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So, this girl from work likes me. Shes pretty cool, we have some similar interests, but iv already got a gf. She just gave me her number and i dont know what to do really. I know not to get into this because the longer i go with it the higher hance i have of making a mistake. I think her number is too far. What do? If youre going to suggest threesome suggest how i bring it up.
#2
The fact that you're thinking about it says things about your relationship.

Also, relationship thread.

Edit: Alright, real advice. Don't go for the threesome idea. There's about a 90% chance she would not be okay with that and would take offense. Don't shit where you eat (aka, don't make things awkward with your co-workers).

What you do at this point is if you feel like she can accept just being friends, then text her if you want to. Otherwise, keep it strictly a co-worker relationship.
Last edited by Rockford_rocks at Sep 26, 2012,
#3
Nothing wrong with having the number of a co-worker right?
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#4
Make her stick her head up your ass, and them make her pull it off real quick and shit onto her head. She'll end up with a poop hat
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Make her stick her head up your ass, and them make her pull it off real quick and shit onto her head. She'll end up with a poop hat


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#7
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You have a girl, man. Just tell this chick from work that you already are dating someone. It's not hard.


Thinking about it more, I know how he feels. Even if you have a girlfriend, sometimes it can be thought provoking when another girl is interested in you.

I'm betting he knows what is right and what he's going to do in his mind, he's just seeking approval before he makes a decision.
#8
Quote by crazysam23_Atax
You have a girl, man. Just tell this chick from work that you already are dating someone. It's not hard.

She knows, but to avoid awkward work situations, il probably just go with it. I dont want this girl, unless threesome of course, but iv never had to turn someone down, i feel bad. Plus shes plder than me. Theres nothing wrong with talking to her. I just dont want her to get the wrong feeling.
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She knows, but to avoid awkward work situations, il probably just go with it. I dont want this girl, unless threesome of course, but iv never had to turn someone down, i feel bad. Plus shes plder than me. Theres nothing wrong with talking to her. I just dont want her to get the wrong feeling.


...The way to avoid awkward situations here would probably not be to go with it.
#10
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She knows, but to avoid awkward work situations, il probably just go with it. I dont want this girl, unless threesome of course, but iv never had to turn someone down, i feel bad. Plus shes plder than me. Theres nothing wrong with talking to her. I just dont want her to get the wrong feeling.

As long as she knows you're just friends. Also, have you told your girl about this? I would, to avoid any awkward conversations later.
#11
Quote by Rockford_rocks
...The way to avoid awkward situations here would probably not be to go with it.

I thought talking to her on facebook was fine, nothing wrong with talking to people, but then she gave me her number and i dont wana text her. This is why i stay antisocial.
#12
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I thought talking to her on facebook was fine, nothing wrong with talking to people, but then she gave me her number and i dont wana text her. This is why i stay antisocial.

Then don't text her...
#13
Ejaculate on my face and suck on my left tit.
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#14
Just go down the friendship path and all will be fine.
Or if you really think she is into you, casually talk about a funny moment you had with your girlfriend and she'll get the message.
#15
The mere existence of this thread tells me you kinda wanna ditch your girl to go with the other one. And only you can decide whether or not to do that.
#16
Sounds like a plan. Shes got a boyfriend though, she shouldnt have given me her number so quickly. That put me in an awkward spot.
#17
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Sounds like a plan. Shes got a boyfriend though, she shouldnt have given me her number so quickly. That put me in an awkward spot.

So you both have partners and she gave you her number? Sounds like a slut
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#18
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Sounds like a plan. Shes got a boyfriend though, she shouldnt have given me her number so quickly. That put me in an awkward spot.

Either you're fine and she's just being a friend or she wants a threesome.
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Quote by Tommat
The mere existence of this thread tells me you kinda wanna ditch your girl to go with the other one. And only you can decide whether or not to do that.

No its how to avoid an awkward work place by completely ignoring her giving me her number. Iv never been the one to regect a girl. I thought i coukd get an extra word in on it.
#20
Just because she gave you her number doesn't mean she wants to sleep with you or have a threesome.
#21
Quote by jrcsgtpeppers
Sounds like a plan. Shes got a boyfriend though, she shouldnt have given me her number so quickly. That put me in an awkward spot.


Then why are you assuming she likes you as more than a friend? She probably just gave you her number because she thought you were nice or something.

And why would you even think about a threesome?
#22
Quote by MrDo0m
Jzust because she gave you her number doesn't mean she wants to sleep with you or have a threesome.

Didnt say it did. But it does mean she wants to keep talking to me. I dont want that. I also dont think my girlfriend wou agree to a threesome.

Edit:^ becUZe i hearz she leiks me from a friend at work.
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Quote by Tommat
The mere existence of this thread tells me you kinda wanna ditch your girl to go with the other one. And only you can decide whether or not to do that.


I'm not seeing that.

Make sure you mention to her casually that you have a girlfriend and that you're committed to her. Maybe she's gotten the wrong idea.
#24
Quote by jrcsgtpeppers
Edit:^ becUZe i hearz she leiks me from a friend at work.


Regardless, you have a girlfriend and she has a boyfriend. She's being pretty delusional if that's true.

I wouldn't text her. If she likes you and is willing to look past the fact that she's already seeing someone, I highly doubt she'd be able to handle being your friend. Keep it at co-worker.
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Quote by Rockford_rocks
I wouldn't text her. If she's willing to look past the fact that she's already seeing someone and likes you, I highly doubt she'd be able to handle being your friend. Keep it at co-worker.

This.

Don't text her. Don't talk to her anymore. Leave it be, TS.
#28
Chad. Can you make more fl studio tutorials? Id like to be able to make the wubs as heard in the remix of thr rings of saturn song, youtube it.
So yeah, im not texting her so i hope this avoids any future problems.
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Chad. Can you make more fl studio tutorials? Id like to be able to make the wubs as heard in the remix of thr rings of saturn song, youtube it.
So yeah, im not texting her so i hope this avoids any future problems.

Just shrug it off man. It's not that big a deal. Just go to work and pretend it never happened if you need to. No need to avoid her or anything.
#30
I don't see anything wrong with just texting her. And you never know when your relationship will end so may as well keep your options open.
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#31
So if you give your number to someone you want to sleep with them? Well shit, I'm a slut then.

Don't coworkers usually have everyone else's' numbers? That's how its been where I worked. We text each other to see if people will work for us, etc. Relax and stop jumping to conclusions

EDIT: Stop talking like a 12 year old. It's like, not liek. Good Lord
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#32
There's an old saying:

"A man is only as faithful as his options".

Join the ranks of us gentlemen, who choose to prove that statement wrong.
"A man chooses. A slave obeys."
#34
What's wrong with with having a little extra meat on the side huh? Go for both so you have something to play with on alternate days.
#35
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why do people keep replying saying that giving out your number has anything to do with sleeping with them. i never said that. im just trying to avoid any problems i might run in to.
#36
Girls? This is a girl;

But boys will be boys and girls have those eyes
that'll cut you to ribbons, sometimes
and all you can do is just wait by the moon
and bleed if it's what she says you ought to do
#37
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I dont want this girl, unless threesome of course
You're gonna end up single real soon.
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#39
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Girls? This is a girl;



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#40
Who the **** is Kate Upton? Seriously, like what is her profession?
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