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#1
I know most of you aren't too thrilled with the prospect of having children, but discuss this with me anyway.

To what extent should you control your child's involvement with sex and drugs? Is it irresponsible to allow your child to have sex or do drugs?

What about providing them with drugs or condoms? Even worse, or okay?

Anywhere else I would expect to be told this is a stupid question, but I can always count on the Pit to debate the non-debatable.
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#2
I don't know, christ.
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#3
It's only irresponsible if I'm not the one doing drugs and having sex with my kids.
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If I have a kid, he will take a bong rip when he is 18.
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#6
inb4 shit storm.

No I would not provide them with drugs. What kind of stupid question is that? I also wouldn't want them drinking or doing any drugs. I would strongly discourage it and talk to them about why I feel that way.

Them having loads of sex wouldn't be an ideal situation at all, but I would stress the importance of safe sex. That's a much better idea then just ignoring it completely.

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#7
I'd tell them no sex and no drugs. Maybe i'll tell them to be safe on both accounts if they do; don't get caught, get pregnant, stds, etc. Cuz kids will be kids. But if I find out about it i'm probably gon' be pissed.
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#8
What about having sex with your kids?
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#9
No sex, no drugs, no parties, no friends, only home school and 7 hour a day religious education.
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#10
I'd teach my kids about drugs and what they do to you. I'd tell them about the legal and health related consequences of their actions if they took drugs and I'd advise them to abstain from them. And I'd give my kids condoms as soon as I thought that they were having sex or as soon as they turned 16. Whichever comes first.
#11
No drugs except beer (and occasional hard drinks). Can drink in the house freely (but he/she has to not be a bum and get a damn job to pay for it after 17-18 lol)

Sex, I don't know yet. Depends on the gender.


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#12
Educate them and let them make their own decision.

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#13
If I had kids, I wouldn't care if they had sex, as long as they're in university. If they somehow get pregnant or somebody else, it's their problem and I'm not dealing with it. I'm not paying for anything or letting them move back in.
It's the same deal for drugs. Although, I would prefer it if they completely avoided all drugs (including cigarettes and weed).
Don't care what argument anyone brings up. My home will be grandchild and drug free.
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I'd tell them no sex and no drugs. Maybe i'll tell them to be safe on both accounts if they do; don't get caught, get pregnant, stds, etc. Cuz kids will be kids. But if I find out about it i'm probably gon' be pissed.

Something along these lines.
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No drugs except beer (and occasional hard drinks). Can drink in the house freely (but he/she has to not be a bum and get a damn job to pay for it after 17-18 lol)

Sex, I don't know yet. Depends on the gender.


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#16
I can't truly speak for the person I'll be whenever my time to be a father comes around, but based on my first-hand experience with how detrimental it can be to over-protect one's children, I'll likely place much more emphasis on making sure my kids are educated enough to make responsible decisions than I will on whether or not I want them to do it. At least that way I know that if they're out there doing something I don't agree with, they're doing a damn good job of it.
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#17
Drugs are bad mmmkay. Seriously, I'd want them to steer clear of drugs. Tell them the problems/consequences and try to help them avoid it. Booze I wouldn't be too fussed about after they're 16 or so, but I'd make sure they don't get wasted every night.
Sex is something I think they have to decide they're comfortable with. I'd try to emphasise safe sex/not just putting your dick/wrapping you vagina around anything, but really it's up to them for that.
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#20
I would try to educate them the best I could regarding sex and drugs, and I would hope they would make the right decision. The right decision to have lots of safe sex, and to do drugs in moderation without harming their education and passions. Once drugs start negatively affecting the decisions you make, thats when it becomes a problem, and I have to come in with my pimp hand strong
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No drugs except beer (and occasional hard drinks). Can drink in the house freely (but he/she has to not be a bum and get a damn job to pay for it after 17-18 lol)

Sex, I don't know yet. Depends on the gender.


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#23
Don't do drugs at all. Sex is fine I guess, but wear a condom/use the pill or I'll strike you down with great vengeance and furious anger. And for the love of god don't do it while I'm around.
#24
I'd probably just educate my kids about the two things, like everyone else said. I don't think I'd really care too much if they smoked or had sex after a certain age. Once their 16 or so they'd be mature enough to know what they're doing anyway. I started smoking when I was 13 and did psychedelics for the first time when I was a sophomore and I definitely don't think I'd want that for them, but pretty much as long as they aren't pregnant/getting someone pregnant, or so much of a pothead that it effects their education then I think I'd be fine with it.
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#27
Like everyone else said, make sure they're educated and understand the health/legal ramifications of drug use. If I catch them with drugs (alcohol included) I will definitely discipline them. If I catch them having sex I'll probably just make sure they're using protection and ask them not to do it when I'm in the house.
#28
If my kids are anything like me, then I'll have absolutely zero control of when they start doing drugs and having sex.
#29
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Fuucking this! I think it's funny how all of you are giving these conservative "No child of mine" answers like they won't do whatever they want whenever you aren't around.

