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#1
this is a thread for us all to be honest

i am scared that i will be like my father

what are you scared of?
#4
I'm scared that one day i'll meet the one and be too pussy to do anything about it
You hit 'em and they get back up
I hit 'em and they stay down
- Frank Castle
#6
that I'm not very sure what I wanna do livelihood-wise and most other people do
Quote by ErikLensherr
Did you hear about the cockney Godfather?

He made them an offer they couldn't understand.
#7
I'm scared that at some point I'll change to the point where I no longer recognise myself, and I don't like who I am. This is why I don't like changing, because I don't know if I'll like the person at the end of the change.
will someone carry me across ten thousand miles under the silence
#8
I'm scared about gettin old and that I could not do things like now that I'm young.
#9
Quote by cha33 armstrong
I'm scared that one day i'll meet the one and be too pussy to do anything about it

i think you'll be surprised what love will make you do
I am scared I will be abandoned
me too so i remove people before they can do it. love to you
that I'm not very sure what I wanna do livelihood-wise and most other people do
my friend asked me what i want to do with my degree a couple of hours ago. i don't know either. love
I'm scared that at some point I'll change to the point where I no longer recognise myself, and I don't like who I am. This is why I don't like changing, because I don't know if I'll like the person at the end of the change.
in my experience you can live outside who you present. if you ever feel detached from who you are showing please do something to change it. it's not fun to live like that. love
#10
I'm scared that my mental illnesses won. I'm scared that it's too late for me to ever live the life I want to, or even one of lesser value, and that the only thing I have to turn to is suicide.
#12
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I'm scared that my mental illnesses won. I'm scared that it's too late for me to ever live the life I want to, or even one of lesser value, and that the only thing I have to turn to is suicide.

I love you my sister

That nothing will happen
I have seen the eternal footman hold my coat and snicker
#13
I'm scared that I'll never be able to not live in the past.
I'm scared that my paranoia is getting to a point where I can't trust food enough to eat
I'm scared that I'll be a complete failure. I know I have potential, but failure of the past keeps me from trying.
I'm scared that I'll never fall in love again.
#14
being forgotten by the people I care about

and that I'll never be truly happy, and not hate myself
Last edited by Bladez22 at Jul 17, 2014,
#15
Quote by Eastwinn
suicide.


i'm scared because no matter what i think now, no matter what anyone tells me, i will constantly find myself sure that suicide is the only solution, as i have countless times before but never committed or tried and failed.

i don't want to die when i feel sad. i want to die when i have the energy to change something.
i don't know why i feel so dry
#16
also, cause you're dishing out some kindness but not getting the favour returned,
Quote by willT08

i am scared that i will be like my father

you've got an amazing template and example of what not to do. Also, the respect that you have for your mum (which is massive by the way) will translate into respect for your missus. You'll be alright lad
will someone carry me across ten thousand miles under the silence
#18
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That nothing will happen


This is abstract but it resonates with me
Quote by ErikLensherr
Did you hear about the cockney Godfather?

He made them an offer they couldn't understand.
#19
Quote by Baby Joel

you've got an amazing template and example of what not to do. Also, the respect that you have for your mum (which is massive by the way) will translate into respect for your missus. You'll be alright lad

Thank you, I hope so
#20
Oh and @will you're like the chav of UG except you're very smart and stuff so nothing like a chav at all. peace
Quote by ErikLensherr
Did you hear about the cockney Godfather?

He made them an offer they couldn't understand.
#22
Elevators I guess.
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There's nothing left here to be saved
Just barreling dogs and barking trains
Another year lost to the blue line
#23
im scared that i will still be a creep when i grow up.
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This thread topic is gold. I've been on this website for 8 years and I've never come up with anything like this. So yeah. Great job TS[457undead].
#24
that i'm actually pretentious and self-righteous and uncaring in my quest to be anything but and that no actual physical human relationships will ever satisfy me in the way that i really care about

definitely working on it though

also the obvious fear of being a failure in my ambitions and i won't actually have serious positive impacts on anyone's lives and all that
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BOB 1. ur 20 and two u like evil things and idk if u worship the devil
#25
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Elevators I guess.

I'm very impressed it took so long to get something like this
#26
Quote by WhiskeyFace
That nothing will happen

Same here. That will life will be completely unremarkable. I'll die and be another person who did the daily grind until the end.
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Why would you spend tens of thousands of dollars to learn about a language you already speak? It was over before it even started dude

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brot pls
#27
im scared of the future because i dont really know what im gonna do with my life
banned
Last edited by deadsmileyface at Jul 17, 2014,
#28
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Same here. That will life will be completely unremarkable. I'll die and be another person who did the daily grind until the end.

dang
Quote by Sliide90027
But as a bigoted lemming, you have so cry an Alinslyite slur revealing you lack of reason and sense.


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BOB 1. ur 20 and two u like evil things and idk if u worship the devil
#29
all of my friends have seen my dad more recently than me. after he left me and my brother he carried on going to my football team stuff so they'd all see him at the weekend. i haven't had any contact with him for a decade now I guess.

