#1
Ok so over the weekend i was with my girl at my friends house. He had our other friend over and and they decided to crash for the night. So they both slept in the room and me and my girl slept on the futon in the living room. Ok this is a one bedroom apt and my friend is like a brother to me and he doesnt care if me and my g/f did our thing at his place, no big deal to him. So we were watching tv and one thing lead to another. So we did our thing and my other friend decided to go to the door and try to peak at us. I didnt find out about this until like today. I mean if it was some random girl i wouldnt care, but this is the girl i really care about and i see myself with her in the future, if you know what i mean. I honestly just want to beat the shit out of him, but i think i may be taking it the wrong way. What do you guys think? I mean is it something i should take lightly on? Should i just brush it off my shoulder and not worry about it? Just curious.....What would you do?
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#2
So you shagged a girl in your friend's house, he tried to watch, and you're annoyed not because of him trying to watch, but because you really like the girl?

If so, I think you're making too much of a deal out of it if the only reason you're pissed off is you actually like this girl. It tells us all something about you.
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#4
coudn't really understand some of that

but do you mean "my friend watched me having sex with my girl friend"?

if so call him a pervert and tell everyone
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#5
eh i wouldnt worry about it to much, as long has he wasnt like jerkin the mcgerkin while watching you guys or like watched the whole thing then i would beat the **** outta him
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#6
me and my girlfriend mess with my best bud all the time. he'll come over and we'll answer the door naked and stuff. its funny to us.

but yeah, if hes spying hes a perv. pervs deserve to be knocked out.
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#8
for one it wasnt the guy that lived there, it was his friend......im annoyed for the fact that he was basically wanting to check it all out? i dont know....i mean i guess im the only one that will take it differently
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me and my girlfriend mess with my best bud all the time. he'll come over and we'll answer the door naked and stuff. its funny to us.

but yeah, if hes spying hes a perv. pervs deserve to be knocked out.


so you need to be knocked out cause you answer the door naked.
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me and my girlfriend mess with my best bud all the time. he'll come over and we'll answer the door naked and stuff. its funny to us.

but yeah, if hes spying hes a perv. pervs deserve to be knocked out.

ha ya i can take that as a joke...if it was my good friend and his g/f messing around...
#13
Just slug the mother ****er and kiss and make up. Life goes on bro, he just did what any person would of done if that kinda chance was thrown in there lap.
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#15
if he was just being an ass then i probably wouldn't care. if he's a perv though i'd kick his ass.
#16
I'm not so sure I fully understand. If it was your friend whose apartment you were at that was looking, then just don't do it at his apartment. If it was somebody else, then either learn to lock the door or go punch him in the torso. If he just opened the door a crack, took a peak, and left then just punch him in the torso. If he like stood there and was watching for a while, then punch him in the balls.
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It was his house, he could have gotten a bowl of popcorn and sat down and watched if he wanted to
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#20
I wouldn't really care. Your fault for doing it when there were people that could bother you. Make it more of a private thing if you can.
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#21
I can pretty much see your point, man. I wouldn't want some kid leering at my girlfriend naked if I knew I was going to spend a long time with her. Even if I wasn't I'd feel wronged.

If it had been the good friend who is like a brother to you, I'd say just talk to him. But it wasn't. If this kid is just an "acquaintance" and not really a good friend, then yes he deserves to be hit. The severity of the hit depends on the amount of time he was watching. But I would say the guy definitely deserves to be sworn at, at the very least.
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#23
I didn't read any of it but there's a thousand of these threads already.
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#24
I'd beat him up man. I mean, this guy was staring at your girlfriend while she was naked. He was looking at her breasts, her ass, her pussy (?). I mean, if that doesn't warrant a solid beating, i don't know what does. Dude, beat his ass. ****.. Lol... I'd go ****ing crazy if some dude did that to me. Unless he's a really good friend? I dunno... If my best friend did it... I might let him off the hook with a little shouting maybe.