My kids are gonna be smart enough to know what not to mess with and get away with pretty much everything.

You, good sir, have not gone over to your friends house after a hard night of drinking to find 2 dudes passed out in the same room both holding their own flaccid cocks in hand, passed out, with porn on the tv.
#31
I'll tell my kids about what drugs can do to you, and how they need to control themselves.
Also, I plan to give them a heroic speech when they turn 15.

"Kids, no matter how much I annoy you and bug you and shit, remember that I love you.

And if you ever need anything, even if you're half naked, drugged up running from the cops through the streets, just give me a call, and I'll pick you up and drive you home.

I won't even yell at you. Sure I'll be mad in the morning, but imagine how mad i'd be if I had to pick you up from the cops."

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#32
I would only be upset if they were irresponsible in their actions. Dangerous drug use, unsafe sex with unsafe people, etc. Not just upset. I would make sure they stop it. If they are safe and responsible, I have no qualms. Why would I make them stop if I have no problem with myself doing such things at this age?

#33
This will be my statement "I will murder you if ________ but if you're crazy enough to do it, at least ____________ when you do it."
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#34
I'd educate them about the risks of both, and then let them make their own decisions. If they start smoking weed or drinking, I'm not going to try to get them to stop because they're going to do it regardless of what I say at that point, I'm just going to make sure they understand the possible consequences of their actions. I'd also start drug testing them to make sure they didn't start getting into harder stuff, because that's not acceptable. Hopefully though that wouldn't happen because they will be properly educated rather than being terrified out of doing drugs, so they won't go through the whole thing where they smoke once and it doesn't kill them like they were told it would, so they start questioning everything else they've been told about other drugs too. If anything, "gateway drugs" came from that methodology of fear-based education.

Supplying your kids with drugs, that's no bueno. I'd never directly condone it.
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#35
I'm pretty liberal, especially about teen sex. It's bound to happen sooner or later. I plan on encouraging my children to healthfully express their sexuality whenever they feel that they are ready, and with that comes the responsibility of being safe. I'll be very honest with them about how to be safe and even provide them with condoms and/or birth control pills. sex is natural. why pretend like it's a bad thing?

As for drugs, I'm not totally sure. Overall though, I think if they were gonna do it, I'd want to know about it instead of it being a secret. As long as it was just weed, I'd probably be okay with it. If it was something more serious, I'd be a concerned parent I think.
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#36
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I'd tell them no sex and no drugs. Maybe i'll tell them to be safe on both accounts if they do; don't get caught, get pregnant, stds, etc. Cuz kids will be kids. But if I find out about it i'm probably gon' be pissed.

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#38
I would strongly discourage it.

With alcohol, I'd discourage alcohol, but once they're of age to drink, I won't rage or anything if they do drink. I'll just do my best to make sure they aren't an idiot or irresponsible about it. I'd probably be the same way about marijuana. I'd be disappointed if my kid smoked marijuana as an adult. I mean, yeah, it's not physically addicting or anything of that stuff, but I've seen several people really change from marijuana use, let grades slip, become lazy and unmotivated, etc.

With drugs, I wouldn't want my children ever doing drugs. Yes I'm aware some people can use drugs responsibly, but quite frankly I think drugs generally do more harm in people's lives that good. I don't want my kid to go through that harm.
#39
Today I watched Dr. Phil and saw an 18 year old who knocked up two 16 year old girls in the same school. Teens are so stupid sometimes it's hilarious.
#40
I wouldn't encourage any drug use; alcohol or otherwise, but once they're of age (18 here in Australia), then I'd just hope they make the right choices. If they choose to smoke a little weed, then I'd be okay with it, assuming they're adults. If they like a bit of the poison, then again, it wouldn't be my place to tell them what to do anymore. I'd be alright with my kid drinking in my own house, however. Kids are going to be doing it anyway, I know I did. I'd much rather them do so in the safety of my own house than some of the places I drank when I was younger.

Sex-wise, I'm all for educating them about it. I'd offer them condoms and allow them to have sex under my roof. Sex isn't something people should be ashamed of, and I'd want my kids to feel safe and knowledgeable.
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