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#1
I was wondering how you feel about this in general. It can be about how you would feel about it yourself or how you feel about others in such a situation. This is assuming that both parties of legal age. This isn't a 30 year teacher and a 15 year old student statutory rape situation but rather between consenting, legal adults.

We'll also assume that both parties are single. Does a current vs a past professor make a difference? This could be any type of relationship, whether it is a one time encounter, a regular sexual thing, or dating. This would be based on actual interest in each other rather than some blackmail or "extra credit" type deal.

I am curious to how all of you feel this and I ask because I have a big crush on one of my professors. She is divorced and about 10 years older than I am. I am not looking to actively pursue anything. But if she ever came onto me, I would not turn her down.
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#2
it has ethical concerns in the same way that a relationship with your boss would have. beyond that, whatever.
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#3
i would 100% lol but i would never make the first move and i would never do it while she was my prof. i had a giant crush on one of my profs that i had in 2nd and 4th years, she was a rocket/10 and we got on real well but nothin was ever gonna happen there
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#4
If I ever ran into my AP English teacher from high school I'd probably take a run at her.
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#6
When I was in 10th grade (age 15) I had this Biology teacher who had the nick name "Big Booty Remy." She was a cute black lady with a slim figure but a real nice booty. She was always real nice to me, called me talented and one time while doodling stuff she stood next to me and was keeping her thigh real close to me leg pressing against me. Like REAL close.

Sadly there was never any "can I see you after class moments" I woulda smashed that tho.
#7
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^ I mean...yeah, it's not bad...but Would you try and shrink her and then eat her?

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#8
It's definitely not appropriate but I would totally want to. I'd wait until the semester ends, maybe, because who wants to deal with all of the complications?
#9
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but last time I checked, theogonia was into that...

It's not any less weird when theogonia777 talks about it, and you know I'm not just talking about your vore fetish.
#10
Theo also specializes in making people uncomfortable.
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#11
Relations with your professor is a bit weird because there's usually QUITE an age gap, however technically it's okay as long as marking is anonymous and there's no breath of academic ethics

I know quite a few people who had relations with their PhD student supervisor during our Masters year

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#12
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^ I mean, yeah...I get it...but in the current circumstances, it's a hypothetical situation...and you can add any amount of colour into the mix that you like...I mean, yeah...you say I'm unconfortable...but I'm earning my money and living life the way I choose now...I just sold a lot of Fire Sticks! Still love ya Chris...

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#13
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Theo also specializes in making people uncomfortable.


I look at it as less of a specialty and more of a byproduct.
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^ that's what I was referring to about always criticising my posts Chris...I mentioned that a few days ago...:P vore isn't everyone's cup of tea...but last time I checked, theogonia was into that...so yeah, I mean...if you feel uncomfortable reading it...what can I say? Don't read it again... :P but yeah, if that makes you feel uncomfortable that it is a bit unusual...

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#16
I recently just closed a case that I filed against my undergraduate advisor in the Spring. they ended up finding a TON of shit on him, but I don't think I would have said anything if I hadn't later gone to grad school at the same school and seen him pull the same shit on undergrad girls that he did on me and my peers.

I think that if a professor is in any sort of authority position over a student, that it is completely unethical, regardless of consensual attraction. and I really don't think any professors should be getting with any undergraduate students.
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#17
iunno about profs but there's this lab assistant that's a qt and fairly young

i would hold her hand eagerly


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I think that if a professor is in any sort of authority position over a student, that it is completely unethical, regardless of consensual attraction. and I really don't think any professors should be getting with any undergraduate students.


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I think that if a professor is in any sort of authority position over a student, that it is completely unethical, regardless of consensual attraction. and I really don't think any professors should be getting with any undergraduate students.


So what if they aren't in any sort of authority position? And what about graduate students?
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#20
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So what if they aren't in any sort of authority position? And what about graduate students?

I think that is okay with graduate students who aren't under your authority
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#22
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I have never had an attractive professor


I've had a ton. But I guess it's subjective, since I'm into chubby older women.
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#24
At our school, faculty cannot get in a relationship with any student unless it existed before one person became a faculty member/student
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#25
I view all students as kids, even the ones twice my age. One kid came into my office hours all the time, sat real close to me, and kept asking if I had a boyfriend. Creepy shit.
#27
I mean really, when you break it down, it's just two different people with two different career paths. Just because theirs is a path helping yours doesn't mean it needs to be a factor to judge by. Go for it.
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#28
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I've had a ton. But I guess it's subjective, since I'm into chubby older women.

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#29
If she's hot I'd go for it fo sho.
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#30
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TAs are the best, specially those from overseas. You get to learn about their languages, cultures, etc.

oh I don't see any issue in a TA (usually a graduate student or undergraduate student) dating a student; TAs are usually students anyway

I do think it is wrong if that TA is grading your papers though (I am speaking as a TA... I feel weird even when friends of mine end up taking my classes and I have to grade them)
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#31
I wouldn't do it because that would just feel awkward afterwards.
#32
I have a crush on my boss, but that's different right?
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#33
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I wouldn't do it because that would just feel awkward afterwards.


Imagine if you got feelings for her and she started banging other students in the class. Not good.
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#35
TBH, it would be totally inappropriate to be knobbing/getting knobbed by(or gender equivalent) anyone who will be grading your work(as in coursework/exams, not judging you on technique/endurance or whatever).
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#36
It's in very poor taste as long as they're in a position of power over you, IMO, but after that who cares as long as everyone's consenting and of-age
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#37
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She wouldn't come on to you. Sorry but someone had to say it


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Its very much so?


Possibly?
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