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Geldin
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#1
So I'm in a bit of a bind, Pit. I went and did a dumb thing and started going through old emails with the ex. Things didn't end so well between us and I'm reliving a lot of the really down feelings. It'll blow over, but it's not gonna feel so hot for a bit.

Any advice on kicking downer feelings besides the usual (hang with friends, try and distract myself, etc.?)
theogonia777
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#2
It depends on how deep the hole is and if the sides are slippery or not.
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Shut the mother#%$& up, $^%got. You have a #$%^ing terrible muther&@$#ing taste in %#$@ing music, @&%$ing movies and %&$#ing video games. Every time I see you on the forums, you are always saying something overrated and some $@&#ing sh*t. You are just mother$^@%ing ignorant as a whole.

Get a #%$@ing life or you will get banned for life.


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Kristen is very open-minded; believes that everyone is entitled to her opinion...


Quote by NirvanaLuvr16
omg its better than i imagined... so dark and cozy and warm...


Read this please. This as well.
theogonia777
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#5
Quote by Hal-Sephira
Shut the mother#%$& up, $^%got. You have a #$%^ing terrible muther&@$#ing taste in %#$@ing music, @&%$ing movies and %&$#ing video games. Every time I see you on the forums, you are always saying something overrated and some $@&#ing sh*t. You are just mother$^@%ing ignorant as a whole.

Get a #%$@ing life or you will get banned for life.


Quote by Arby911
Kristen is very open-minded; believes that everyone is entitled to her opinion...


Quote by NirvanaLuvr16
omg its better than i imagined... so dark and cozy and warm...


Read this please. This as well.
Geldin
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#6
Quote by theogonia777
It depends on how deep the hole is and if the sides are slippery or not.

Roughly ten inches and it's soaking wet.

Quote by devourke
you could try not being a pussy

That's an option of sorts, but that's assuming I'm a pussy in the first place. I'm not wrapped up over the girl or beating myself up over anything. Just not feeling hot. Take the tough guy attitude to an MH400 thread.

Quote by institutions

I forgot how awesome that thread was.
Last edited by Geldin at Nov 20, 2012,
theogonia777
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#7
Quote by Geldin
Roughly ten inches and it's soaking wet.


What is it, like a puddle or something? If it's only ten inches deep, you should be able to just step right out.
Quote by Hal-Sephira
Shut the mother#%$& up, $^%got. You have a #$%^ing terrible muther&@$#ing taste in %#$@ing music, @&%$ing movies and %&$#ing video games. Every time I see you on the forums, you are always saying something overrated and some $@&#ing sh*t. You are just mother$^@%ing ignorant as a whole.

Get a #%$@ing life or you will get banned for life.


Quote by Arby911
Kristen is very open-minded; believes that everyone is entitled to her opinion...


Quote by NirvanaLuvr16
omg its better than i imagined... so dark and cozy and warm...


Read this please. This as well.
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#8
Quote by theogonia777
wut


obvs use of gay as an insult to mock TS's gay thread
Geldin
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#9
Quote by theogonia777
What is it, like a puddle or something? If it's only ten inches deep, you should be able to just step right out.

You'd think so, wouldn't you? Must be a bear trap at the bottom or something.
devourke
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#10
Quote by Geldin
That's an option of sorts, but that's assuming I'm a pussy in the first place. I'm not wrapped up over the girl or beating myself up over anything. Just not feeling hot. Take the tough guy attitude to an MH400 thread.

ok
MH400
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#11
Quote by Geldin
Just not feeling hot. Take the tough guy attitude to an MH400 thread.





I actually came in here with good, solid advice seeing as I've done the same thing back in the day. I managed to get myself out of it and end up very happy.

Your loss
devourke
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#12
is this thread an mh400 thread now? i move tough guy attitude back to this thread now
Geldin
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#13
Quote by MH400
I actually came in here with good, solid advice seeing as I've done the same thing back in the day. I managed to get myself out of it and end up very happy.

Your loss

Guess so. For the record, I like your threads a lot lately; you seem more chilled out. I was thinking pissy-hothead MH400 of the good(?) old days.
Crazyedd123
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#14
Quote by Geldin
Roughly ten inches and it's soaking wet.

Bloody hell, I wonder why she left you.
Breakfast, Breakfast, it's great for us
We eat, we eat, we eat
That frozen meat
Oh boy, oh boy, oh boy, it can't be beat
purplexing
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#15
Dude I'm in a similar position. This sucks, I can't get that girl out of my head.
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[quote="'-[NiL"]-'] I asked him what tuning he put it in and he replied, "seventh."

Seventh.
Geldin
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#16
Quote by Crazyedd123
Bloody hell, I wonder why she left you.

