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Last week I played some Washer by slint on my guitar and sent it to my friend on snapchat. She said something like "I like your song" with a heart eyes emoji afterwards. I sent her a video today of me playing something else. She said the same thing (including the emoji). Me and her have been good friends for a while but does this give me some room to advance?
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Quote by SpectrumPulse
So do I have a chance or not?

Probably. But people who don't play instruments are always way excited about people who play instruments regardless of romantic interest or talent tbf. 

Still, she obviously doesn't hate you and doesn't seem to be afraid to give any weird signals (if she thought you were a creep I doubt she'd send you hearts). Doesn't mean she's swooning over you, but yeah. Go for it.
#7
next time you record a song for her and she says "i like your song" respond by saying "thanks now how about liking my dick" and make sure you're standing ten feet behind her (doesn't matter where she is) when you send it

also washer is a really weird song to woo a girl lol. like it's literally "i'm gonna kill myself bye".
it's all just coming back
it's all coming back

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#8
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Washer by slint is obscure af just take credit for it

Also send her your real wood not some fake phallic substitute

Nah don't send her dick pics. Send her Wiener Art

#9
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Washer by slint is obscure af just take credit for it

Also send her your real wood not some fake phallic substitute

idk not knowing a seminal album like Spiderland is kind of a dealbreaker -- she sounds like a poseur tbh
#10
Quote by SpectrumPulse
Last week I played some Washer by slint on my guitar and sent it to my friend on snapchat. She said something like "I like your song" with a heart eyes emoji afterwards. I sent her a video today of me playing something else. She said the same thing (including the emoji). Me and her have been good friends for a while but does this give me some room to advance?
All I know is my gut says maybe.
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#11
Ah mate, well done! You definitely maybe have a chance, but I'm not sure.
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#12
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So do I have a chance or not?


Probably not.
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#14
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Forgot to mention, the second song was House of Cards by Radiohead


She's probably pulling your leg and doesn't really like your videos.
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theogonia777 What do you mean?


What I said was pretty clear. What's there not to get?
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#17
OP just do what you want. Live authentically etc. Send that chick your music if you want and if she doesn't go for you, don't worry about it, just do your thing.

But pro tip--be clear with her that you have romantic feelings / wan sum fuk. The risk of being rejected is worth the possible upside

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#18
to be a tween again

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#19
Give her the cummies.
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#20
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next time you record a song for her and she says "i like your song" respond by saying "thanks now how about liking my dick" and make sure you're standing ten feet behind her (doesn't matter where she is) when you send it

also washer is a really weird song to woo a girl lol. like it's literally "i'm gonna kill myself bye".

These days expressing depression and anxiety is quite the trend. It's probably better to communicate it through music or weird memes than to bottle it up, so good for everyone.
#21
Are you naked in any of the videos you sent her?  

You may want to consider
#22
I'll just save you an adolescence worth of life lessons here - stop sending videos  and just ask her out.  Don't stall, don't wait two weeks, don't try to leverage your friendship over time - just do it.  If she's interested she would know by now,  she'll either say yes  or she'll politely let you down. If she lets you down don't be a baby about it, be polite.  

Best not to let yourself get too emotionally attached to the idea, which is what happens when you wait and wait and wait.  

The longer you wait, the higher the stakes and the higher your anxiety will build, which makes all of this way more difficult than it actually needs to be. Unless she's a moron she probably has an idea that you like her, so the longer you wait the weaker you appear - so just roll up your sleeves and do it. 

In the end she's either interested or not, just as you may be interested or not in other people.  
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next time you record a song for her and she says "i like your song" respond by saying "thanks now how about sucking my dick" and make sure you're standing ten feet behind her (doesn't matter where she is) lest you get kicked in the nuts

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#24
play her a cover of closer by nine inch nails next

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#25
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play her a cover of closer by nine inch nails next


this but if you're not sure how to make it work listen to maroon 5s cover
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#26
If you really want to pick up chicks then just start selling coke.
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#27
MakinLattes

hey

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If you really want to pick up chicks make sure that you are strong enough because if you try to pick one up and can't lift her that would be pretty embarrassing I would say.
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#28
Hi.

I say drag it out, play some more increasingly obscure and depressing shit. Reduce the quality of your playing until it's clear you are not trying to woo her but reaching out for help.
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MakinLattes

hey


If you really want to pick up chicks make sure that you are strong enough because if you try to pick one up and can't lift her that would be pretty embarrassing I would say.


I mean, you would have to be pretty weak.

They arent even chickens yet.
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#30
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I mean, you would have to be pretty weak.

They arent even chickens yet.


maybe he should stick to pick up sticks
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Are you naked in any of the videos you sent her?  

You may want to consider

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#33
The guitar playing may impress her, but alone it isn't going to win her my friend. Ask her on a date and see how she reacts, asking girls out is scary but its the only way to find out for sure, best wishes
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Quote by reverb66
I'll just save you an adolescence worth of life lessons here - stop sending videos  and just ask her out.  Don't stall, don't wait two weeks, don't try to leverage your friendship over time - just do it.  If she's interested she would know by now,  she'll either say yes  or she'll politely let you down. If she lets you down don't be a baby about it, be polite.  

Best not to let yourself get too emotionally attached to the idea, which is what happens when you wait and wait and wait.  

The longer you wait, the higher the stakes and the higher your anxiety will build, which makes all of this way more difficult than it actually needs to be. Unless she's a moron she probably has an idea that you like her, so the longer you wait the weaker you appear - so just roll up your sleeves and do it. 

In the end she's either interested or not, just as you may be interested or not in other people.  

This is the best serious advice in this thread. You'll waste a lot of fucking time time trying to wait for the right time tryna get girls to warm up to you. Just ask em out. If she says no, move on.
#36
sometimes u just gotta tickle their butthole a little bit that'll get her real slippery
#37
I also sent a video of my guitar playing to the girl OP is referring to and she gave me a greater number of heart eye emojis and is pregnant with my child.

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#38
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I'll just save you an adolescence worth of life lessons here - stop sending videos  and just ask her out.  Don't stall, don't wait two weeks, don't try to leverage your friendship over time - just do it.  If she's interested she would know by now,  she'll either say yes  or she'll politely let you down. If she lets you down don't be a baby about it, be polite.  

Best not to let yourself get too emotionally attached to the idea, which is what happens when you wait and wait and wait.  

The longer you wait, the higher the stakes and the higher your anxiety will build, which makes all of this way more difficult than it actually needs to be. Unless she's a moron she probably has an idea that you like her, so the longer you wait the weaker you appear - so just roll up your sleeves and do it. 

In the end she's either interested or not, just as you may be interested or not in other people.  


I second this. If she likes you, asking her out will cut out all the ambiguity and the fucking about. If she doesn't like you, she probably won't be mean about it, and if you both act sensible, you could remain friends and would probably had forgotten about it in a month.

If I could go back and tell a teenage version of myself anything, it would be to not hesitate or overthink this kind of shit. Rejection won't kill you, and getting overly invested in someone who doesn't feel the same is more trouble than it's worth.
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#39
When are you going to send her your best Eruption solo cover with stretchy pants on.  I mean you want her to like you don't you?  
#40
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When are you going to send her your best Eruption solo cover with stretchy pants on.  I mean you want her to like you don't you?  

This is how you get sucked off...obviously.
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