How much PDA are Catholic girls open to? and how much is permissable?

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#41
Quote by neptune1988
sure , it may cause stress. but theres ways to deal with stress. also psychology says that if a boy feels like he wants to be a girl he should chop his junk off and get a designer vagina. so forgive me if I disagree. just sayin'

psychology is also partly to blame for the Catholic abuse scandal. in 1972 the APA removed homosexuality from the diagnostic manual of disorders. In the wake of Vatican II, there was a wave of people wanting to join the priesthood. Priests require a psyche eval before being ordained. Since psychologists no longer considered homosexuality an issue, many unfit priests were therefore able to fly under the radar. This eventually led to the abuse scandal.

^
after many investigations and studies, it was determined that there was not a SINGLE factor that led to the scandal, but rather a SERIES of factors. the above being one of them.

I regret being polite to you.

^It's not one or the other. I'm sorry but I would never marry a woman without having sex with her beforehand. I've been with my current girlfriend for 2 years and things are good for the moment, including sex. Different issues may arise. My previous relationship lasted about 2 years and the thing that broke it apart was sex. We were very compatible in every other area. We've both changed a lot and those issues may not come up if we were to somehow try again. But our personalities have also changed. We may be sexually compatible now but not in other places.

I don't bang random women. I get to know the person I'm dating as well as I can, and that includes sex.
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#42
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#44
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also for the record, from what I understand of canon law and cathechism, light petting is the farthest one can go without having to go to Confession afterwards. So that's where I draw my line in terms of sexual activity. Gotta follow Holy Mother Church, right!

It's probably the part after getting a light petting* that warrants going to confession for me

*that part is masturbation
#45
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I regret being polite to you.

^It's not one or the other. I'm sorry but I would never marry a woman without having sex with her beforehand. I've been with my current girlfriend for 2 years and things are good for the moment, including sex. Different issues may arise. My previous relationship lasted about 2 years and the thing that broke it apart was sex. We were very compatible in every other area. We've both changed a lot and those issues may not come up if we were to somehow try again. But our personalities have also changed. We may be sexually compatible now but not in other places.

I don't bang random women. I get to know the person I'm dating as well as I can, and that includes sex.

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#47
Quote by neptune1988
he should chop his junk off

why do that when you can just grip it and rip it? it comes off much easier than you think, trust me
#48
Quote by neptune1988

also for the record, from what I understand of canon law and cathechism, light petting is the farthest one can go without having to go to Confession afterwards. So that's where I draw my line in terms of sexual activity. Gotta follow Holy Mother Church, right!



To me, the phrase 'light petting' sounds way more disgusting than "I smashed that chick last night".

What even is 'light petting'? It's not a phrase that we really use here. It just sounds really creepy...

I imagine it being a 'phrase' used more commonly among pedophiles, though you've already told us that "you're no priest".
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#49
The only catholic girl I ever dated gave it all up 5 minutes after we were alone for the first time (also she was in her uniform, well for 5 minutes anyway). So my experience with catholic girls is that they are massive sluts.
#50
You come to the one place with only heathens to ask about christian-love advice?

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#51
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To me, the phrase 'light petting' sounds way more disgusting than "I smashed that chick last night".

What even is 'light petting'? It's not a phrase that we really use here. It just sounds really creepy...

I imagine it being a 'phrase' used more commonly among pedophiles, though you've already told us that "you're no priest".


light petting mostly entails, rubbing each others arms and back whilst hugging, giving each other back massages, etc. first or vaguely-second base in other words.

also I've never understood where the so called loophole about anal sex not constituting sex. I've seriously no idea where that came from. probably a Protestant thing. Damn you Martin Luther! No really, damn him. He was an Excommunicate. So yes, he actually is damned. LOL

but the catechism is very clear when it comes to issues of sex and chastity. here are the references:

2332
2336
2337
2357
2360
2361
2362
2370
2395


or the main source if youre too lazy to look em up yourself"

http://www.kofc.org/un/en/catechism/index.html#page-1

just type the paragraph numbers
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#52
Fun fact: Martin Luther was antisemitic and encouraged the burning down of Jewish homes and synagogues. True OG right there.

On the other hand, the catholic church in those days encouraged the burning down of just people in general, so yeah...
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#53
Allow me to be the first to invoke Poe's law.

Secondly, provided I'm wrong (I often am), and I don't think anyone touched on this:

Why the hell are you dating on church grounds? Take her out!

As as a cultural Italian Catholic (the guiltiest of all the peoples ), the repression is strong with us, and she's probably not very prudish. Girls are just as into it as we are, my friend. You are over thinking everything. Go on a date and whatever happens happens.

I get bonus points for telling a Catholic to be more Zen.
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#54
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Quote by neptune1988
If a girl can’t keep her virginity and wait until she gets married, how do I know I can trust her to stay faithful to me once we do get married?

I don't care what your religion is, this sort of viewpoint is backwards and contributes heavily to young people placing too much of an emphasis on virginity, whether your way or the opposite.
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#55
Quote by BladeSlinger
I regret being polite to you.

^It's not one or the other. I'm sorry but I would never marry a woman without having sex with her beforehand. I've been with my current girlfriend for 2 years and things are good for the moment, including sex. Different issues may arise. My previous relationship lasted about 2 years and the thing that broke it apart was sex. We were very compatible in every other area. We've both changed a lot and those issues may not come up if we were to somehow try again. But our personalities have also changed. We may be sexually compatible now but not in other places.

