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Someone once told me that you only judge a person is a creep depending on how attractive they are. Unattractive person coming on to you? Creep. Attractive person? Not creep.

Also not true. Creep is anyone who can't take no for an answer, implied or explicit. As in if the person (guy, girl, otherwise) can't take a literal "no" or body language of "no", then they're a creep.

I had the most intense airport experience in Philly this weekend. I was waiting for my flight and this guy just plops down on the seat next to me while I'm minding my own business. Then he asks, do you go to Penn state? Oh I lied, I just came over to tell you you're cute.

And okay, thank you. That's sweet. Then I go back to my phone bc I'd really rather not tell you off. Maybe you'll get the hint. No. He doesn't and continues to chat with me. Here's where I go wrong. I entertain it despite my discomfort because my default when I'm backed into a corner is smile and let you talk until you go away. Bad idea. Before I know it, he takes both my hands in his and insists we get to know each other in five questions. With eye contact. Because that's how people in Philly do it. (It's not. NO ONE does it like that, buddy).

At this point, we've already established eye contact and you literally have me by the hands and I'm way too uncomfortable to react so okay, we're doing this. I am so grateful there are witnesses because I'm in complete flight mode but I'm also so caught off guard I'm freezing here. Can't get any worse than this anyway. It does. His last question? If I leaned over and kissed you, would you kiss me? Again, I'm in the wrong for smiling and saying no thank politely instead of saying, how about you get the **** off me now?

He hangs around for a little bit more and has the balls to hug me goodbye and ask for a kiss again. No. Who are you even? No.

Seriously. Why? Why do you do this? Who said this was okay? Ever?

I appreciate that he was being nice and friendly, but that is just creepy. If someone clearly didn't want to engage, that doesn't mean try harder. Even if I did want to, that doesn't mean you can invade my personal space and insist things. And I was also stupid for tolerating that shit. I think the best way to deal with it is just give them a "May I help you? No? Get out of my face then" look before they even ask. This is the second time this month I've been approached like this. I feel like there are people who blatantly take advantage of other people's obvious discomfort.

That was so uncomfortable and tbh I grew up sheltered so I'm never sure how to react right away. I don't want to make a scene because I don't want to be that person who made a scene but the BF told me, they won't think you're being a bitch. They'll think, wow, that guy is a ****ing creep and she put him in his place.

So. That being said, was there ever a time you were ambushed by a creep and how did you deal with it? Did it make you more wary of people approaching you?
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#4
Uh you call him a ****ing creep and move on.


Thats it.
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Uh you call him a ****ing creep and move on.


Thats it.

I should have, right? Like that's not a completely mean thing to do, and so what if it was? I think I just didn't want to be rude but he was also being kind of rude.
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I should have, right? Like that's not a completely mean thing to do, and so what if it was? I think I just didn't want to be rude but he was also being kind of rude.


theres being nice and theres being a pushover.


You dont like what hes doing then stand up for yourself and tell him to piss off.
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#7
Girls are too afraid of being rude.
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#8
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I should have, right? Like that's not a completely mean thing to do, and so what if it was? I think I just didn't want to be rude but he was also being kind of rude.

I SHALL FIND THIS CAD FOR YOU, M'LADY! I WILL PUT THIS DISRESPECTFUL PLEB IN HIS PLACE FOR YOU!

Naw, just tell them you're not interested and are busy doing whatever you were doing before he came up(even if it was nothing). Person respects and goes away? Good. That person has some sense. Person stays and pushes for conversation and continues to hit on you? Creeper mccreeperson and should be told to **** off in a nice way first and then be as brutal as a civil war surgery.
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Girls are too afraid of being rude.

Yeah, I think this is the case. Idk for others, but I didn't want to make a scene out of it, don't want to be rude but like the post above, that really isn't being rude. It's just not being a pushover.
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I SHALL FIND THIS CAD FOR YOU, M'LADY! I WILL PUT THIS DISRESPECTFUL PLEB IN HIS PLACE FOR YOU!

Naw, just tell them you're not interested and are busy doing whatever you were doing before he came up(even if it was nothing). Person respects and goes away? Good. That person has some sense. Person stays and pushes for conversation and continues to hit on you? Creeper mccreeperson and should be told to **** off in a nice way first and then be as brutal as a civil war surgery.

