Poll: Would you ever date a former sex worker under any circumstances?
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View poll results: Would you ever date a former sex worker under any circumstances?
Yes, I can think of at least one or more circumstance(s) in which I would.
31 50%
No, under no condition would I do so, regardless of the details and span of their sex work.
19 31%
Sorry, I only date CURRENT sex workers
12 19%
Voters: 62.
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#1
Pretty self explanstory. Would your decision depend on additional details of the circumstance? I'll give you my case to consider if you don't have a blanket answer.

If you'd asked me this question a few months ago or any time before these last few months I would've said, without hesitation, no. It's got nothing to do with judgment and everything to do with what I want in a relationship and partner regarding intimacy-- namely someone with a similar level of experience and similar values about sex. (Ie it's something intense and meaningful)

But then the girl I've been talking to told me fairly early on (which is only fair) that she was an independent sex worker for "about a month". It obviously wasn't ideal and I wondered about it for a day or 2, but not enough to make me seriously lose interest or consider ending it. I already had feelings for her & it no longer seemed like such a big deal.

I'll put up a poll.

Tl;dr: Additional questions:

Does it matter how much or what type of sex work they were involved in? What's your limit before it's unacceptable? You can use my case as the basis for the question in the poll I guess, a month or 2 of independent sex work (ie being a self employed ho)

What about strippers? Would you date a former stripper? How about a current one?

What about a cam girl? What about a current one?

Just curious. As I said I thought my answer was no until it happened.

#5
Liz Vicious? I'd marry her in a heart beat. Most of her porn videos were done with one man, same goes for Christie Moran.

Most of them? nahhhh
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#6
I would date ones who do a lot of lesbian vids because I've probably already wanked to them.
#8
Quote by TobusRex
Porn actress isn't the same as a "hooker". 

They both get paid to have sex. I don't see the difference.
#9
Quote by TobusRex
Porn actress isn't the same as a "hooker". 


But come on, I mean a porn actress has sex for work.
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#10
Yeah, don't see why I'd care about it if I really wanted to date her. If said work (either former or current) impacts her personal life then it'd need to talk it out, but if it's kept separated (maybe not likely, but at least hypothetically) I don't see the problem
#12
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I'd probably end up paying for their crack habit one way or the other.

Women, just always draining men of their crack money.
#13
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But come on, I mean a porn actress has sex for work.

Yeah, but they aren't as skanky as hookers. Hookers will bang 20 guys a day. Porn actress: maybe a couple a week. Plus they get tested a lot for STDs and are far less likely to have a nasty bug. Big difference, man. Plus, most porn stars are pretty damned fine. Jynx Maze or Sunny Lane, for example. 
#14
Quote by TobusRex
Yeah, but they aren't as skanky as hookers. Hookers will bang 20 guys a day. Porn actress: maybe a couple a week. Plus they get tested a lot for STDs and are far less likely to have a nasty bug. Big difference, man. Plus, most porn stars are pretty damned fine. Jynx Maze or Sunny Lane, for example. 

I'd probably wait for that special someone. I believe in true love. Even if we didn't connect straight off, I'd commit to someone I can grow with and make something special with.
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#15
Quote by TobusRex
Yeah, but they aren't as skanky as hookers. Hookers will bang 20 guys a day. Porn actress: maybe a couple a week. Plus they get tested a lot for STDs and are far less likely to have a nasty bug. Big difference, man. Plus, most porn stars are pretty damned fine. Jynx Maze or Sunny Lane, for example. 


Youre grossly generalizing "hooker" for all sex workers. Every one of their stories are different. You have escorts girls who pull in multiple k in a night from one creepy rich dude, to girls who do it once or twice a month if they don't have enough to cover bills, and sure, you also have the smack addicts or street walkers and such who go through dozens a day to support their habit.

Porn stars aren't really any different than prostitutes. You just have a very narrow notion of what they are.

#16
Well at least porn is regulated and their employees are helped protected from STDs
#18
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Well at least porn is regulated and their employees are helped protected from STDs


...why does that matter? I'm not asking if you would date ANY former sex worker. Only would you date one if the conditions were right. I would say that STD free classified as a necessary condition.

#19
I wouldn't really care as long as she doesn't have an STD / STI, and she's not a psychopathic nymphomaniac
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#20
is she clean?

Like sleeve of wizard is her vagine?

if not, problem is where?
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#24
Former yes, couldnt date her if she was still continuing to do it.

