#1
Anyway basically I like this girl we're not going out or anything cos when I asked her out she said she really didn't know yet. Well basically she was in hospital and due to be released today and some of my friends were going to see her but I couldn't make it. Later on she texted me saying "Hi so you didn't come and meet me then oh well see you tomorrow" and now I feel like a right bastard. Any ideas on how I could make it up to her?

On the plus side though, that seems to mean she cares about me.
#2
Well, why couldn't you go?
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#3
Well explain why you couldnt make it. If you have a plausable explanation Im sure she will understand.
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#5
Get her some chocolate, girls love chocolate. Tell her you do care.
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#6
Just text back and say, "no sorry, couldn't make it unfortunately, really wanted to though", or something like that.
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2.by her a big fluffy disney toy form pooh bear or the lion King e.t.c.(trust me girls love them, and preffably from something you know she likes). Then when you give it to her say the reason you couldn't make it was because it was the only time you could go into town to get it.
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#10
your excuse would have to be pretty good tho, like ur mother was dying or something
#11
She wanted you to come and visit, and is now sending you on a guilt trip. You can tell by the 'oh well'. Just explain to her why you couldn't get there, if it's a good reason, and tell her you're sorry and offer to take her out somewhere. But she's being a bitch, don't let her get to you if she tries to make you feel guilty.
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#12
Surely the answer to this problem is common sense? Oh well...what everyone else said.
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#13
in the words of Mick in Rocky .. "Women Weaken Legs" ... man my girlfriend tries to put me on a guilt trip all the time, i just tell her i'm a very busy man with my work and my band she will understand if she is for real. If not then try some other girl ... every hole's a goal brother...
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#14
first, tell the truth u dont shel find out has happend alot to me, second buy her sumthing, and third she does care but if u dont show that u care then she wotn care any longer
#15
Get her some flowers, and say uo had to go to the far corners of the earth to get them. Explaining why you were late.
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#17
tell her you wanted it to be just you and her. make it sound sappy, they love that stuff. make sure you have a stuffed animal or something to give to her too.
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Just text back and say, "no sorry, couldn't make it unfortunately, really wanted to though", or something like that.



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#19
just text her back saying why you couldnt make it...and when you see her next give her a rose.

not like 12 or anything one is much more sweeter. its like 4$ or something (canadian). Trust me im a girl.
#20
apologise, tell her the reason you couldn't go and see her, and then go see her ASAP. when you get there, try and imitate this picture exactly.
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#21
^Can't say I didnt see that one coming.
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2.by her a big fluffy disney toy from pooh bear or the lion King e.t.c.(trust me girls love them, and preffably from something you know she likes). Then when you give it to her say the reason you couldn't make it was because it was the only time you could go into town to get it.


True. When I'm in girl trouble I just show them my UG account and they go like 'awwww your picture thingie is cute! *hugs*'
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True. When I'm in girl trouble I just show them my UG account and they go like 'awwww your picture thingie is cute! *hugs*'



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ive finnaly worked out what youre avatar means. wow.

I say just text her the truth, dont fluff it up with crap. but if shes saying "Why didnt you come". and you say why, then shes probably just an attention ***** / gobby / teasing you etc.
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ive finnaly worked out what youre avatar means. wow.

I say just text her the truth, dont fluff it up with crap. but if shes saying "Why didnt you come". and you say why, then shes probably just an attention ***** / gobby / teasing you etc.


This is particularly true if the reason she was in hospital was for some attention grabbing cry for help self harm/suicide shit.

Actually don't listen to me, I'm just bitter having been close to too many clingy unstable women. Both me, my brother and my cousin have had to arrange psychatric help for at least one girlfriend (my cousin actually had his fiance locked up in the secure unit), I've seen the suicide attempts, faked pregancies, abusive calls to my family and friends the lot.

Um wow, that revealed a lot more about me than you wanted to know. Anyways, take care of yourselves and each other.
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apologise, tell her the reason you couldn't go and see her, and then go see her ASAP. when you get there, try and imitate this picture exactly.


you can't do it like that it's too forward you have to be consoleing like so
#27
just walk up to her, unzip your fly and start nobin her, it may get you in her goo books, or it may get you in prision, either way u may enjoy it.
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