What I'd really prefer is people leave me alone lol But yeah, I should do that. I just need to get over the fear that they'll do something stupid or scary if I them to **** off. I mean, what's he gonna do? Scream at me? Hit me? In the middle of the ****ing airport? Nah.
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#11
If someone can't take a hint, you've just got to say "I'm not interested, leave me alone"

Or, you say "Get away from me, asshole" and then hit them a few times

I myself have never really had to deal with creeps, apart from some weird oldish lady recently who ****ed off after a few minutes of rambling
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#12
he read some dating book or MRA shithead pickup website and is trying it on you.

apologies for our gender (would you like a comforting hug? I'm a nice guy with no naughty intentions. )


while things differ for genders because sociological blah blah stuff, my sister says going with saying "no thanks" at the first opportunity (patronising giggle helps) and a firm "go away please" with blank/slightly serious face, if they persist is most effective. I have found that helpful myself for dissuading women/etc who think I should be up for it with them just because I have a penis.
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What I'd really prefer is people leave me alone lol But yeah, I should do that. I just need to get over the fear that they'll do something stupid or scary if I them to **** off. I mean, what's he gonna do? Scream at me? Hit me? In the middle of the ****ing airport? Nah.


At best they'll feel bad that they pissed you off. If someone did the stuff you listed then they'd be a certified psycho and those aren't the majority.

Other solution: carry an armory of guns with you everywhere you go. Ain't no one gonna **** with ya then.
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he read some dating book or MRA shithead pickup website and is trying it on you.

apologies for our gender (would you like a comforting hug? I'm a nice guy with no naughty intentions. )


while things differ for genders because sociological blah blah stuff, my sister says going with saying "no thanks" at the first opportunity (patronising giggle helps) and a firm "go away please" with blank/slightly serious face, if they persist is most effective. I have found that helpful myself for dissuading women/etc who think I should be up for it with them just because I have a penis.

OMG I should have asked if that ever worked. Ever.
I don't even think people like that deserve a patronising giggle. You think you're man enough to come at me out of nowhere, then you're man enough to get shot down. I swear to god, the balls on these people. I wonder if they've never gotten shot down doing that shit that's why they have no fear.
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As soon as he touched you that is assault, and possibly sexual assault. Leave that for a (potential) judge or jury to decide.

I'd put it like this: "At this point you have two choices: leave me the **** alone and we'll both forget this ever happened, or I suddenly cry out in horror to everyone announcing the fact you have committed criminal sexual assault so that you will spend the rest of your life on the sex offender list and you'll have to tell every potential employer or landlord for the rest of your life that you are a sex offender. Ready to **** off now?"
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As soon as he touched you that is assault, and possibly sexual assault.

lol geez
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#17
Just quit being so passive at saying no and it wont happen anymore. Like lol at thinking telling a guy no is causing a scene. Its not.


Like this thread is more along the lines of causing a scene
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lol geez

Geez yes, but true.

You cannot touch another person. That's assault. If that touch is associated with a proposition for a romantic relationship that's sexual assault.

Technically peeing in a corner out by the garbage bins around the back of a bar is indecent exposure.
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Geez yes, but true.

You cannot touch another person. That's assault.

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#20
I say, "No, thank you. I'm not interested." If the person persists, then I start to get more assertive and ask the person to leave. I've never had to be outright mean, though, sometimes I'll joke with the women to get them to leave me alone because I'm so polite.
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By women you mean your left hand right?
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By women you mean your left hand right?

Hilarious and original, would read again.
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Hilarious and original, would read again.


By women you mean your left hand right?
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Geez yes, but true.

You cannot touch another person. That's assault. If that touch is associated with a proposition for a romantic relationship that's sexual assault.

Technically peeing in a corner out by the garbage bins around the back of a bar is indecent exposure.



If they don't see your penis or you don't whip it out at all (ie you wet yourself) is that okay?
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As soon as he touched you that is assault, and possibly sexual assault. Leave that for a (potential) judge or jury to decide.

I'd put it like this: "At this point you have two choices: leave me the **** alone and we'll both forget this ever happened, or I suddenly cry out in horror to everyone announcing the fact you have committed criminal sexual assault so that you will spend the rest of your life on the sex offender list and you'll have to tell every potential employer or landlord for the rest of your life that you are a sex offender. Ready to **** off now?"


