#1
Ok Pit, I'm doing this online under anonymity because I can't talk to anyone about it. A couple of weeks ago my best friend and I (she's a girl) went out and partied and at the end of the night we went back to her apartment and ended up...yeah. Turns out she really liked me, more than friends, so us doing that sent a really confusing message. I didn't know it was going to be more than "just sex" for her until the next day because we had never talked about it. I would be kidding myself if I hadn't thought about being with her but I thought about it more the next day and very long story short, told her let's just be friends. She was upset but I think she was ok with it. But during the act my condom slipped or broke, I don't know, and she missed her patch for the month or something. She got a Plan B w/in 72 hours but now she's late. She's really upset with me for "doing this to someone I say I care so much about" she doesn't understand why I had sex with her if I couldn't see us being together. So right now I'm stuck with "our friendship never being the same" and then we'll so about the "late" situation. We're both about to turn 20, in college, doing a lot on campus and a kid is going to wreck our lives and a lot of those around us. I also may lose my best friend in the process. I really hate myself for everything. But if anyone has ANY advice please let me know. I just don't know what to do anymore.
#3
I dunno, try talking before you get your dick wet.

Also, what kind of guy are you that you're the one keeping her in the friend zone?
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#5
maybe she was pregnant before and is trying to frame you so her boyfriend doesn't get blamed or something
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#7
Oh shit bud. If she keeps it, don't be a dick. You be a dick of a dad I will personally kick your ass. Be there for your kid, if it happens.

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#8
Just because she's late doesn't mean she's pregnant. Two of the biggest things that affect hormones are sex and stress. Assuming she hasn't had sex in a long time, it's relatively normal for her to miss her period afterwards, seeing as that's also dependent on hormones. The fact that she's probably stressed out about potentially being pregnant probably isn't really helping. It actually happens a lot.

TL;DR: Have her take a pregnancy test.
Last edited by herby190 at Nov 27, 2011,
#13
Wait and hope shes not prego. Next time don't screw someone who is "just a friend." Use your big head when you make decisions not your little one. Sorry but as a previous poster said "you dun goofed."
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#15
Guitar on her staircase = she fell by accident = no more baby.
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#16
Sorry, within 72 hours doesn't help much. The success rate depletes massively the further from the event occurring. If you knew it had happened and it still took 72 hours before she took it, the situation can't be that urgent...

It can cause a lot of irregular stuff in regards to her period and bleeding and such. I had a condom break with my girlfriend back in February and she took the thing a couple of hours afterwards... she ended up about 2-3 weeks late and bled for about a month, which according to the doctor was because of taking the pill. But fortunately I'm still minus any offspring.
#18
she has to get a pregnancy test, and if she's pregnant both should talk about it and if you agree, let her has an abortion. it's illegal, but its done everywhere... it'll cost you some cash, but that's better than ruining both life's if you think that is what a kid would do to you (i think it would).
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#19
My best friend just lost her baby.
The father wanted her to have an abortion, didn't want anything to do with her or the baby
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she has to get a pregnancy test, and if she's pregnant both should talk about it and if you agree, let her has an abortion. it's illegal, but its done everywhere... it'll cost you some cash, but that's better than ruining both life's if you think that is what a kid would do to you (i think it would).

Abortions aren't illegal in Texas. Which is kind of surprising, considering the reactionary jackwagons that are in charge of that state.
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she has to get a pregnancy test, and if she's pregnant both should talk about it and if you agree, let her has an abortion. it's illegal, but its done everywhere... it'll cost you some cash, but that's better than ruining both life's if you think that is what a kid would do to you (i think it would).


Since when is it illegal? Morally wrong, I think, but illegal? Or is the US one of the few countries that allows it?
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#24
That's nothing, just be thankful it wasn't a stripper. Truuuuust me.
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