I don't bang random women. I get to know the person I'm dating as well as I can, and that includes sex.


You are in the majority.

I suspect most 20 yr old males believe that this is both right and necessary when choosing a mate for life. I certainly did and I exercised my desire to know the whole girl inside and out before marriage. Looking back after 20 years you, like most guys will probably figure out that it wasn't a great idea after all and probably had zero effect on confirming your compatibility. It is a false belief that is not supported by scientific studies on relationships, but we all want what we want and more than any other time in history, this is the age of entitlement. There are heavy hidden costs associated with "try-her-B4-you-buy-her" but most of us don't see it until many years later. Hopefully we can still learn and grow along the way and encourage the next generation to consider these life questions.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21171775
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#56
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#57
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#58
OP needs to jerk it. Fast and hard to big dick & or gay porn. A lot of his sexual desires will diminish. At this rate he's gonna do something bad (other that being unbelievably ignorant) to a woman. So masturbating may be the divine intervention he needs/


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#61
DAMN IT. I was listing to it right now to check if it was in context of the thread.
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#63
Serous answer, they're not as easy as Messianic Jewish girls.

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#64
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You are in the majority.

I suspect most 20 yr old males believe that this is both right and necessary when choosing a mate for life. I certainly did and I exercised my desire to know the whole girl inside and out before marriage. Looking back after 20 years you, like most guys will probably figure out that it wasn't a great idea after all and probably had zero effect on confirming your compatibility. It is a false belief that is not supported by scientific studies on relationships, but we all want what we want and more than any other time in history, this is the age of entitlement. There are heavy hidden costs associated with "try-her-B4-you-buy-her" but most of us don't see it until many years later. Hopefully we can still learn and grow along the way and encourage the next generation to consider these life questions.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21171775

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#66
Quote by neptune1988
sure , it may cause stress. but theres ways to deal with stress. also psychology says that if a boy feels like he wants to be a girl he should chop his junk off and get a designer vagina. so forgive me if I disagree. just sayin'

psychology is also partly to blame for the Catholic abuse scandal. in 1972 the APA removed homosexuality from the diagnostic manual of disorders. In the wake of Vatican II, there was a wave of people wanting to join the priesthood. Priests require a psyche eval before being ordained. Since psychologists no longer considered homosexuality an issue, many unfit priests were therefore able to fly under the radar. This eventually led to the abuse scandal.

^
after many investigations and studies, it was determined that there was not a SINGLE factor that led to the scandal, but rather a SERIES of factors. the above being one of them.


homophobic and transphobic in one post

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#68
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also for the record, from what I understand of canon law and cathechism, light petting is the farthest one can go without having to go to Confession afterwards. So that's where I draw my line in terms of sexual activity. Gotta follow Holy Mother Church, right!



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#70
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Except you were SO ridiculously wrong.

  • Homosexuality has absolutely no correlation to pedophila
  • Homosexuality was removed from the DSM because it is not a disorder
  • Homosexuality was only in the DSM in the first place because psychology is a relatively new field and a lot of mistakes were made in the field in the past. This being one of them.
  • Also your view of transgendered people is hilariously wrong.


This x10000

With your thinking OP, I guess disorders are actually just people possessed by demons right? Just go back to your cave please...
#71
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You are in the majority.

I suspect most 20 yr old males believe that this is both right and necessary when choosing a mate for life. I certainly did and I exercised my desire to know the whole girl inside and out before marriage. Looking back after 20 years you, like most guys will probably figure out that it wasn't a great idea after all and probably had zero effect on confirming your compatibility. It is a false belief that is not supported by scientific studies on relationships, but we all want what we want and more than any other time in history, this is the age of entitlement. There are heavy hidden costs associated with "try-her-B4-you-buy-her" but most of us don't see it until many years later. Hopefully we can still learn and grow along the way and encourage the next generation to consider these life questions.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21171775



You sound like one of those Christian motivational speakers that's always like, "When I was young I was an atheist drug dealing pimp who had money and bitches all the time." But you know in reality they probably smoked weed once after youth group and are trying to absolve themselves of the guilt 30 years later.
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#72
Quote by neptune1988
I mean you can’t exactly finger-bang your GF to a tantric squirting orgasm in the Church parking lot.


god gave us free will and jesus gave us wine

so it only makes sense that he would want a good squirt in his holy premises
#75
Really?
- I'd suggest caring less about the sexual availability of individuals who think they will be punished for doing what got them here in the first place.
- I'd suggest caring more about the importance of leaving behind the fairy tale mysticism that condemns you for indulging into instinctive urges.

But congratulations...

Waiting to unleash the loins until they're shriveled like a stack of nickels is always smart. Waiting to unleash the passion of a woman who you will not be able to satisfy because of the years put on yourself, not to mention the lack of skills could never possibly cause problems.

I'm sure your God, (see: interpretation of a drug influenced thought, which was then written down 3500 years ago), will be happier if your life, marriage fails because of insipid rules that do not even accidentally make sense.
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Marriages don't fail tho, divorce is a sin



Which is why banning divorce the #1 priority for all the 'save marriage' groups!
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#78
If a marriage fails, that means it wasn't blessed by God, and therefore never a marriage in the first place
#80
Marriage is only until death do you part. In heaven it's a free for all. :d
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