Poll: Can f*** buddies ever work out?
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View poll results: Can f*** buddies ever work out?
Of course, it's just sex
32 21%
Hell no, sex ruins everything
11 7%
I've had one, and it worked out :sexsmile:
16 11%
I've had one, and it didn't work out
16 11%
I've never had a f*** buddy :(
31 21%
I've never had sex :sad:
44 29%
Voters: 150.
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#1
So why does being friends with benefits never work out? I have never seen it work out successfully without some sort of baggage behind it. I mean it's just sex right?

So what do you think pit, is there a way that this situation could ever work out with neither party having any feelings for each other as long as it lasts? Also, if you have any experience with having a fuck buddy, please share. Poll incoming.
#2
I was going to suggest to a girl once about this but then realsied that I actually liked her so it wouldn't work.....just depends on the people really
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#3
Gotta make sure neither party has no emotional attraction to the other one, which is really rare. Also, having sex can develop that attraction, so yeah.
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#4
I've had friends with benefits. It never works out long-term. You will have a falling-out with the person 99% of the time, because one person always gets feelings.

Before that happens, though, it's epic.
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#5
Someone always has to get emotionally involved over time and ruin a good thing. *cough* the girl *cough*.

Its such a waste of a good thing.

Edit: Ninja'd. Should have known everyone else would type in exactly the same thing. It's pretty much the answer. /thread.
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#6
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Someone always has to get emotionally involved over time and ruin a good thing. *cough* the girl *cough*.

Its such a waste of a good thing.


From what I've seen with friends and such, it tends to be the guy

It's always been the girl with me, though. Commitment issues for the win!!


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#7
Never ever ever works. You'll almost definitely become emotionally attracted to her and as said you'll have a huge falling out and it's not worth it.
#9
It kinda worked for me. We went at it for probably a month, and during the one night she wanted to know if we could be closer. I said lets not ruin this by getting attached, so we kept it going. Only ended because she got a boyfriend, and i respected both of them *guy was a decent friend of mine* and now they live states away together >.>
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#10
Personally, I'm in a semi-friends with benefits situation. I've slept with this girl down my hall like 3 times over the span of fall and some of spring semester. So it's not much, but we literally only talk/txt during the weekends if we want to party together. We never speak of it, and we've never progressed to hanging out any more. It's sorta a funny situation to not ever see her, but then once in a while I'll sleep with her. You could hardly even call her a friend of mine, so I'd say it can work out. Now if only I was more attracted to her...
#11
It works great if neither one is sexually attracted the other and the sex is boring.

Smile when you say that.
#12
I absolutely despise sex outside a stable relationship. I wouldn't want to have a friend with benefits.
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#16
Having had several friends with benefits (yes, I'm a dirty, dirty boy) I can say that from personal experience, emotions are what destroys these kind of relationships. Sex often involves a lot of emotions and feelings, so it's easy to develop som kind of feelings for the other. Also, having sex with just a friend can make the friendship just turn into one thing: sex. So, being FWB works for a little while, but in the long run, either you or the other is most likely going to get hurt (or get a STI, depending on the situation).
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#17
I'm going to have a **** buddy beginning Saturday.

Oh, and she's pregnant. I've got a bad feeling about this.

Please feel free to tell me that it's going to end bad.
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#18
Quote by NewsoftheWorld
I'm going to have a **** buddy beginning Saturday.

Oh, and she's pregnant. I've got a bad feeling about this.

Please feel free to tell me that it's going to end bad.


Think about her baby sucking your dick whilst ****ing her....
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#19
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Think about her baby sucking your dick whilst ****ing her....



I'm more worried about her trying to claim that im the father.

This bitch better not be crazy.
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#20
Quote by NewsoftheWorld
I'm going to have a **** buddy beginning Saturday.

Oh, and she's pregnant. I've got a bad feeling about this.

Please feel free to tell me that it's going to end bad.

On the plus side, you can't knock her up.
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#21
Well I had a **** buddy once. She fell in love tho so it was all ruined after a month or two...guess I'm that great. Just kidding. Anyway...I think that one or another sooner or later falls in love or something. So yeah...can work but not for a long period of time.

edit: should I be surprised that most people that vote haven't even had sex yet? It's the pit after all I guess...
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#22
havent had a **** buddy. just an ex and a gf. sex isnt my priority, its frosting on relationships.
#23
It has worked for me


just dont try it with someone you really want a relationship with
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#25
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I'm going to have a **** buddy beginning Saturday.

Oh, and she's pregnant. I've got a bad feeling about this.

Please feel free to tell me that it's going to end bad.

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#26
After I came back from travelling, I went round to the girl who I left waving at the train station. Needless to say, I wanted some, but she kept saying "I don't want a relationship". I told her I didn't either; that we could keep it casual. But she said she couldn't do it because I keep coming (pun unintended) and going as I please and I can't expect to return and pick up where we left off.

Which is fair enough I suppose. Still awkward when you're stood in her bedroom, in a pair of her shorts, with a clearly visible hard-on.

So, basically, I tried to initiate a FWB situation and failed miserably.
#27
I'm two weeks into a FWB situation, which is a first for me.
So far it seems to be going well, plus she said she wants to stay single since all her previous fella's have just fucked her about.. Guess I'll report back in a couple of months time.
#28
Yeah I had a fuck buddy. Everything went great. She now has a boyfriend and is still one of my best friends.
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#29
You should not seperate sex and love.
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#30
IMO friends with benefits is the wrong way to describe it. Because if you hang out as friends one or the other eventually develops feelings. Or, those feelings are there but suppressed, however, the sex can bring them out. I treat it the same way I treat porn. Oh look I'm spontaneously horny, I'll text her something raunchy then head over.

The only way I've had this type of scenario work out is if you only meet up when you are going to bang. No hanging out or doing friend things together. No talking or texting constantly. You each live your separate lives and are a booty call to one another.

If you don't get much action or female opportunities and she's your only real source you are at risk for developing feelings of attachment.
#31
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You should not seperate sex and love.

Why so? Speak for yourself.
#32
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You should not seperate sex and love.


oh noes, its the intercourse police


Worked fine for me back in the day. She's still a good friend of mine, and we both have stable relationships with other people now.
#33
I haven't made a real attempt at having a serious relationship in almost two years, so my sex life is strictly pleasure. I've come to prefer it this way because I never get attached, but I really have to be careful sometimes because others tend to.

I've found that I can't keep fucking the same girl for more than a couple weeks without her treating me like a boyfriend, bothering me all the time, asking who I'm with and what I'm doing, trying to hold my hand in public, etc.

So every couple weeks, it's move on to another girl and come back to this one later. One-night stands are best-suited for my lifestyle.
#34
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Why so? Speak for yourself.

Studies show that people who see sex and love as seperate things often have dificulties with maintaining healthy relationships.
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#35
I had one then she started to have feelings for me. I've ignored her since then.
#36
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Studies show that people who see sex and love as seperate things often have dificulties with maintaining healthy relationships.


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#37
Long-term it hasnt worked out for me and can be a bit of a pain to break off.
I actually have to think about dumping my current f-buddy soon since shes getting kinda needy.

Fun while it lasts though.
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#39
I've tried it once. Didn't work that well.


I've watched a few friends try it, and it didn't work all that well for them either.


I won't say it never works, but from personal experience I haven't seen it work very well.
#40
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havent had a **** buddy. just an ex and a gf. sex isnt my priority, its frosting on relationships.


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