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Oblivoath666
Registered Loser
Join date: Oct 2008
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#1
I hope the pit is a good place for this.

I really don't know what to do. It's been nearly a year and one of my best friends wont talk to me. He won't respond to any messages or phone calls and I have no idea why. I don't know if he's upset with me or what. There's really no reason that i can think of for him to be upset. Also, there's something I feel I need to bring up to him that he probably doesn't even know about and then apologize about it. Maybe that's weird but I really don't care, it will make my thoughts more peaceful.

Any suggestions on what I should do?
"I'll have 2 number nines, a number nine large, a number six with extra dip, a number seven, two number forty-fives, one with cheese, and a large soda" ~Melvin 'Big Smoke' Harris.
Oblivoath666
Registered Loser
Join date: Oct 2008
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#4
He posts stuff on Facebook, so I'm sure he's not dead.

I've thought about just showing up at his house, but he lives like 30 miles away and I don't have a way to get there.
"I'll have 2 number nines, a number nine large, a number six with extra dip, a number seven, two number forty-fives, one with cheese, and a large soda" ~Melvin 'Big Smoke' Harris.
captaincrunk
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#5
Quote by Oblivoath666
He posts stuff on Facebook, so I'm sure he's not dead.

I've thought about just showing up at his house, but he lives like 30 miles away and I don't have a way to get there.

have you tried messenging on facebook? maybe he just doesn't like you?
the bartender
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#6
Stop blaming it on the dog bro, his entire family knows it was you who pooped on the carpet.
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ali.guitarkid7
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#7
He's stopped talking to you for a year. He doesn't want to be your friend and he's being a dick about it. Forget about him.
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I actually feel sorry for him, like seriously, get help
Oblivoath666
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Join date: Oct 2008
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#8
Quote by the bartender
Stop blaming it on the dog bro, his entire family knows it was you who pooped on the carpet.


uh....yeah....

anyway, good news everyone! he just responded after almost year....see ya!


i feel really dumb now.
"I'll have 2 number nines, a number nine large, a number six with extra dip, a number seven, two number forty-fives, one with cheese, and a large soda" ~Melvin 'Big Smoke' Harris.
Drache Wachter
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#9
If it's been an entire year, he may have moved on to other people. I've had similar situations in which friends and I were out of touch for a while, then when I tried to contact them, they didn't respond. People grow apart. It's just how people are. If he continues to ignore you, I would move on. Just make sure you leave the bridge intact.

Edit: Never mind, then. Maybe remember this for any future situations?
Oblivoath666
Registered Loser
Join date: Oct 2008
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#10
Quote by Drache Wachter
If it's been an entire year, he may have moved on to other people. I've had similar situations in which friends and I were out of touch for a while, then when I tried to contact them, they didn't respond. People grow apart. It's just how people are. If he continues to ignore you, I would move on. Just make sure you leave the bridge intact.

Edit: Never mind, then. Maybe remember this for any future situations?


yeah lol definitely remember this. Also, I know about people moving on and stuff....i just really wanted to apologize about stealing his iPod a few years back lol.
"I'll have 2 number nines, a number nine large, a number six with extra dip, a number seven, two number forty-fives, one with cheese, and a large soda" ~Melvin 'Big Smoke' Harris.
wedy1414
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#11
Quote by Oblivoath666
yeah lol definitely remember this. Also, I know about people moving on and stuff....i just really wanted to apologize about stealing his iPod a few years back lol.


lol wow no wonder he doesn't like you.
captaincrunk
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#12
Quote by Oblivoath666
yeah lol definitely remember this. Also, I know about people moving on and stuff....i just really wanted to apologize about stealing his iPod a few years back lol.

what the **** is wrong with you
Oblivoath666
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#13
Quote by captaincrunk
what the **** is wrong with you



so much.....so so so much.....
"I'll have 2 number nines, a number nine large, a number six with extra dip, a number seven, two number forty-fives, one with cheese, and a large soda" ~Melvin 'Big Smoke' Harris.
ultrasonic
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#14
Quote by Oblivoath666
yeah lol definitely remember this. Also, I know about people moving on and stuff....i just really wanted to apologize about stealing his iPod a few years back lol.


