#1
HEY guys my second bad thread for tonight.
can we please not waste valuable time ranting on about this being
placed in the relationship thread. cause in my eyes its far worthier than that.

i just want to here some thoughts on ya everyones fave topic love
but not blah i love her so much cause her boobz0rs like touched my chest this one time.
i mean when does one decide that they truly love a girl or boy(if your into that kinda thing, not that theres anything wrong with that),
and how this varies for different contexts like family blahdi blah and then others.
and different people say different things.
some people say "i decided it was true love"
like a new level of their relationship
whatever you get the idea.



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#3
i wish i understood a word of that.

anyway, love is a hard thing to understand. you can be going for years before you find someone you really like. most people think they love someone when they're just lusting for a relationship. i have too many people telling me they love me (unfortunately...) and in all, i only believe one of them, and she is my closest friend IMHO. and i don't think its going any further, but i can and have been wrong.
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#4
I'm almost convinced i'm in love. Almost, But i've not sure whether I do since i've never been in love before.
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#5
Quote by Cpt.Jackass
I'm almost convinced i'm in love. Almost, But i've not sure whether I do since i've never been in love before.


You shouldn't have to convince yourself that your in love, if you were, you'd know it.
It's just an overwhelming feeling, and I hope you feel it because it's purely amazing, IMO.
#6
i've been in love before, and its the greatest feeling you'll ever have in your life...while it lasts. but now, i think im in love with the same girl again, and so i dunno what to do cuz we're reeeaaaally good friends and i dont want to complicate things...love is really confusing

and for anyone out there who just thinks that love and sex are the same thing, i feel very sorry for you
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#7
if i have felt love before, then it is a pretty incredible feeling. turns a crap day good.

however, i felt it for someone who didn't feel it back


bollocks.
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#8
I don't get why people seem to separate love and friendship? I love my best friends, without wanting to stick my penis in them.
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#9
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i've been in love before, and its the greatest feeling you'll ever have in your life...while it lasts. but now, i think im in love with the same girl again, and so i dunno what to do cuz we're reeeaaaally good friends and i dont want to complicate things...love is really confusing

and for anyone out there who just thinks that love and sex are the same thing, i feel very sorry for you


Phsyical love is sex.
I feel sorry for you.

Quote by ar73m
I don't get why people seem to separate love and friendship? I love my best friends, without wanting to stick my penis in them.


Yup, I love my friends without raping them.
There's a lot of forms of love, love for friends, family, and love for a girlfriend,boyfriend,wife,husband.
I love my dog too.

..not phsyically.
Last edited by munchyy at Jan 9, 2007,
#11
hah woo,
ya sorry for the lack of coherence but i havent had much sleep lately. anyway at least you caught the drift of what i was going for.
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7. Architecture in Helsinki

and counting.
#12
Quote by ar73m
I don't get why people seem to separate love and friendship? I love my best friends, without wanting to stick my penis in them.


nah, i can differentiate between them. just. haha. although it really does get confusing when people say they love you constantly, giving you the wrong impression.
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#13
Love can be REEAALY shitty though.. I recently broke up with my girlfriend after a little over three years! And I don't want to hurt her, even though she has hurt me soo many times before!! I feel really bad cause she really loves me, but I don't think I can return all of those feelings.. I just don't think I love her anymore..

Did I do the right thing...?..
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#14
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Phsyical love is sex.
I feel sorry for you.


wat i meant is that true love is a feeling you have for someone. if you truly love someone, you would never want anything bad to happen to them, you'd gladly take a bullet for them, just hearing their voice makes a bad day turn good, etc. sex is important to, but physical love and lust should not be confused with real love
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#15
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nah, i can differentiate between them. just. haha. although it really does get confusing when people say they love you constantly, giving you the wrong impression.

Sorry I worded myself wrong; I mean I know there's a difference between friendship and love, but you can be friends with someone and love them, in a 'non-relationship way', or at least I can. I have a few friends (some of them female) whom I could honestly say I love, but I'm not looking to hump them or something, etc etc. Sort of like you can love your family members I guess. Maybe I'm just weird.
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#16
Quote by |IronMaiden|
Love can be REEAALY shitty though.. I recently broke up with my girlfriend after a little over three years! And I don't want to hurt her, even though she has hurt me soo many times before!! I feel really bad cause she really loves me, but I don't think I can return all of those feelings.. I just don't think I love her anymore..

Did I do the right thing...?..



yes, you did do the right thing. if you dont actually love her, dont try to fake it.
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#17
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Sorry I worded myself wrong; I mean I know there's a difference between friendship and love, but you can be friends with someone and love them, in a 'non-relationship way', or at least I can. I have a few friends (some of them female) whom I could honestly say I love, but I'm not looking to hump them or something, etc etc. Sort of like you can love your family members I guess. Maybe I'm just weird.



oooh i getcha. yea, i have friends that i would die for and stuff, but bonking them silly/going out with them and the like never passes my mind. they're great friends.

by never, i mean rarely
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#18
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oooh i getcha. yea, i have friends that i would die for and stuff, but bonking them silly/going out with them and the like never passes my mind. they're great friends.

by never, i mean rarely

Yeah what I'm saying is, there's so much more to love than "omgz me wuv u buttsecks?", it's not something you can or "should" only feel for one person in your life, etc etc. It's a great thing though, great thing.
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#19
I'm in love.


That, and music, keeps me alive.
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#20
Quote by ar73m
Yeah what I'm saying is, there's so much more to love than "omgz me wuv u buttsecks?", it's not something you can or "should" only feel for one person in your life, etc etc. It's a great thing though, great thing.



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#21
you get that these days, alot of the teenybopper type teens lol tend to use the word
love in every possible situation, in an effort to totally degrade and suck all meaning from it.
this i dont like or appreciate
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7. Architecture in Helsinki

and counting.
#22
I was certainly in love. It wasn't obvious at first, but you begin to realise once you're separated from them for a bit and it feels like hell, or they're constantly on your mind no matter how hard you try to think about something else. It didn't work out for me though. Took me over a year to stop being in love with her, but I still think about her occasionally and miss her now, and it's been over 2 years. It's bloody painful to remember.

I wish I'd never met her.
#23
^have had a similar situation. pretty annoying isn't it?

it actually brought me to tears once
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#24
i was about to say amusing but no thats the wrong word, just odd how people know that some of the best time they have ever had was spent with this person they loved but
as the feelings on otherside of the spectrum come into play they wish they had never met them
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3. The Grates
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5. Kings of Leon
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7. Architecture in Helsinki

and counting.
#25
Quote by IndieMetalhead
^have had a similar situation. pretty annoying isn't it?

it actually brought me to tears once


It bloody is. It's had me in tears a few times. It's even worse knowing that the feeling wasn't reciprocal.
#26
Quote by ar73m
Sorry I worded myself wrong; I mean I know there's a difference between friendship and love, but you can be friends with someone and love them, in a 'non-relationship way', or at least I can. I have a few friends (some of them female) whom I could honestly say I love, but I'm not looking to hump them or something, etc etc. Sort of like you can love your family members I guess. Maybe I'm just weird.


Yup. There's 'loving' someone and then there's being 'in love' with someone. They're completely different things.
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#27
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It bloody is. It's had me in tears a few times. It's even worse knowing that the feeling wasn't reciprocal.


here, here.

reciprocal?
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#28
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here, here.

reciprocal?


It means it wasn't mutual. He felt that way, she didn't.
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#29
oh

gotcha

*noobness*
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