It probably had nothing to do with my highbrow sense of humor, though it was more a case of me cutting off a bad relationship before it got worse than her leaving me. It's a long story and I'm don't feel like whining about it.
Last edited by Geldin at Nov 20, 2012,
Guodlca
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#17
Neither of you mentioned fap yet. Pit has been acting strange.
Not sure if a sig is a necessity.
adamgur96
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#19
Quote by Guodlca
Neither of you mentioned fap yet. Pit has been acting strange.


Fapping when you're feeling down it just sad....
I Have An Avant Garde Fetish....
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stratkat
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#20
I do prescription drugs and drink, well I've stopped the drinking since I was starting to get sick if I didn't have vodka, but if I were feeling down it'd be hard to say no to it.

I wouldn't recommend either one if the depression is only temporary, and if it's not maybe doing the trial and error with a doctor and anti-depressants.

Music helps me too, listening to sad songs about musicians who seem to be worse off emotionally than I (modest mouse, bright eyes, blue october.) For some music like that only makes it worse. But I just think damn, if they can get through that I can get through this, and it sorta feels like sympathy.

Really you shouldn't waste energy thinking about her when it does no good even if it's hard, trying wouldn't hurt.

Tbh I checked your profile for your age, just to be sure it wasn't angst, because emotions are a lot stronger/dramatic in teen years.
Last edited by stratkat at Nov 20, 2012,
Guodlca
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#21
Quote by MH400
Maybe theres no 13 year olds in this thread yet
Just as if older members never do such short pointless answers
Not sure if a sig is a necessity.
MH400
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#22
Quote by Guodlca
Just as if older members never do such short pointless answers



Well I don't see Slacker, CoreysMonster, Jackal etc posting crap like that.

Not saying it doesn't happen - but it certainly doesn't happen on the same scale at all.
theogonia777
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#23
If it's any consolation TS, you are heterosexual, so at least you have some chance with most any girl that you like in the future. I can't say the same about most of the girls I like.
Quote by Hal-Sephira
Shut the mother#%$& up, $^%got. You have a #$%^ing terrible muther&@$#ing taste in %#$@ing music, @&%$ing movies and %&$#ing video games. Every time I see you on the forums, you are always saying something overrated and some $@&#ing sh*t. You are just mother$^@%ing ignorant as a whole.

Get a #%$@ing life or you will get banned for life.


Quote by Arby911
Kristen is very open-minded; believes that everyone is entitled to her opinion...


Quote by NirvanaLuvr16
omg its better than i imagined... so dark and cozy and warm...


Read this please. This as well.
Crazyedd123
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#24
Quote by Geldin
It probably had nothing to do with my highbrow sense of humor, though it was more a case of me cutting off a bad relationship before it got worse than her leaving me. It's a long story and I'm don't feel like whining about it.

I was actually making a pun about it being 10 inches and soaking wet
And now I'm making a joke about the bolded.

Do you think you're upset because you cut off the relationship prematurely? Like maybe you feel there was some way to salvage it?
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We eat, we eat, we eat
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Geldin
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#25
Quote by adamgur96
Fapping when you're feeling down it just sad....

Agreed hard.

Quote by stratkat
Tbh I checked your profile for your age, just to be sure it wasn't angst, because emotions are a lot stronger/dramatic in teen years.

True that. I used to attribute my low moods to angst, but they hit me a lot harder than angst seems to hit other people my age. I've been diagnosed with major depression and borderline personality (which happens to have a major fear of abandonment component, which explains some of what I'm feeling now). Most of the time, I'm on top of my game and keep my moods inside a safe zone between the manic and depressive swings, but I was dumb and read those emails right when my dorm's empty before break. Not a great combo.

Quote by Crazyedd123
Do you think you're upset because you cut off the relationship prematurely? Like maybe you feel there was some way to salvage it?

I doubt it's that. The situation was very obviously not salvageable. We both made a load of mistakes on our respective ends and made a huge mess of the breakup. The whole thing was a year or so ago, so those feelings are a ways behind me.
Last edited by Geldin at Nov 20, 2012,
adamgur96
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Quote by Geldin
Agreed hard.


I see what you did there.....
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#27
besides the obvious, i just smoke weed. probably not the best thing to do for me, but considering that you seem like you're handling and rationalizing your situation well it probably wouldn't hinder you or anything.
Geldin
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#28
Quote by Dregen
besides the obvious, i just smoke weed. probably not the best thing to do for me, but considering that you seem like you're handling and rationalizing your situation well it probably wouldn't hinder you or anything.

I tried weed once, but it ended really badly. I think it was cut with something or it interacted badly with my antidepressant at the time. I ended up freaking out big time and having a major panic attack followed by an hour of paranoia and refusing to let anyone get close to me.
ErikLensherr
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#29
I think you should share the emails.
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I swear this guy in particular writes for the telegraph or some shit.