No it's not you ****ing idiot.

And don't do this. I get that he made you uncomfortable, and that's not okay. But the solution is not falsely incriminating him and effectively ruining his entire future or threatening to do so. What he did is not assault, lmfao.

Next time kiki you just say I have a boyfriend, I'm not interested thanks. If he persists, just keep repeating that. You can turn someone down without being rude or having to fear what their reaction will be. It isn't your fault that the guy was being weird while thinking he was being charming, but it's not his fault that you went along with it.

oh ya inb4 the SJWs of UG swarm this thread and turn into a ****ing festival of crybabies.
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I've had my fair share of creepers. I'll be nice but display my complete disinterest for about 10 seconds and if they don't catch my drift I ask them if they have a f*cking problem. Most will quickly move on after that. I went toe to toe with a guy once until he was escorted out.
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No it's not you ****ing idiot.

And don't do this. I get that he made you uncomfortable, and that's not okay. But the solution is not falsely incriminating him and effectively ruining his entire future or threatening to do so. What he did is not assault, lmfao.

Next time kiki you just say I have a boyfriend, I'm not interested thanks. If he persists, just keep repeating that. You can turn someone down without being rude or having to fear what their reaction will be. It isn't your fault that the guy was being weird while thinking he was being charming, but it's not his fault that you went along with it.

oh ya inb4 the SJWs of UG swarm this thread and turn into a ****ing festival of crybabies.

this but reiterating the guy was fucked in the head
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Then he asks, do you go to Penn state? Oh I lied, I just came over to tell you you're cute.


Should've pepper sprayed him right then and there
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I'm in complete flight mode but I'm also so caught off guard I'm freezing here.

You should gone to the runway and taken off, then.
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You should gone to the runway and taken off, then.

"see that boys, a man invented flight".
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You should gone to the runway and taken off, then.


Or at least asked le gentleman for his jacket.
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#32
Some of these responses show who does not get out and interact with people ever. Just politely tell them you're not interested and pay them no attention, they will leave. People come from different backgrounds and families, everyone interacts differently. You don't have to be rude but in this case I would have firmly asserted myself as uninterested and walked away.
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"see that boys, a man invented flight".

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Or at least asked le gentleman for his jacket.

Nice.

Also, I need new shtick. Apparently, I creeped out some girl at the airport. Was it my introduction? I always thought the "Hey, do you go to X University?" was foolproof. I did everything by the book and she still wouldn't give this guy a little smooch.
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#34
Out creep the creep obviously
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I hit 'em and they stay down
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Some of these responses show who does not get out and interact with people ever. Just politely tell them you're not interested and pay them no attention, they will leave.

Nah she should try Bubonic Chronic's "you're a rapist" speech. I wanna hear how that goes.
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Nice.

Also, I need new shtick. Apparently, I creeped out some girl at the airport. Was it my introduction? I always thought the "Hey, do you go to X University?" was foolproof. I did everything by the book and she still wouldn't give this guy a little smooch.


Alright, here's where you went wrong:


what you need to do is show that you care about her, not just the state uni she goes to. And you have to be really confident. Take her by the hands and try to get to know the real her, with piercing eye contact throughout.

If she is polite and smiling but saying no, its because she wants it deep down, but is nervous about the public's reaction.
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Nah she should try Bubonic Chronic's "you're a rapist" speech. I wanna hear how that goes.

schrodingers rapist man.
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Out creep the creep obviously

This, too. I personally go with the "like-all-of-her-Instagram-photographs" approach. It's a sure fire way to creep out a girl.
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#39
There is a line where, once crossed, macing becomes an acceptable way of saying 'no'

That line was crossed


You should get some mace
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Alright, here's where you went wrong:


what you need to do is show that you care about her, not just the state uni she goes to. And you have to be really confident. Take her by the hands and try to get to know the real her, with piercing eye contact throughout.

If she is polite and smiling but saying no, its because she wants it deep down, but is nervous about the public's reaction.

what she is saying is "no" but what she means is "no, not here. i can't take it any more you are just so sexy and attractive please just take me somewhere private and give that guy a lil smooch"
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