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The other engagement party etiquette is who to invite. Immediate family member, close extended family, and the intimate circle of best friends should receive invitations. This is not the time to invite coworkers you only see at the office.


Everyone you plan to invite in the bridal party should receive an engagement party invitation to the engagement party, unless they are long distance. You may still want to let them know about it, in case they have an opportunity to take an extra trip. This includes bridesmaid and groomsmen.

Whether the engagement party will be big or small, etiquette experts generally agree that individuals should only be invited to the engagement party if they'll also be invited to the wedding.
#4
Noone, it's a stupid tradition that simply serves to make the bloated Americanised wedding culture even more expensive for those even tangentially involved.
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#5
Engagement parties were invented by the supermarket chains to help shift more frozen vol au vents's
#6
I'll keep this in mind for when I'm not getting married in the future.
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#7
I'm glad this thread popped up because I recently asked my non-existent girlfriend to marry me and she said yes and I wasn't sure who to invite to the engagement party. I suppose I shall just invite all her imaginary friends who shall be attending the imaginary wedding.
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#9
My wife and I spent $1,400 on our wedding and $10,000 on our honeymoon. We never even considered and engagement party.
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Can't tell if ****witted person or clever adbot.

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Exes are perfectly acceptable, if not encouraged.


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My wife and I spent $1,400 on our wedding and $10,000 on our honeymoon. We never even considered and engagement party.


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#16
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or his. or girlfriends.


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#18
This is such a wonderful post on the Engagement Party guests. I think engagement is an intimate event so we should invite only our family members. But wedding ceremony should be celebrated with all your friends and relatives. You know I am going to have a grand wedding at the finest wedding venues nyc .
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Holy shit,
adbots posting in other adbots threads

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EDIT: although TS is actually a genuine user

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yeah I know, but she (?) has a legit post out there somewhere

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#25
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dont announce engagement and just go to the registry office on a quiet monday afternoon by yourself

I perform those sort of weddings....they are not classy at all.

Please please please, kids, don't have a registry wedding.
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dont announce engagement and just go to the registry office on a quiet monday afternoon by yourself


That's what I wanted to do. But we allowed ourselves to get talked into a 'proper' wedding and the whole thing is such a ballache I'm still convinced that the grief we'd have got from our family if we'd 'eloped' would actually be more tolerable.

I mean it's my stag do on Saturday and I can't even get excited for it because my father in law's getting offended on behalf of people he thinks should be invited to it but wouldn't come anyway.
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That's what I wanted to do. But we allowed ourselves to get talked into a 'proper' wedding and the whole thing is such a ballache I'm still convinced that the grief we'd have got from our family if we'd 'eloped' would actually be more tolerable.

I mean it's my stag do on Saturday and I can't even get excited for it because my father in law's getting offended on behalf of people he thinks should be invited to it but wouldn't come anyway.

Tell your father in law to fuck off.

I've never understood why parents of the bride and groom are so convinced that they have the right to decide who gets invited or not....if my parents ever crack the darks about that stuff when I get married, then they aren't getting invited.
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#29
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Tell your father in law to fuck off.

I've never understood why parents of the bride and groom are so convinced that they have the right to decide who gets invited or not....if my parents ever crack the darks about that stuff when I get married, then they aren't getting invited.



The wedding I could just about cope with because he's paying for it, but he's annoyed because I wouldn't invite her grandad on my stag.

WTF.
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The wedding I could just about cope with because he's paying for it, but he's annoyed because I wouldn't invite her grandad on my stag.

WTF.

Lol wut? Even if my grandfather was still alive I wouldn't invite him to my stag....or my dad....your family sounds massively over-entitled. (no offence dude)
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Lol wut? Even if my grandfather was still alive I wouldn't invite him to my stag....or my dad....your family sounds massively over-entitled. (no offence dude)


I know right? In fairness my stag is having basically the men of my family plus a few close mates, go karting in the morning then pub crawl afterwards, as a result my grandad's gonna come to the karting at least, but that doesn't mean my fiance's grandad gets invited. Guy doesn't even like me. But as a result my father in law and brother in law, who I genuinely get along with and wanted to be there, aren't going to make the effort to come.
#32
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Jeez you could only afford to release doves once or twice during the wedding on that measly budget.
#33
if my fiancee was planning a really big expensive wedding i'd probably be pretty turned off


then again that's why i dont have a fiancee
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#34
Definately the bride and groom.
And probably someone like a preacher or somebody with authority to conduct the ceremony.
Engagement party is the same thing as a wedding right
#35
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if my fiancee was planning a really big expensive wedding i'd probably be pretty turned off


then again that's why i dont have a fiancee



So you mean like... Only two horses on the horse-drawn carriage?


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I hate weddings, I have no idea why I am still replying

Maybe u secretly love weddings

or just bored
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#37
i've a sister getting married next weekend. gonna be cool prolly. got a new suit, getting it altered, shoes getting polished, gonna get a new shirt cause I want to have a sort of chmpagne or soft pink, so it's pretty cool. Gotta get a haircut before as well cause beard is a bit wild now and hair is just hair you know .

I'm hyped.
it's all just coming back
it's all coming back

it's all coming back to me
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#38
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Maybe u secretly love weddings

or just bored


Bored.

Also I literally have been to a wedding with a horse drawn carriage and doves being released. But they gave me free champagne so
#39
Getting married December 8th! It was supposed to be in October but he's in a different state and had to push it back. Going to be spending a little over $1,500 for everything and we had no engagement party. Seems like a waste of extra money to me.
#40
sooo uh do you have any sisters that think like you andrea
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