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Hi All, ok, there's this girl in my class. And she is like super depressed. First of all, she had sex for the first time a few weeks ago, and she's really regretting that she did. Another thing, last night her Mom got arrested for maing death-threats to her, and for cutting herself up, and for striking a police officer. She's been a really good friend of min since kindergarden, and now we're in 8th grade. I really wanna cheer her up, but i dunno how. Any good tips? and please, this is serious, so don't say **** her, or give her buttsecks or anything like. I want serious help!
#2
well if you were really that good of friends since kindergarden, you should already no what cheers her up.
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#3
Honestly, little things man. Don't go on a whole sympathy trip - get her some small flowers, then take her out for the day. Take her mind off of everything for a while, and that'll cheer her up no end.

Don't keep talking about it. If I were in that position, I'd like to forget about it for a while.
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She got boned in grade 8

I'm a sophomore and never even kissed a girl
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Honestly, little things man. Don't go on a whole sympathy trip - get her some small flowers, then take her out for the day. Take her mind off of everything for a while, and that'll cheer her up no end.

Don't keep talking about it. If I were in that position, I'd like to forget about it for a while.


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how old are you in 8th grade?
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im a jr in highschool and i havent kissed a girl yet. Then again..the girls here, i dont think anyone would. But getting boned in the 8th grade is kinda early lol. Just call the girl, talk to her at night. ANd when u see her walk with her, hugs do work wonders, etc etc. Little things add up.
#12
ask her for buttsecks? nah just kidding. i think maybe just take her out somewhere, go out and have fun or whatever, and talk to her about it. talking about stuff with a friend usually makes stuff betterish.
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#13
pretty much just devote a large part of your time and energy to her
take out to fun places
eat lunch with her
walk and talk with her
help her with homework
invite her to do stuff with other friends
make her feel specail
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#14
Take her to an Itallian restaurant for lunch and get her some flowers. If it were me, i'd try not to do anything that would remind her of the situation she's in.

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#15
hugs do cause wonders indeed, Give her some attention, always works.. and cause you know her for that long, you'll know how to help her further on
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Make her a bacon sandwhich with mushrooms and tomatoes and HP sauce...argh, so ****ing brilliant.
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#17
Wait, do you just wanna cheer her up? Or do you wanna get with her?

I'm assuming because you're in grade 8 you want some reward for cheering her up. Right?
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#18
i say hugs and flowers. and mayb a stuffed bear or something. its the small things man.
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I don't know about cheering her up, but it'll definitely take her mind off of it
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#20
When I was in 8th grade, a girl I knew screwed her boyfriend. Her parents ended up transfering her to an all girls school.

Anyway, among the other things said, compliment her on everything. E-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g.
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Wait, do you just wanna cheer her up? Or do you wanna get with her?

I'm assuming because you're in grade 8 you want some reward for cheering her up. Right?



Talk about naive... This guy seems geniune, and it aint a "How do i make her like me" thread. Its how to cheer her up BECAUSE of ALOT of shit she's going through right now (I guess). Hugs yeah, dont go overboard... dont take her out alot to fancy resteraunts imo, that may look like you wanna be with her + in the state she's in that may actually happen. I'd say little things, help her, talk to her alot, hugs... cinema together... friend things.
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If she's 14 then it's just puberty, she'll get over it.
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Honestly, little things man. Don't go on a whole sympathy trip - get her some small flowers, then take her out for the day. Take her mind off of everything for a while, and that'll cheer her up no end.

Don't keep talking about it. If I were in that position, I'd like to forget about it for a while.


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#24
this is the problem with women. U cant tell to to "be a man and get over it". Hmm.....just be perky, and spontaneous if you can. Nothing to stop the tears like an extremely witty comment.
#25
That is just disgusting.

Theres a school in my town where a lot of the grade 8s had secks.

Just talk to her.
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#26
write an amusing, tenacious d style song about it and sing it her on an acoustic.
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#29
talk to her a lot...especially in the middle of the night when no one else is around
hang out with her whenever you can
hug her...but dont let go for a long time even if she lets go first. some girls can hate this, but you know her better than i do
go for a walk
make stupid jokes (not about her unless you know shell know youre only kidding)
buying things is opptional..you dont have to

just watch out, this stuff has been known to make somebody fall in love with somebody else, thus ruining everything
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Honestly, little things man. Don't go on a whole sympathy trip - get her some small flowers, then take her out for the day. Take her mind off of everything for a while, and that'll cheer her up no end.

Don't keep talking about it. If I were in that position, I'd like to forget about it for a while.

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#31
hugs work wonders if a girl is feeling sad, know it worked well enough on a female friend who had just split from her boyfriend.

no idea, just try and act relatively normal, take her out to the cinema, a social (if you know what i mean, might be diff name where your from) or some restaurant.

remember keep it in budget for yourself, that way she'll see your trying to be a good friend and not impress her to get her in bed (not what you want to try and seem like now)

most importantly be good listener and if she wants to talk, you listen, something lot ppl don't understand, listen and be on her side, reason with her that its not as bad as could be, and tell her that its not a permanent problem.
#32
Like a lot of people have said, just do small things for her. Help her to take her mind off what's happening and give her something else to think about for a while. You could also ask her if she want to talk about it, and just be there as someone to listen to her. There's probably nothing she'd like more than to share her problems with someone who's there foe her.

Then not only will she feel better, but maybe you will feel good for helping her out.
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Honestly, little things man. Don't go on a whole sympathy trip - get her some small flowers, then take her out for the day. Take her mind off of everything for a while, and that'll cheer her up no end.

Don't keep talking about it. If I were in that position, I'd like to forget about it for a while.


No flowers.

Something small like, anything from a newsagent will do.

Flowers seems desprite, and girls seem to appericate something like that no matter how small.
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Anyway, just start hanging out with her any chance you get, make her little things, talk to her, even if you got nothing to talk about, just make a stupid joke.
Touch her alot, not as in kissing and stuff like that, just pet her hair, let her rest on you, hug her.

Basiclly, make her feel she's special to you, and that you really wanna help, that'll cheer her up.
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#35
goddamnit. how come the only guys who actually care about girls only exist on the net?

last time some guy did something to cheer me up was so he could get me in bed.

but yeah, what these other people have said, little things, compliment her, make her laugh, give her a biiig hug (hugs help a lot!), take her out somewhere. if she does want to talk about it, let her, but be very positive and focus on good things.
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i say hugs and flowers. and mayb a stuffed bear or something. its the small things man.


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#38
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ur only in grade 8 and shes had sex.....



thats not very rare nowadays, i had a friend who had sex in 6th grade, needless to say she doesnt talk to me anymore and shes a slut now
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thats not very rare nowadays, i had a friend who had sex in 6th grade, needless to say she doesnt talk to me anymore and shes a slut now


Im not conservative or anything, but that just makes me sick!

The 6th grade, its around the age of 11 or 12, right?
They are still kids for the love of god, they should be watching pokemon or something, not shag each other in the sandbox..
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#40
Just be really nice to her, take her out to eat, or something she likes to do so she doesnt think about all that.
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