'Yes' meaning, there may be a situation in which I would; not, 'yes i would under all circumstances'. It depends yanno
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#25
Nah fuck that
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#26
It depends on who she is, what she did, and what is she willing to do for me.
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#28
Depends on how much she charged me tbh
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#29
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What? Discount wise?

Price?  I thought I was dating her!  No one said anything about paying her!
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#30
Alright so here's how it works.

Strippers.

Are so much fucking fun....In good clubs in states where there is full nudity and indoor smoking and sick liquor laws. (West Virginia)

you tip them onstage, you talk. You smoke a cigarette together, you get a private dance (cheap as fuck) arrange to smoke weed and and sit in your car immediately after work. Meet her friend.

Repeat process with friend. (Other stripper with singular physical attribute that is sensually unique) spend 50 dollars over the course of 3 hours talking about how you're going to smoke and drink and fuck these strippers after the shift.

You can hunt easily after this. It's a fucking Wednesday

The haunt I am oft reminded of, as many of these clubs are; " bring your own containers of various substances into the clubs" friendly. Just don't shoot anybody, unless they're going to kill you or the employees.


Skullfuck some girls in a Wafflehouse parking lot for 55-80 dollars. Sell drugs to them later. No condoms. Prison fuck them later

Priceless

Pornstars.


Book them as models using a screening process they reference in a social media feed that coincides with other websites that are relatively credible.

Stupid fucking expensive. Book them for hours. Smoke mad trees and take a sexually enhancing psychoactive and cycle some Cowper's gland stimulants (pygaeum africanum) maybe some Yohimbine. Get your money's worth and sell them weed and turn it into a memorable experience as human beings together because you'll spend way less money in the long run and you'll both(@ll) have fun.

Prostitute's?

Im sorry everyone.

You'll spend more money on a failed marriage with one fucking lying cheating whore than you will literally raping the reward pathways in your brain and obsessively changing and improving ones physical form and sexual organs.

But at the end of the day.

Don't fucking spend all your money on whores.
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#31
If she's not boring sure
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#33
Quote by Deliriumbassist
With a sex worker it's pay per play. With a relationship it's more like a subscription service.


You spend less money going to Thailand and shooting your own porn with maybe 25-40 women over the course of months.

But you....have a woman you enjoy the company of, then you have a dwelling together. Then become a legal entity

Worst 2000ppi porn subscription ever.

Should've just went only skullfucking random strange.
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#34
No chance. I don't want damaged goods. 

I say no to strippers and camwhores as well because I don't like attention whores and I have standards. 
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#35
Quote by Gatecrasher53
Former yes, couldnt date her if she was still continuing to do it.

'Yes' meaning, there may be a situation in which I would; not, 'yes i would under all circumstances'. It depends yanno


For me it may depend on several circumstances.

And how long ago she was an " independent sex worker" ?
Did she quit that, last week? a month ago?, a year ago?
For me, if she did this sometime after you first met her. I might have a problem with that.
It would be like if I recalled a day we were having lunch together, would I be thinking something like "Was she doing anal an hour ago?", "What/who else has she put in her mouth today?"
Last edited by CodeMonk at Apr 22, 2017,
#36
would i date? yes as long as she doesn't have std's and isn't some crack whore 

would i date with a view to it becoming a serious and long time relationship? probably not 
#37
Quote by TobusRex
Yeah, but they aren't as skanky as hookers. Hookers will bang 20 guys a day. Porn actress: maybe a couple a week. Plus they get tested a lot for STDs and are far less likely to have a nasty bug. Big difference, man. Plus, most porn stars are pretty damned fine. Jynx Maze or Sunny Lane, for example. 

You know there's a thread here about porn stars without makeup, right?

They're pretty average, really. And may have formed habits of having sex for a camera instead of for your dong.
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#38
They all suck. It's all about the best bang for your buck.

Have a couple years where you are dedicated to only skullfucking. Don't sink in the pink or get deep down in the brown
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#39
It wouldn't be disqualifying if that's what you're asking, but beyond that depends on them.


I can understand someone's hesitance if it were a sex worker in an unregulated field where they might come into physical contact with untested strangers, but cam shows? Whaddya have a problem with women who've taken nude photos too? No cameras! Cameras capture your soul!
#40
Quote by Shredwizard445
They all suck. It's all about the best bang for your buck.

Have a couple years where you are dedicated to only skullfucking. Don't sink in the pink or get deep down in the brown

Ah yes, the plight of the man who's so much better than women they have to constantly endorse and obsess over physically hurting them. Think I heard about that from a Pixar movie.
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