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#1
Ok here's the deal.

My best friends ex girlfriend and I have been flirting alot lately, and she's all but flat out told me that she wants to f*uck me so hard. My best friend has no feelings left over for her as far as i can tell, and he's got a new girlfriend. They were together for 1 and a half years before they broke up.

Her best friend has told me that she's in love with me, and i've told her i don't know what my feelings toward her is. And i really don't know. But i do know that my friends ex is really hot, and i'd love to get together with her.

So what do i do? Is it morally wrong of me to get together with my best friends ex?

And the reason why im not putting this in the relationship thread is coz its more about whats right/wrong in correlation to my best friend than it is about the girls.

Thanks.
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#2
Well how long ago did they break up?
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#5
dont touch her if he is your Best Friend. if hes just a friend go for it.
#6
just ask your friend man. if hes cool with it go for it. if not, do what you want.
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#8
ok i had this problem but in a different way. i wanted to date my ex gfs best friend. in my situation, it was NOT going to work. i would say go for it since your best friend has moved on. maybe ask if hes cool with it. but be careful.

good luck.
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depends like my 1 1/2 year ex i hate
but with him it could be a diff story
how long ago did they break up?
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#10
one time my best friend hooked me up with his ex. but we lasted for like a week

EDIT: Man law says if shes hot and its been six months, go for it.
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#11
You'd be betraying your best friend for your horniness.


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#13
The man laws state that your friends ex is off limits for life . The only exception to this law states that if the ex in question is very attractive you must wait six months from the time of break up before you hook up. This is the accpepted practice according to the men of the square table. Good luck!
#14
ask your friend first, if he says yes, Go for it. if he says no, Screw her anyway, but just don't talk about it.
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#15
She wanna f*uck you. WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR!!!!!!!!!
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put it this way...been there, done that
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#17
Ask your friend. Thats the only way to know. If he has feelings for her, or if he even is uncomfortable about it, don't do anything with her. But if he doesn't mind, go for it.

I personally think it would be okay as long as he doesn't care...
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#19
No man forget about that she is trying to make jealous your friend or just to get revenge on him by goin out with you. DONT DO IT.

#20
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bros before hoes is supposed to mean that you dont dich your friends for a chick.
i dont even think it applies to this situtation.... does it?
#22
You could take the high road and ask your buddy if it's okay with him, and make sure. Or, take the low road, bang her, and flatly deny it later. With any luck you will destroy her for other men for years to come.
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#23
Just go for it, you said he has no feelings for her so I doubt he gives a shit, so why not, my girlfriend is one of my best friends ex's
#24
Hmmm, Dotpunker89 has a very good point...Find out the details first.
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#26
well im actually in a situation like that, towards the end of the last schoolyear my best friend starting going out with a girl, and me and her had been flirting for so long, and something was bound to happen, but stupid me i got caught up in another relationship, and i still liked her and i hated it when they went out. Over the summer they broke up, but i also kinda quit even talking to him or anything cuz he moved, and we just kinda quit being friends. so a few months back i started going out with her, and he was super pissed about it, cuz he might have still liked her, but she hates him with a passion, so i knew there was no chance of them, and me and her should have just gotten together from the start. But weve been going out for 4 months now, and i wish i would have done it earlier. I know i am probably a douche for it, but it was meant to happen
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ask him.
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#31
Dude, if you like her, do it.

Fuck your friend. Seriously. You only live once, and if he hates you, then get a new best friend.

Or you could not get a new best friend, and go back to banging your hot girl friend?

he won't get mad anyway. he had his chance.
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#33
haha i dunno that one is kinda tricky...its always fun to think of us as dogs, in which case ur best friend has already pissed all over her and marked her has his territory, u just gotta ignore the horrible piss smell
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Ok here's the deal.

My best friends ex girlfriend and I have been flirting alot lately, and she's all but flat out told me that she wants to f*uck me so hard. My best friend has no feelings left over for her as far as i can tell, and he's got a new girlfriend. They were together for 1 and a half years before they broke up.

Her best friend has told me that she's in love with me, and i've told her i don't know what my feelings toward her is. And i really don't know. But i do know that my friends ex is really hot, and i'd love to get together with her.

So what do i do? Is it morally wrong of me to get together with my best friends ex?

And the reason why im not putting this in the relationship thread is coz its more about whats right/wrong in correlation to my best friend than it is about the girls.

Thanks.



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Ok here's the deal.

My best friends ex girlfriend and I have been flirting alot lately, and she's all but flat out told me that she wants to f*uck me so hard. My best friend has no feelings left over for her as far as i can tell, and he's got a new girlfriend. They were together for 1 and a half years before they broke up.

Her best friend has told me that she's in love with me, and i've told her i don't know what my feelings toward her is. And i really don't know. But i do know that my friends ex is really hot, and i'd love to get together with her.

So what do i do? Is it morally wrong of me to get together with my best friends ex?

And the reason why im not putting this in the relationship thread is coz its more about whats right/wrong in correlation to my best friend than it is about the girls.

Thanks.



that bit i've put in bold is all you need to know to make your mind up, because of that I don't think theres anything ilmoral about it.
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#36
Okay thanks for the response everybody. This thing about her trying to make my friend jealous by screwing me is kinda uncomfortable to think about. I mean, its definately a possibility. On the other hand, if I were to screw her, it wouldn't be more than a sexual relationship anyway, as that seems to be all she's going for... Man she's just so hot.. I get horny just by thinking of her..

But I actually did ask him before, it just seems like he's not saying what he really thinks. Like, he really cares, but just pretends not to...

But i mean, if he says that its okay, and doesn't give any verbal indication that its not, haven't I still got the guilt-free pass? Or am i supposed to take into consideration what I suspect he really feels about the whole deal?

Coz the thing is, he's one of my best friends, and i wouldn't want to do anything that'd cause him to end that friendship.
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#39
Yea...that's pretty much treason and a complete punch in the crotch.

I'd say stay away from her, totally. Usually if there's bad vibes between best friend and his ex, then you don't even associate with her, hell, evn THINK about her.

That could put a load of shit in your life.
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#40
just ask him, even if he wants to say no, he won't. So either way you get the girl and he can't be pissed at you, because he said it was ok.
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