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I'm to ****ing shy when it comes to talking to girls, its so rediculous, i'm new at this school and i'm trying to talk to girls but i just dont know what to say and i just feel like an idiot... Is there any way to get over this problem? Is there anyone who has experienced this?
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Lol me, for some reason I only have trouble talking to the good looking ones, prolly because i don't like the others
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Yeah thats normal dude it just takes practise.
and breath/ relax when you talk to em, they wont bite... well maybe they will but thats only if they are into that kind of thing..
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same problem dude

i feel your pain
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dont think everything you say is stupid, cause odds are, its not stupid at all. im the same as you tho
#10
Act like they're super ugly girls but don't be mean. It makes it easier sometimes. Only had to do it once though.
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hmm well just be yourself as long as your not stupid. make some jokes about stuff they say but don't make fun directly at them also if you walk by a girl you like in the hallway don't be afraid to say hi or as i do and pretend i'm gonna hip check them into a locker, they like that for some reason
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#12
at least you have girls to talk to at your school... all the girls at my school are ****in idiots!

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nah just be yourself.. and be cool
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just think of them as a dude


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No fart jokes, though.


are you joking?
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if they don't just fart on them so they shut up because everyone knows farts will ALWAYS be funny.
Fart jokes will be funny until the end of time, they are an immortal joke that never ever gets old.


but honestly, just calm down and just talk. It's not that hard once you get your mind set.
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I just started my hs with a few different schools feeding in... Just talk to em, and if you like em as you associate more with them you'll grow more and more comfortable.
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What are you, 13?

Idk, just don't think about vaginas. I think of girls the same way I think of guys, not sexually of course, but I'd say 80% of my friends are girls. I don't know why, I just seem to get along better with girls.

I'd say if you're talkin to a girl as friends, just don't think of them as the opposite sex. If you really like a girl just get to know her first, and stuff. I don't really have any tips on asking girls out. Usually I'm the one who gets asked, or I just plain come out and say it.
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What are you, 13?

Idk, just don't think about vaginas. I think of girls the same way I think of guys, not sexually of course, but I'd say 80% of my friends are girls. I don't know why, I just seem to get along better with girls.

I'd say if you're talkin to a girl as friends, just don't think of them as the opposite sex. If you really like a girl just get to know her first, and stuff. I don't really have any tips on asking girls out. Usually I'm the one who gets asked, or I just plain come out and say it.



i got to know this one girl and ended up being her best friend.
Sadly enough when i went out with her she claimed it was akward and i got jewed.
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For me it doesnt matter they can be hot as can be, I can talk to em', but if its a girl I guienally like, I have to force myself to say something and start a conversation, but with girls that are just there its easy.
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#21
Just relax, I wouldn't recommend talking like they're guys since well girls aren't guys and you might say something wrong. Talk to them like they're your sister or cousin someone you know is a girl but they're as good as friends just be casual.
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Don't smell bad/have bad hygene
If it's anything a girl has told me they hate, it's a guy that smells like a locker room.

But yeah...If you see them having trouble with something, offer help. Like carrying books, schoolwork, anything like that. Comes off good
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i got to know this one girl and ended up being her best friend.
Sadly enough when i went out with her she claimed it was akward and i got jewed.
BE VERY CAREFUL ABOUT GETTING CLOSE IF YOU WANT TO GO OUT WITH A GIRL.
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For me it doesnt matter they can be hot as can be, I can talk to em', but if its a girl I guienally like, I have to force myself to say something and start a conversation, but with girls that are just there its easy.



Same here man.


But anyways, just act natural. If theres anyone someone dislikes it's the guy who acts like something he's not.
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just think of them as a dude

yea thats actually the best advice ever. think of them as a friend and show that you can have a decent convo with them and you'll be in.
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Just don't talk to them on that certain time of the month and you'll do fine.
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#29
Goodness is it just me or does this same thread pop up every night? Alright I'll help just this once. You just have to chill, honestly you don't have to be all proper or cool around them just be yourself (sounds sentimental and **** but don't even act like you're not always trying to impress them). Don't try and show off it makes you look like a tool and if an oppurtunity arises go ahead and impress them but don't force it. Although usually I'm around my guy friends when I'm around hot chicks I don't know and I have a gf so I feel no pressure to do anything I wouldn't do around my guy friends. Just calm down the worst that will happen is they'll tell you to go away and then you walk away and find a different girl to talk to. Don't fear rejection it happens to all of us. I used to be shy like you, you just need to get over it.
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I'm to ****ing shy when it comes to talking to girls, its so rediculous, i'm new at this school and i'm trying to talk to girls but i just dont know what to say and i just feel like an idiot... Is there any way to get over this problem? Is there anyone who has experienced this?


I was so bad with chicks at school that there friends would actually come up to me a tell me they wanted a kiss or wanted to go out and i would crap out of it!. Made up for lost time after a few years tho!.

Just make initial contact to them and just remember what they say about themselves to you and ask pointer questions-especially non personal ones eg 'hows your math assignment?'. Then get more personal then ask them on a date. Also make sure you are presentable and think to yourself would she be embarrassed of being my gf-if so time to buy some cool clothes and cut down on the candy giving you acne!.
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i got to know this one girl and ended up being her best friend.
Sadly enough when i went out with her she claimed it was akward and i got jewed.
BE VERY CAREFUL ABOUT GETTING CLOSE IF YOU WANT TO GO OUT WITH A GIRL.
just my advice.


Ding Ding! we have a winner... happened to me numerous times... the best way to get to kno a girl is to be her friend, but dont become too good of friends with her, cuz ya dont wanna be strictly in the friend-zone! its wayy hard to convert friendship into something more... im not too sure on what to do about bein shy because i myself am not perticularly shy! but try some small talk, it usually works... try to pick up on things the girl enjoys.. be observant! hope ya get talkin soon!
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#32
i can talk to girls easily, i can make the same jokes i do with the guys and everything.

but when it comes to a good looking girl, i cant do anything.


anyone else have this problem?
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i can talk to girls easily, i can make the same jokes i do with the guys and everything.

but when it comes to a good looking girl, i cant do anything.


anyone else have this problem?


well personaly, its kinda ruine for me, haha, because this girl i kno Jess, is absolutely positively the most beautiful girl ive ever seen.. and im real close with her... soo any other girl isnt super atractive to me... but when i was first gettin to kno her i was madd nervous.. but the thing u gotta kno is that even though the girl might be amazingly good looking, shes not always gonna be mean or stuck up, like Jess is like the nicest girl i kno also.... the end!
p.s. i think i love her.... hehehe
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#35
I only have trouble with girls I like. I wish it wasn't like that cause either way I get jewed. Honestly though, it might sound selfish, but just think to yourself that your the **** and that you don't need anyone. Thats what I try to do, and it helps calm me down.
#36
I have trouble talking in person to girls I like.

Anyone else is perfectly okay.
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I had the same problem, threadstarter. Eventually, you get less tense when talking to girls. It takes time...
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at least you have girls to talk to at your school... all the girls at my school are ****in idiots!

haha

nah just be yourself.. and be cool

me too brother its annoying hey, all the few hots ones are slutty too how gay
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But remember just cause you can talk to the girls you like doesn't mean they'll automatically like you.
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just have fun and enjoy the company of a lovely lady. be positive.
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