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#30
I used to read my old emails from my ex, and look at her pics, but it would make me depressed. So I deleted everything, and if I come across something now, I delete it without looking at it. That's the best route to take, imo.
devourke
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#31
If I ever read my IM history with my ex I just end up laughing all the time because all the jokes I make are like custom made to be hilarious for me.
theogonia777
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#32
Quote by Geldin
I tried weed once, but it ended really badly. I think it was cut with something or it interacted badly with my antidepressant at the time. I ended up freaking out big time and having a major panic attack followed by an hour of paranoia and refusing to let anyone get close to me.


You think that's bad? I have that happen to me on like a weekly basis. \


...not really weekly, but far too often...


You know what? All things considered, you shouldn't have anything to be in a hole about. I mean, I'm clearly way worse off than you and yet I'm like the most optimistic person ever most of the time. Cynical and condescending maybe, but optimistic nonetheless.
Quote by Hal-Sephira
Shut the mother#%$& up, $^%got. You have a #$%^ing terrible muther&@$#ing taste in %#$@ing music, @&%$ing movies and %&$#ing video games. Every time I see you on the forums, you are always saying something overrated and some $@&#ing sh*t. You are just mother$^@%ing ignorant as a whole.

Get a #%$@ing life or you will get banned for life.


Quote by Arby911
Kristen is very open-minded; believes that everyone is entitled to her opinion...


Quote by NirvanaLuvr16
omg its better than i imagined... so dark and cozy and warm...


Read this please. This as well.
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#33
Quote by theogonia777
You think that's bad? I have that happen to me on like a weekly basis. \


...not really weekly, but far too often...


You know what? All things considered, you shouldn't have anything to be in a hole about. I mean, I'm clearly way worse off than you and yet I'm like the most optimistic person ever most of the time. Cynical and condescending maybe, but optimistic nonetheless.


You want a hug don't you?

Inb4 no
Inb4 mean things said
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theogonia777
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#34
Quote by adamgur96
You want a hug don't you?

Inb4 no
Inb4 mean things said


no

srsly
Quote by Hal-Sephira
Shut the mother#%$& up, $^%got. You have a #$%^ing terrible muther&@$#ing taste in %#$@ing music, @&%$ing movies and %&$#ing video games. Every time I see you on the forums, you are always saying something overrated and some $@&#ing sh*t. You are just mother$^@%ing ignorant as a whole.

Get a #%$@ing life or you will get banned for life.


Quote by Arby911
Kristen is very open-minded; believes that everyone is entitled to her opinion...


Quote by NirvanaLuvr16
omg its better than i imagined... so dark and cozy and warm...


Read this please. This as well.
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#35
Quote by theogonia777
no

srsly

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I swear this guy in particular writes for the telegraph or some shit.

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adamgur96
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#36
Quote by theogonia777
no

srsly




Fuck you.
I Have An Avant Garde Fetish....
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Im in no way an amateur. I masturbate in public all the time.
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I can get an erection just by looking at a plastic cup, or a river.
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Don't worry, rape will always find a back way in
theogonia777
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#37
you guys i don wan a hug tho!
Quote by Hal-Sephira
Shut the mother#%$& up, $^%got. You have a #$%^ing terrible muther&@$#ing taste in %#$@ing music, @&%$ing movies and %&$#ing video games. Every time I see you on the forums, you are always saying something overrated and some $@&#ing sh*t. You are just mother$^@%ing ignorant as a whole.

Get a #%$@ing life or you will get banned for life.


Quote by Arby911
Kristen is very open-minded; believes that everyone is entitled to her opinion...


Quote by NirvanaLuvr16
omg its better than i imagined... so dark and cozy and warm...


Read this please. This as well.
adamgur96
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#38
Quote by theogonia777
you guys i don wan a hug tho!


Shut up and take our warm rapey hugs!

I Have An Avant Garde Fetish....
Quote by Gantz92
Im in no way an amateur. I masturbate in public all the time.
Quote by Nelsean
I can get an erection just by looking at a plastic cup, or a river.
Quote by Obsceneairwaves
Don't worry, rape will always find a back way in
piratemetalhead
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#39
Pick up your guitar and write a song

Go do some athletics

play the original Deus Ex
Dregen
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Quote by Geldin
I tried weed once, but it ended really badly. I think it was cut with something or it interacted badly with my antidepressant at the time. I ended up freaking out big time and having a major panic attack followed by an hour of paranoia and refusing to let anyone get close to me.


might have actually, i remember when i got put on celexa on top of my remeron and i smoked, didn't end up too well. i could smoke as much weed as i wanted on my remeron and take it almost immediately after and it wouldn't affect me at all. but after i started the celexa i had something happen similar to your situation. panic attack, shakes, sweats and hot flashes, 'brain zaps', etc etc. some medications it doesn't mess with but then i guess there are others where weed can cause weird things to happen.
Last edited by Dregen at Nov 20, 2012,