Poll: When does it turn into taking advantage?
Poll Options
View poll results: When does it turn into taking advantage?
A kiss
2 13%
Making out
0 0%
A little fingerbang
1 7%
Them giving you head
0 0%
You giving them head
0 0%
FULL PENETRATIVE INTERCOURSE
6 40%
None of them are taking advantage
5 33%
Acknowledging their existence
54 360%
Voters: 15.
#1
So let's say you're just hanging about in town, or at a concert, or in a bar or whatever and a completely drunk person of the opposite gender say's "I wanna have sex with you." The problem is that you're completely sober, so if you were to have sex with them it'd be taking advantage of them, right?

But is it still taking advantage if they come up to you and are like "give us a kiss, matey," and you oblige? Is it taking advantage if they give you a beej, or you schlop them off? Making out with them? A casual fingering?

When does it go from innocent fun to taking advantage of them?

EDIT: I should have made it multiple choice
Last edited by devourke at Jul 2, 2013,
#2
Ever watch a porno that makes you feel kinda uncomfrotable?
But boys will be boys and girls have those eyes
that'll cut you to ribbons, sometimes
and all you can do is just wait by the moon
and bleed if it's what she says you ought to do
#7
People still know what's right and wrong when they're drunk. It's just easier to convince yourself to ignore your rational judgement.

So, I wouldn't say it's "rapey."

It gets rapey when they are drugged or something.
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#8
Quote by Hydra150
Ever watch a porno that makes you feel kinda uncomfrotable?

You're talking about any porn with an asian girl and an asian guy in it right? why do they make the rape sounds. i even prefer the over exaggerated fake moans than the rape sounds they make.
#9
Quote by willT08
Nope

not sure if you don't watch enough weird stuff or just have a high tolerance
But boys will be boys and girls have those eyes
that'll cut you to ribbons, sometimes
and all you can do is just wait by the moon
and bleed if it's what she says you ought to do
#10
Quote by Hydra150
not sure if you don't watch enough weird stuff or just have a high tolerance

You ever seen someone fire cacti at a girl's asshole?
#11
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#12
Quote by Våd Hamster
That depends on how good your lawyer is

I shouldn't laugh, but this got to me

I dunno. I would just say as soon as they get uncomfortable? I actually had a friend tell me he denied a girl cause she was plastered and he wasn't. The next day she felt like shit because he rejected her the night prior (one of her friends told him that).

So it's very much a "person-by-person" basis when it comes to something like that. I wouldn't personally have sex with a person if I was sober and they weren't, it'd just feel like I was taking advantage of them. But I would not be opposed to making out. If they claim I raped them cause of the kiss (that I didn't start or initiate) that's just taking advantage of the system.
#13
If the term "rapey" is considered as a suitable description for the act, you've gone too far.
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#14
Quote by willT08
You ever seen someone fire cacti at a girl's asshole?

maybe actually
but stuff can get a bit weird on a saturday night in glasgow
But boys will be boys and girls have those eyes
that'll cut you to ribbons, sometimes
and all you can do is just wait by the moon
and bleed if it's what she says you ought to do
#15
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#16
I'd vote option three if it instead stated "A lot fingerbang"
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#18
Quote by Hydra150
Ever watch a porno that makes you feel kinda uncomfrotable?

No but I had a super graphic dream the other night with Louis C.K. ****ing Elizabeth Banks. That was uncomfortable.

And ts, premise is absurd, like I wouldn't be drunk too.
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#21
My personal litmus test is actually if the girl can stand upright, without swaying or talking, both eyes focused. If she can manage that then she's good to go

Not that I've thought that far in a real situation, on account of me always being completely pissed whenever I happen to stumble upon acceptable stock.

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Easy tits and ass. Who wouldn't?
Last edited by Våd Hamster at Jul 2, 2013,