The flamenco technique you're thinking of is called "rasgueado". I'm not too familiar with it personally but at least that'll give you something to start looking for.
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The parts of your fingers that strum will get calloused just like the tips of your fretting fingers. The edge of my thumb that touches the string for pinches is calloused.
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