But if not....
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#25
dont do it in front of your friend then. my friends would do it in front of me but i mean.. its not like i would enjoy it anyway. its your fault for doing it at a friends house
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#26
my friend has had sex with his girl at my place before and he didnt care when i walked past to go to the kitchen to get a drink, but i wasnt like being a perv, i was just thirsty, so its probs different.

i've had sex with a girlfriend with my cousin in the same room and im sure he saw a fair bit (duh) but i didnt care.

i think maybe you are taking it not the wrong way, but in a more serious way than perhaps you could... but it isnt up to us to decide, if you think he went to far, then he did.
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#27
he told me he sex'd your girl thats why he was watching, to see how she liked it
#28
fight him if u wish but if your taking this all the wrong way, youll feel like a big asshole. try to just forget about it and not take it so seriously. try to be one of those guys who if another guy sees them and their girl doing it, they say "hey wanna join in?" share a giggle over the situation.
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#29
true true, just curious on what you guys think about the whole situation...by the way the guy that was watching wasnt his apartment....he was more like just crashing the night there, he even said " alright im sleeping in the other room so you 2 can be alone"...ha it was a setup.....o well im over it
#30
chill out mon. if he's like a brother to you then forget it he mebbe wanted some tips cos you're like a sex god or somthing??

life goes on. just don't stuff girls any more at his place
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#32
If someone peep'd in on my boyfriend and I having sex I would be fucking pissed. I seriously would kick the shit out of them. It meant to be something special with two people, not some peep show for perverts..

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#33
Hmm, I'm thinking that you are taking this much to seriously. With the internet seeing people having sex is not really that big of a deal, whether or not it is someone you know or not, if you've seen one pussy, you've seen em all. Although this may seem a little blunt, just tell your friend you did not appreciate him watching you and your girlfriend "doing the do" and just don't do it around him anymore, and just remember that if your girlfriend doesn't care don't make a big deal out of it.

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#34
Here's your solution:

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#35
u did root at his house. he should have had front row seats and popcorn.
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#36
k things he did
1 watch u pump ur girl

things he didnt do (as far as we know)
1. video it
2 put it on you tube
3 sell photos to cheap bat mags
4 ring its neck as he watched taped and photographed u
5 rang all ur other buddies and let them hear he having sex
6 (my personal favorite) come out with his pants of half way through and ask to be the salamie in the middle
#37
I see a lot of people giving angry (even violent) responses. Let's look at this from another perspective, though:

Ever watched porn? Looked at pictures of naked people in sexual positions? Imagined someone naked?

We all have. It's human nature to be interested in sex, and to want to engage in it. Supposing we cannot, however, then we seek it out in other ways. IE: Pornography in its various forms, romance novels, our imagination, etc.

Now, once that has gotten through to you kids, let's look at this from various standpoints:

First, from the perspective of our Peeping-Tom: You're staying at your friend's house, and his other friend and that guy's girlfriend are also staying the night. They are sleeping in the living room. After some commotion, you get the inclination they're having sex. You have two options: 1.) Sit locked in the room, bored and distracted with what is likely going on just in the next room, or... 2.) Succum to your curiousity and try to sneak a peek to see what's up. Either choice kind of sucks, but hey, you might see a breast or two! It's better than circle jerking with your friend in his room.

Now, we've already heard the personal account and views of our "protagonist", so let's take a look at his side scrutinously:

He's at his friend's house, not his own. This means, that friend or any other friend he has over (unless clearly stated otherwise) is generally welcomed into the common area of the household (or apartment, in this case). Ergo, any sexual acts taking place in said common area are subject to the possibility of interruption and/or spectators. This is a given, and the threadstarter took this risk knowingly. Having sex in the common area, unless a prior agreement is made, is an unspoken consent to any curious housemate; especially if the living quarters are not your own.

So, to recap: Suspicion of sexual intercourse. Innate human curiousity. Actions take place in common area of third party's household without prior privacy arrangement. Fuckers at fault.

Another point: Since you did not see him watching, perhaps he did not and this is a load of bullshit to begin with?

Now, get over yourselves. It's just sex. If it's "special" to you, do it in the privacy of your own home and/or cheap, sleazy motel room.
#39
Ask him to write a review. Things you could have done better, things he really enjoyed watching, things she seemed to enjoy; a few good pointers never hurt anybody!
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