love her, but im afraid its too soon..

Anyways, if anyone out there can help me by telling answering my questions, i would be grateful. i just need to know if i should wait longer, and how to lead up to the kiss.

My deepest thanks to all who help.


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#19
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no she drove herself off the road...


anyway, from the posts above, i will not be telling her i love her too soon...

but is it too soon for a kiss? also, should i put my hands on her hip or shoulder when i am walking with her?


How old are you, TS?
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#20
I started "dating" a girl my freshman year in highschool (freshman in college now). After about a week/week and a half we went to a haunted maze type of thing, after the night was over my friends and her dropped me off at my house. Before I got out of the car I gave her a kiss, just a peck on the lips I slightly missed and thought I made a complete fool of myself. But she thought it was cute and we've been together ever since.

So I would say just go in for the kiss when it feels right. I know it sounds lame and cliche but that's pretty much the only thing to go off of.

Good luck, and don't get down if shit goes awry.
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Quote by Arcane Circle
I recently started dating this girl i really like, and i can see she likes me back. She feels comfortable when i put my arm around her, and walk her places, but how long should i wait before i kiss her? We are in Highschool, weve been hugging for 2 days. Ive put my arm around her twice, About how many days should i wait before our first kiss? and should i tell her i love her?
We are going to be spending a few hours together after school Wednesday, and i need to know if i should go for it, or wait some more... Also, i need to know how to lead up to the kiss, this is my 2nd relationship, my first one didn't go so well, with my first relationship, she ended up dying because a guy kept making fun of her, and i was stupid not to stand up for here more than i did. That was a few years ago, I want to tell this girl i love her, but im afraid its too soon..

Anyways, if anyone out there can help me by telling answering my questions, i would be grateful. i just need to know if i should wait longer, and how to lead up to the kiss.

My deepest thanks to all who help.


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#22
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also, should i put my hands on her hip or shoulder when i am walking with her?

vagina, definitely
#24
Are you trolling? If you're old enough to drive you should know what to do with a girl...
#25
First, make sure you don't ever punch her in the mouth. Turns out that it gives her a better impression of who you are, and take it from there.

But seriously, I can't help, despite my wanting to. Why do you think I visit the Pit?
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#26
dont tell her you love her, because you dont.


do yourself a favor and take it slow, don't try to rush her into something just because you think its time.


wait for her to show you that she wants to kiss you.
#28
Well, the vast majority of my relationships started with a well timed kiss, as opposed to "hey, wanna like, totally, be my girlfriend maybe?" So a kiss, unless the girl is the most ridiculous kind of prude is always okay. But do not, I repeat, DO NOT, say that you love her.
#29
A lot of people I know **** on the first date
Get with the times TS......

OT kiss he passionately and tell her you want to make sweet love to her
She'll dig that
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My god, this is adorable.


Just, too damn precious.
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We are in Highschool, weve been hugging for 2 days.


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"Hugging for 2 days"

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Just gonna say, I waited 7 months to kiss my girl, and we've been together for over a year now, getting sexual, and we're both very happy.

Yes, I am a huge pussy.
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Just gonna say, I waited 7 months to kiss my girl, and we've been together for over a year now, getting sexual, and we're both very happy.

Yes, I am a huge pussy.




What the hell did you do for 7 months? Play backgammon?
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Yes, I am a huge pussy.
Soooo... lesbian relationship?
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What the hell did you do for 7 months? Play backgammon?

Hugged and watched movies

Naw though, there were a lot of issues involving jealous friends, cockblocking and stuff that got in the way, it's not like we just didn't do it.
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Hugged and watched movies

Naw though, there were a lot of issues involving jealous friends, cockblocking and stuff that got in the way, it's not like we just didn't do it.


Cockblocking a kiss would have to be an actual cock, blocking your path to her mouth
#39
Cockblocking a kiss would have to be an actual cock, blocking your path to her mouth
Really, it was a lot more than that. It has a lot to do with the fact that she was insecure about messing things up, and I had (past tense - had) a rather unpleasant friend who would never leave us alone, even when we would try and go on dates, he'd end up finding out.

He even pretended that she was cheating on me with him and he used to follow her like a lost puppy so I could barely talk to her.

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You can kiss a girl within 10 minutes of meeting them. Period.
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