I think we may have found the reason for it.
Even has the lol after it
Oblivoath666
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#15
he didnt know about it before....he said its all cool though.
"I'll have 2 number nines, a number nine large, a number six with extra dip, a number seven, two number forty-fives, one with cheese, and a large soda" ~Melvin 'Big Smoke' Harris.
SrThompson
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#16
Talk to him, say that you want to meet him in a bar, get him drunk, go to a nice motel, get laid and get him pregnant.
slash_GNR666
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#18
Quote by Oblivoath666
yeah lol definitely remember this. Also, I know about people moving on and stuff....i just really wanted to apologize about stealing his iPod a few years back lol.


Bit of a cunt ain't ya?

I wouldn't speak to you either
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#19
Oblivoath666, your age is showing.
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#25
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Oh god kill it with fire.
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#26
I don't think its nice at all and is very threatful to your overall persona if you just ignore someone like that. If someone who hasn't talked to you in a while wants to let them say what they have and be normal about it.
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#27
Judging from your profile picture, I'd say it's because you don't wash your hair and probably smell really bad.
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#29
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#30
Just send him a cow. People love cows. They're meaty, and they eat grass.
Solves everything.
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#31
Quote by Oblivoath666
I hope the pit is a good place for this.

I am tempted to sig this part of the comment....
Burgery
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#32
About Oblivoath666
moo

ok...me....me....ok...ummmm...I am not a happy person; I'll just say that now lol. I am a pretty random person at some times. I enjoy playing guitar and listening to music, some video games i suppose. Things I hate:
my life, myself, water, heights and anyone who hates me i guess lol....well thats about it for now...


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#33
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lel

oh lord. op seems like an interesting guy
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#34
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Judging from your profile picture, I'd say it's because you don't wash your hair and probably smell really bad.

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TS is an ass. He probably didn't want to speak to you because high school is over and he never wants to see you again. I know his feel.
Poglia
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#35
Quote by Oblivoath666
i just really wanted to apologize about stealing his iPod a few years back lol.
Maybe that's why he doesn't talk to you.
Mudmen190
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#36
Your friend is a cactus, probably. Happened to me once. Met this dude, thought he was cool. Turned out - Cactus.
donender
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#37
I know someone like that, i haven't spoken to them in about a month, they message me occasionally, but when i message back, they don't reply, which is confusing to say the least. Anyway, they never returned my calls, and whenever i asked them if they wanted to hang out, they didn't respond. I decided to give up on them recently, i was going to call them out on it, but there really isn't any point, because if they were trying to avoid me, getting mad at them isn't going to change that, however, if they were actually just really busy, it could lead to us falling out.

So yeah if it's been a year, i say forget them, if they want to see you again, then great, if not, hang out with other people.
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Oblivoath666
Registered Loser
Join date: Oct 2008
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#38
Well, thanks people that had good input (why did I ask the pit?) Btw, all my profile stuff is from like 3 years ago...Is it bad to want to apologize for something wrong you did that the person you wronged has no idea about??? Jeez.....

Also I've been friends with this guy since 6th grade not just high school. I've just been overreacting about him not responding when he's never at his computer anyway and never answers his phone (should have remembered this from when I hung out with him). So, my bad.
"I'll have 2 number nines, a number nine large, a number six with extra dip, a number seven, two number forty-fives, one with cheese, and a large soda" ~Melvin 'Big Smoke' Harris.
Last edited by Oblivoath666 at Jan 8, 2013,
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#39
Quote by Mudmen190
Your friend is a cactus, probably. Happened to me once. Met this dude, thought he was cool. Turned out - Cactus.


Every god damn time...I swear....
jonathan666666
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#40
Quote by captaincrunk
it's been a year since you've had contact? maybe they died?

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