okay, ive been playing for 4 years now and i know how to play and i know what sounds good, but i dont know any music theory.

so i guess any books or videos that are good would be great
No need for books or videos, you can learn loads just off UG. Look in the lessons section, and if you don't understand stuff just post it here.

I learned loads of music theory from this site.
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