If my dad didn't love me why would anyone else love me?
#30
i'm scared i'll become like my father. i only recently realized what a terrible person he is, he was very good at hiding it. he was a cheater, an abusive husband, he stole from my mum for 8 years, and now he's in france with his other wife and newborn baby. every now and then when i'm watching porn or something a terrible thought like 'i could see myself cheating' would pop in my head.

i'm scared i'll kill myself. self-explanatory. as my life gets better my head gets louder.

i'm scared i'll die before reaching old age.

i'm scared to fall in love, and i'm scared i won't be with someone at the same time.

i'm scared my job later on in life will be unsatisfying, boring, depressing.

i'm scared someone close to me will die.

i'm scared as i succeed (in light of good news about my academics recently) my closest friends will fail. they already have

i'm scared as i think i'll succeed and get cocky, i'll fail on the tracks.

i'm scared drugs are ****ing up my mind, and will make it worse

i'm scared crohn's disease will relapse in the future and make me chubby or put me in a wheelchair

i'm scared my current relentless passion for guitar, going on 5 years now, will take over my study in maths, also for which i have great passion

i'm scared i'm going to go insane.

i'm scared i won't do things that scare me

i'm just generally scared. i typed all that out without having to think very much at all. but i don't tend to let it stop me.
"I specialize in driving a set like I'm driving a Lexus" - Uncle Mez
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#31
I'm scared that when I apply to university that I won't get in anywhere and these years at CC will be worthless. I'm scared that I'll get in and be unprepared because my CC education has been so bad. I'm scared that I'll never have the great idea that changes everything. I'm scared I'll just get by.
#32
I am not scared. I am 100% indifferent.

Except when I think of the past, and realise how much I've changed.
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now i just use a fork, 'cuz nothing is fun anymore & i just want to shovel food into my mouth to fill the void
#34
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im sure deadsmileyface will hook you up with some green to ease your problems

i already smoke every chance i get
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love

"I specialize in driving a set like I'm driving a Lexus" - Uncle Mez
#35
Quote by willT08
all of my friends have seen my dad more recently than me. after he left me and my brother he carried on going to my football team stuff so they'd all see him at the weekend. i haven't had any contact with him for a decade now I guess.

If my dad didn't love me why would anyone else love me?


Because if you're kind and caring, and capable of love, then someone will return that love
#36
Quote by willT08


If my dad didn't love me why would anyone else love me?

dont worry man, if he doesnt love you, thats his fault. it doesnt have anything to do with you.
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#37
i think this is something we (or at least i) tend to forget; pretty much everybody thinks about these things and is genuinely terrified about some things or many many things and basically has no idea what they're doing with anything. truthfully i find the thought comforting, that we're anything but alone in our trepidations and it makes it really easy to be kind and compassionate to others when you find yourself angry and cut off.
Quote by Sliide90027
But as a bigoted lemming, you have so cry an Alinslyite slur revealing you lack of reason and sense.


Quote by MusicLord16
BOB 1. ur 20 and two u like evil things and idk if u worship the devil
#38
Quote by willT08
all of my friends have seen my dad more recently than me. after he left me and my brother he carried on going to my football team stuff so they'd all see him at the weekend. i haven't had any contact with him for a decade now I guess.

If my dad didn't love me why would anyone else love me?


My gf's dad lives in Birmingham and he's generally a shit dad, so I can somewhat empathise. She feels like she only ever talks to him when he's giving her money or something, which is pretty meaningless.
Quote by ErikLensherr
Did you hear about the cockney Godfather?

He made them an offer they couldn't understand.
#39
Quote by Bob_Sacamano
i think this is something we (or at least i) tend to forget; pretty much everybody thinks about these things and is genuinely terrified about some things or many many things and basically has no idea what they're doing with anything. truthfully i find the thought comforting, that we're anything but alone in our trepidations and it makes it really easy to be kind and compassionate to others when you find yourself angry and cut off.


given that everyone is fairly unique in their fears, exploring the worst sides of your close friends is a heavy but worthwhile adventure and the greatest source of trust i can ever imagine.
i don't know why i feel so dry
#40
Quote by Bob_Sacamano
i think this is something we (or at least i) tend to forget; pretty much everybody thinks about these things and is genuinely terrified about some things or many many things and basically has no idea what they're doing with anything. truthfully i find the thought comforting, that we're anything but alone in our trepidations and it makes it really easy to be kind and compassionate to others when you find yourself angry and cut off.


yeah. but when you're in an interview or talking to an entrepreneur or being lectured by a physicist etc, they're not thinking 'i'm scared'. that just comes when you're on your own, sitting down, reflecting on that horrible feeling. it's not really as simple as 'everyone's scared all the time'. i don't wish it to be so either

i wish there were things that comforted me. it's very difficult to find comfort when you feel like you're comforting everyone around you.
"I specialize in driving a set like I'm driving a Lexus" - Uncle Mez
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