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So I've been working in this new job for about four months now. And one of my colleagues is a woman in her early forties. She's married and has been for about fifteen years, and she has two kids. She's genuinely one of the nicest people I've ever met, seems to have time for everyone and is one of those rare people who is shows genuine interest in everything someone says.

The thing is though, there's this other guy who she seems pretty close to, who is also married and has kids, more or less ten years older than her. They've both been here for about five or six years so naturally they know each other very well, but they're always really touchy feely with each other. I have her on Facebook and there's pictures of the two of them together when they're out for a drink with other members of staff, hugging, kissing on the lips, her touching him on the chest or on his back, loads of stuff. I even went out with work staff the other week, and at one point he was sat a chair, and she was sat on the arm of it with her legs over his, and he was sort of clasping her two arms, as if to "hold" her.

Weirdly she does stuff like this even when her husband's there. She also says stuff like "oh, I'm in love with him", and she seems to pass this off in a jovial manner, but I'm not sure.

They always speak on Facebook and say stuff like "I love you" and "you're beautiful. And this guy's not the only person she acts like this towards. There's also other pictures of her kissing guys on the cheeks and lips, and touching them on the arm or wherever in pictures.

But then she's always talking about what she gets up to with her husband and kids, her plans for holidays, how she loves spending time with them, that kind of thing, so she's obviously a bit of a family woman, so I don't get this behaviour.

Now I know what you're thinking. This is none of my business, and why should I care? And you're right. But I've seen families very close to me destroyed by cheating after years of marriage, and . Also, as I said she's actually a really lovely person (to me anyway), and I'd hate to have my view of a genuinely nice woman tainted by something like this.

TL;DR version - Married woman at work is very flirty with other guys, especially one who she seems very "friendly" with. Is she a loose woman?
Last edited by Seductive Barry at May 18, 2015,
#3
lmao
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#4
Well Seductive Barry, to me this sounds like typical camp counselor behavior. Nothing to be bothered about tbh
#7
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This. Or she is a loose woman and her husband is a pansy little beta.
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#8
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But I've seen families very close to me destroyed by cheating after years of marriage


i've seen some things
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#9
They have an open relationship and you should tickle her pickle, Seductive Barry.
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#10
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They have an open relationship and you should tickle her pickle, Seductive Barry.


6/10. Not bad looking for her age, but meh.
#12
Did you talk to the husband?
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#13
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They have an open relationship and you should tickle her pickle, Seductive Barry.

yeh, don't be a square.
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#14
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tbh you should've just closed the thread after this one


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#15
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Did you talk to the husband?
oh god do not do this

just sit back and don't get involved dude :nono:
#17
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oh god do not do this

just sit back and don't get involved dude :nono:


I don't plan to.

The thing is, he seems like a really nice guy, but he gives off that whole "beta" vibe, just by looking at him.
#18
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this is what i was expecting the thread to be about and was relieved it wasnt until your dumb ass came along
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this is what i was expecting the thread to be about and was relieved it wasnt until your dumb ass came along



whoa there
#20
Dumb thread about to turn into shitstorm thread in ten seconds flat
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#21
inferring from the title and the original post, I can confirm that the woman is not a dash symbol
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#22
Did you talk to the flirty guy's wife?
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#23
Was expecting lesbian. Was disappointed.

Anyway, shut your judgy mouth and mind your own business. You don't know anything about anyone else's relationship arrangements, and you aren't going to save anyone's relationship from being "destroyed" by shoving your nose into it.
#24
I don't get what your issue is. Is it that you think the husband is daft and isn't detecting that she might be cheating (if that's even the case)? They display this affection publicly and in front of her husband, so he is either okay with it or he knows and isn't okay with it.

Unless you're just really, really curious and want to spend your time speculating even if it'll make no difference in their relationship, I'm not seeing what you're trying to accomplish.
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#25
ask her to adopt you so you can live with their family and see what's going on


but really really, none of ur business
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#29
Maybe smoke her out; get cheeky with her (dinner, movie, the D), film it and show it to her husband?
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#30
Kissing another dude on the lips is cheating so yeah she's cheating.
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#32
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open relationships are wrong and these people should be ashamed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1!

Or a mormon.
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You can tell if it's eager, because you put your hand down her pants and it feels like a horse eating oats.

Nicest compliment on my looks:
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Putting the 'sex' in 'convicted sex offender'.
#33
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Now I know what you're thinking. This is none of my business, and why should I care?

Wow, it's like... it's like you're reading my mind..

.. and I'd hate to have my view of a genuinely nice woman tainted by something like this.


perfect! then don't think about it and your view will remain pristine! (seriously, if not for this woman, would you imagine this sort of thing doesnt happen. just don't worry about it.)
#34
Unless you're looking to get with her or any of the other people in your story, it's really none of your business and so you shouldn't be concerned about it.
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#35
Absolutely none of your business to care about IMO.
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#36
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Or a mormon.

not applicable cause she's not married to both of them

also polygamy with multiple husbands never happened back when polygamy was ok
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#37
Maybe you should talk to their kids.
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#38
Cause thats not a terrible idea at all.
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#39
Just sleep with her and then you'll know for sure
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#40
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Honestly thats why OP is probably being so nosey. He probably wants to give her the D.
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